Ask Me a Question v 12.26.2021

Yes I am.
What was in the most surprising PM you received?
A long vocaroo. Nothing dirty or even really flirty in it.
But 20 min of talk and discussion about life and everything. It was utterly amazing and touched me in ways that surprised me. Surprised me deeply.
Yeah.... I'll never forget it. No matter what happens.

Did Lit help you discover any kinks or just sexy things that you didn't know you liked? (and if so, what????)
 
A long vocaroo. Nothing dirty or even really flirty in it.
But 20 min of talk and discussion about life and everything. It was utterly amazing and touched me in ways that surprised me. Surprised me deeply.
Yeah.... I'll never forget it. No matter what happens.

Did Lit help you discover any kinks or just sexy things that you didn't know you liked? (and if so, what????)
Yes--photo tributes. 😮🤤

What do you think is your darkest sexual turn on/fantasy?
 
Blindfolds.... (see what I did there? I mean...)

Do you prefer sex completely in the dark, with a little light - say from a TV or adjacent bathroom - or lights on all the way?
Just a little light. Enough to see each other but not highlight all my flaws.

What's the best gift you've ever received?
 
Just a little light. Enough to see each other but not highlight all my flaws.

What's the best gift you've ever received?
Psychologically it was love, the incredible gift, well, everyone who ever loved me gave me. In terms of physical things - there was a time when I was young and struggling and a family friend gave me a used car. Nothing fancy, just a solid little used sedan. I remember that, so have paid that gift forward a half dozen times, in the same form - giving someone who I knew who needed it a dependable car.

What do you consider to be the best gift you've ever given?
 
Psychologically it was love, the incredible gift, well, everyone who ever loved me gave me. In terms of physical things - there was a time when I was young and struggling and a family friend gave me a used car. Nothing fancy, just a solid little used sedan. I remember that, so have paid that gift forward a half dozen times, in the same form - giving someone who I knew who needed it a dependable car.

What do you consider to be the best gift you've ever given?
My time. If I give you my time, you're important to me because my time is precious.

What is your favorite quote?
 
Tempus Edax Rerum (Time, that devours all things).

What is you favorite song lyric?
The second (?) verse of Birdy's "Keeping Your Head Up" comes to mind.
Everyone keeps a darker place
To lose control, you're not alone
And when you come looking for embrace
I know your soul
I'll be your home
Til you can breathe on your own

Do you prefer sad songs or mood boosters when you have a bad day?
 
The second (?) verse of Birdy's "Keeping Your Head Up" comes to mind.
Everyone keeps a darker place
To lose control, you're not alone
And when you come looking for embrace
I know your soul
I'll be your home
Til you can breathe on your own

Do you prefer sad songs or mood boosters when you have a bad day?
Mood boosters, definitely. My "Happy" play list is 5 hours of pure joy

Do you stick to one genre of music, or do you skip around?
 
Just ordinary sex toys. Never used anything that wasn't purpose built for it.

What was the last thing you cooked from scratch?
Well, I was going to make a cake from scratch, but I went to the store and they were all out of scratch....

I suppose it depends on what you consider "from scratch." I'm going to go with cookies last winter.

What did you last buy from Amazon?
 
Well, I was going to make a cake from scratch, but I went to the store and they were all out of scratch....

I suppose it depends on what you consider "from scratch." I'm going to go with cookies last winter.

What did you last buy from Amazon?
Lamps

When did you last buy a sex toy?
 
One who’s confident and funny. I mean there’s more, but not typing it all out here☺️.

What do think of public displays of affection?
I'm a horrible hypocrite. I want to do them with someone special to show the world "she's mine."
I don't want to watch others do the same thing. LOL

OK, in general, as long as their tasteful, I think it's great.

What is the biggest turn off for you?
 
I'm a horrible hypocrite. I want to do them with someone special to show the world "she's mine."
I don't want to watch others do the same thing. LOL

OK, in general, as long as their tasteful, I think it's great.

What is the biggest turn off for you?
Being mean or rude to others. Be kind and show kindness.

What annoys you the most in a partner?
 
This is tough. I think for me intellect is really important. Someone who is smart and interesting and interested in life.

Why is sex important in a relationship? (a romantic one obviously).
For most it’s an intimate experience that feels good. It’s a perk of being together and in a safe place to explore things.

How important is sex in a romantic relationship?
 
This is tough. I think for me intellect is really important. Someone who is smart and interesting and interested in life.

Why is sex important in a relationship? (a romantic one obviously).
It doesn't have to be, but it's great if it does.

How much of good sex is technique and appearance and how much is personality and good nature?
 
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