Ask Me a Question v 12.26.2021

No, but I have shied away from folks whose kinks are on my hard no list.

What normal habit of yours would make a good kink if you could?
No, but I have shied away from folks whose kinks are on my hard no list.

What normal habit of yours would make a good kink if you could?
I love to read a lot and sometimes I like to read and distract myself while my husband tries to make me cum. So maybe some kind of weird reading challenge orgasm delaying kink….

Favorite kink that you don’t think should be considered kinky.
 
I love to read a lot and sometimes I like to read and distract myself while my husband tries to make me cum. So maybe some kind of weird reading challenge orgasm delaying kink….

Favorite kink that you don’t think should be considered kinky.
🤗
spanking. I mean it's so mainstream now.

Favorite kink folks would be surprised you indulge in.
 
Do you prefer anal or vagina sex?
Honest answer, whichever one she wants.
If it were up to me, I'd go vaginal only because Anal is more prep needed and not always the best option in my opinion, not that I would turn it down.

When with your soulmate, do you prefer adventurous sex or more romantic sex?
 
Honest answer, whichever one she wants.
If it were up to me, I'd go vaginal only because Anal is more prep needed and not always the best option in my opinion, not that I would turn it down.

When with your soulmate, do you prefer adventurous sex or more romantic sex?
Don't have one of those. I want to experience romance novel sex.

What do you call your current romantic partner?
 
What do you call your current romantic partner?
Baby, to start. There's a few more pet names, but that's private.

Is there something you have from a current or past love that always makes you smile when you see it?
 
Baby, to start. There's a few more pet names, but that's private.

Is there something you have from a current or past love that always makes you smile when you see it?
Yes, several things. Probably my favorite non-sexual thing is a jacket a lover gave me in exchange for my jacket. I smile when I see it and wonder if she does the same with my old jacket.

How important is empathy to your relationships?
 
Considering that I try to be friends before anything else, huge.

What is the farthest you have traveled to be with a friend?
6300+ miles. (San Diego to Rome).

When was the last time you danced naked in your living room?
 
ten years ago maybe?

When was the last time you danced naked in someone else's living room?
 
ten years ago maybe?

When was the last time you danced naked in someone else's living room?
That would be never. Not sure I've actually danced naked in my OWN living room.


When was the last time you danced in public.
 
27 years this January.

What is the one thing you miss the most about a former lover?
 
What is the one thing you miss the most about a former lover?
I am so wrapped up in the one I’m with that I haven’t thought about that in ages. I.e I don’t miss anything.

What is the shortest relationship you have had?
 
I am so wrapped up in the one I’m with that I haven’t thought about that in ages. I.e I don’t miss anything.

What is the shortest relationship you have had?

About 6 months, I believe.

Are you happy with your appearance?
 
Are you @alwaysaway happy with yours?
I'm not sure about him, but I know I have moments where I wish for better features sometimes.

There's a big gift under the tree for your SO/lover. What did you get them if money was not an issue? (figuratively since I don't want to spoil any surprises.)
 
I'm not sure about him, but I know I have moments where I wish for better features sometimes.

There's a big gift under the tree for your SO/lover. What did you get them if money was not an issue? (figuratively since I don't want to spoil any surprises.)
Some kind of ridiculously overpriced fast car.

Would you Rob a bank if there was a guarantee you’d never get caught?
 
No because I'd feel guilty.

What is a holiday during this time of year you don' celebrate, but are curious about?
In all honesty, I'm pretty curious about all of them. I think my top three would be Kwanzaa, Diwali and Hanukah. And for me, the curiosity is more about individual stories. I can read on Wikipedia about each of them, but that doesn't really help me understand them as a part of the human experience. I would love to hear stories of family traditions that are deeply important to a person. I want to hear their stories. I want to laugh with them and even tear up a little as they reminisce about relatives and friends with whom they had important and memorable celebrations. That's what I'm curious about. And I've had some of these, so, I know how moving and important they can be. I'd also add Ramadan but it's not "this time of year" (I might be pushing it with Diwali).

What is your funniest holiday story of any tradition?
 
What is your funniest holiday story of any tradition?
Thanksgiving at my house here has been funny. Ever since I moved back to the PNW in 1998, we have celebrated Thanksgiving with my wife's family since mine is on the East Coast. Every year, I get sent to the store on that day to get something my wife or her mom forgot. I always take the sister-in-law's husband. When her Mom died in 2008, we started putting a bottle of vanilla on the table as a decoration to remember the Meatloaf story. Long story short, my wife cooked a meatloaf with vanilla in it when she was a teenager.

That was long. How are you feeling today?
 
Thanksgiving at my house here has been funny. Ever since I moved back to the PNW in 1998, we have celebrated Thanksgiving with my wife's family since mine is on the East Coast. Every year, I get sent to the store on that day to get something my wife or her mom forgot. I always take the sister-in-law's husband. When her Mom died in 2008, we started putting a bottle of vanilla on the table as a decoration to remember the Meatloaf story. Long story short, my wife cooked a meatloaf with vanilla in it when she was a teenager.

That was long. How are you feeling today?
Hugs Azul baby :kiss:

It's along and complicated as everything lol

If something is indescribable, isn't already described?
 
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