Ask Me a Question v 12.26.2021

[lakesailer_mi]

For most it’s an intimate experience that feels good. It’s a perk of being together and in a safe place to explore things.

How important is sex in a romantic relationship?

Honestly, I think for me, it's pretty important. For me it's what separates mere friendship from something deeper and more intimate.
That might be shallow. I certainly have friends with whome I've shared myself quite intimately although not physically.
But for me it's really important.

It doesn't have to be, but it's great if it does.

How much of good sex is technique and appearance and how much is personality and good nature?

I think in all honesty I think good sex is complicated. Fundementally, it's about a connection between people. It's in the head. I think about two kids, new to the whole thing, fumbling in the back of a car. That can be some of the best sex ever because they were excited to be there. Thrilled to be together, wanting each other.
Certainly technique can matter. But two people committed to each other, with desire and passion can learn to please each other (communication!). But the best technician, who is disinterested and not excited about being there, is not going to be much fun.
Connection, communication, desire, passion. Wanting each other.

What's your funniest story about things going wrong during sex?

 

[Noor]

Honestly, I think for me, it's pretty important. For me it's what separates mere friendship from something deeper and more intimate.
That might be shallow. I certainly have friends with whome I've shared myself quite intimately although not physically.
But for me it's really important.


I think in all honesty I think good sex is complicated. Fundementally, it's about a connection between people. It's in the head. I think about two kids, new to the whole thing, fumbling in the back of a car. That can be some of the best sex ever because they were excited to be there. Thrilled to be together, wanting each other.
Certainly technique can matter. But two people committed to each other, with desire and passion can learn to please each other (communication!). But the best technician, who is disinterested and not excited about being there, is not going to be much fun.
Connection, communication, desire, passion. Wanting each other.

What's your funniest story about things going wrong during sex?

Not sure it's my funniest but it was at the time.
My first love who was a druggy at the time and I were having sex after not having seen each other for a bit so we were kind of chatting too and he suddenly remembers to mention that he took something right before he came to see me. I start to ask him when did he think it would kick in and at that moment he passes out cold on top and in me. I started laughing and rolled him off. I also took a picture of his face. I still have it somewhere, kind of a blissed out stoned look. It still makes me laugh.

What's your funniest sex story.

 

[Paul_Chance]

What's your funniest sex story.

The one I still laugh about it this one: I'd stopped to visit some friends, a good friend of mine, his girlfriend, and her older sister. My friend and his girlfriend had left to make a run to the local liquor store. The older sister and I flirted a bit, innocent but intentional, and the next thing we were all tangled up and sweaty, post-coitus. We were laying there, naked, and out the blue she blurted: "Well, that sure beat playing dominoes." Without any related context. I still laugh about that to this day.

What was the funniest sexual thing you saw (but didn't participate in it)?

 

[Noor]

The one I still laugh about it this one: I'd stopped to visit some friends, a good friend of mine, his girlfriend, and her older sister. My friend and his girlfriend had left to make a run to the local liquor store. The older sister and I flirted a bit, innocent but intentional, and the next thing we were all tangled up and sweaty, post-coitus. We were laying there, naked, and out the blue she blurted: "Well, that sure beat playing dominoes." Without any related context. I still laugh about that to this day.

What was the funniest sexual thing you saw (but didn't participate in it)?

I was at a big concert at the state capitol and of their two of the roadies were kind of talking to each other standing to the right of the stage and getting closer and closer while the band was playing, and eventually they started making out, and somehow became oblivious to their surrounds. So the audience is now all watching this and wondering when clothes will be flying off, and the band starts to notice, and eventually points out that there are two tour buses sitting right over there, the couple tours beat red, splits up, and begins to head to the tour buses. Everyone including the band was laughing so hard.

what was the weirdest place you had sex outside?

 

[NeonSubtlety]

Literotica acquaintances and strangers, how often do you have sexual dreams? I’m asking for a friend…

 

[Noor]

Literotica acquaintances and strangers, how often do you have sexual dreams? I’m asking for a friend…

usually twice a week plus more when I am sexually interested in someone

 

[Noor]

usually twice a week plus more when I am sexually interested in someone

how often do you think about your lover?

 

[Paul_Chance]

how often do you think about your lover?

Daily. Probably every couple of hours, I think about one lover or the others.

Do you seek out opportunities to meet strangers?

 

[RideFl71]

Daily. Probably every couple of hours, I think about one lover or the others.

Do you seek out opportunities to meet strangers?

In my head yes... Real life no.

When at the gym and in the showers do you look at others or head down?

 

[Paul_Chance]

In my head yes... Real life no.

When at the gym and in the showers do you look at others or head down?

My gym has some pretty discrete showers, so I mostly don't even think about the others, other than to say hello to my friends. There is no real need for the head down don't make eye contact thing you see in some gyms.

Are you comfortable being naked around relative strangers?

 

[Noor]

My gym has some pretty discrete showers, so I mostly don't even think about the others, other than to say hello to my friends. There is no real need for the head down don't make eye contact thing you see in some gyms.

Are you comfortable being naked around relative strangers?

No. I use private showers. I had skinny dipped but that’s different.
How long does it take for you to take off your clothes when having sex?

 

[Paul_Chance]

No. I use private showers. I had skinny dipped but that’s different.
How long does it take for you to take off your clothes when having sex?

Oh, that just depends on the encounter. Some call for the slow undressing over extended periods of time, other's I'm as fast as a magician with tear-away pants.

Have you ever been in the middle of sex and suddenly had to stop and get dressed very quickly?

 

[Azuldrgon]

No. I use private showers. I had skinny dipped but that’s different.
How long does it take for you to take off your clothes when having sex?

I think it depends on the situation.
My favorite kind at times is when we undress each other. Seems more passionate that way.

Do you prefer to wear special underclothes when anticipating sex or does it matter?

 

[Azuldrgon]

Oh, that just depends on the encounter. Some call for the slow undressing over extended periods of time, other's I'm as fast as a magician with tear-away pants.

Have you ever been in the middle of sex and suddenly had to stop and get dressed very quickly?

That's the fun of having young kids.

My above question please.

 

[Paul_Chance]

I think it depends on the situation.
My favorite kind at times is when we undress each other. Seems more passionate that way.

Do you prefer to wear special underclothes when anticipating sex or does it matter?

Makes no difference to me. They're just underwear.

How did you seduce the last person you seduced?

 

[GiggLeGasm]

I think it depends on the situation.
My favorite kind at times is when we undress each other. Seems more passionate that way.

Do you prefer to wear special underclothes when anticipating sex or does it matter?

I tend to wear special underclothes for work, events, dates, etc.. so I guess sex would be on that list

What is the last thing you forgot?

 

[Azuldrgon]

I tend to wear special underclothes for work, events, dates, etc.. so I guess sex would be on that list

What is the last thing you forgot?

I knew I was going to my favorite coffee shop this morning with my favorite barista. I forgot to wear the chains I usually wear and forgot to wake up earlier. By the time I got there after my lab work, she was slammed wth folks. So I didn't get my hug.

When was the last time you forgot someone's name you liked during a conversation or otherwise?

 

[Noor]

I tend to wear special underclothes for work, events, dates, etc.. so I guess sex would be on that list

What is the last thing you forgot?

Saying some one looked like Patrick Stewart apparently... I can't remember ever saying that and it seems unlikely, but I guess I must have ?

Makes no difference to me. They're just underwear.

How did you seduce the last person you seduced?

I wore them down
Through my words, it was something specific to them

Do you only seduce people who want to be seduced?

 

[Noor]

I knew I was going to my favorite coffee shop this morning with my favorite barista. I forgot to wear the chains I usually wear and forgot to wake up earlier. By the time I got there after my lab work, she was slammed wth folks. So I didn't get my hug.

When was the last time you forgot someone's name you liked during a conversation or otherwise?

No doubt this week. I don't remember names very well esp is I am very sleep or in pain, and this week I have not had much sleep.

How often do you want to sleep at night and have sex in the morning?

 

[Azuldrgon]

No doubt this week. I don't remember names very well esp is I am very sleep or in pain, and this week I have not had much sleep.

How often do you want to sleep at night and have sex in the morning?

With my crush, every night I could.

Are you a morning cuddler or a morning grump?

 

[SadieAnne]

I’m alone in the mornings so I’m a get myself together kinda gal.
I’d be a cuddler on the weekends though!

What time do you wake up for work?

 

[Noor]

I’m alone in the mornings so I’m a get myself together kinda gal.
I’d be a cuddler on the weekends though!

What time do you wake up for work?

Whenever I have to. I try to work afternoon to evening, but if I must I will do mornings.
I wake up at least 90 minutes before the first meeting.
Do you have an ongoing weekly meeting outside of work?

 

[Azuldrgon]

Whenever I have to. I try to work afternoon to evening, but if I must I will do mornings.
I wake up at least 90 minutes before the first meeting.
Do you have an ongoing weekly meeting outside of work?

Thankfully no.

What do you like to do when you are off work, but not home yet?

 

[Noor]

Thankfully no.

What do you like to do when you are off work, but not home yet?

I work from home. And I swear I never feel like I’m off work however, prior to Covid I would meet friends, go to class, the museum, listen to music in the parks, go sledding.
Is The pandemic over for you?

 

[Azuldrgon]

I work from home. And I swear I never feel like I’m off work however, prior to Covid I would meet friends, go to class, the museum, listen to music in the parks, go sledding.
Is The pandemic over for you?

For the most part. It's more like it was then it was during the pandemic.

What music do you like to chill to?