Ask Me a Question v 12.26.2021

[Cyber_Bella]

Yes, me too.

I try to have time to take pictures. A humble hobby photographer.

What's your favorite travel destination?

I really love Georgia and the southern states. I really want to explore more of the Georgia coastline.
What do you use Lit for the most?

 

[Cogan]

I really love Georgia and the southern states. I really want to explore more of the Georgia coastline.
What do you use Lit for the most?

Check in on different threads, leave quick comments and have light conversations. Sometimes the conversations gets deeper too.
I read a lot more here before, it was so I found the place.

Same question.

 

[Cyber_Bella]

Check in on different threads, leave quick comments and have light conversations. Sometimes the conversations gets deeper too.
I read a lot more here before, it was so I found the place.

Same question.

Mostly time filler. I’ve had interesting conversations, but generally they don’t go anywhere.
Favorite Lit thread?

 

[lakesailer_mi]

Mostly time filler. I’ve had interesting conversations, but generally they don’t go anywhere.
Favorite Lit thread?

You mean other than my own? Why, yours of course.
And the ask me a question, etc type threads, and the word games.

How often do watch porn videos?

 

[Cyber_Bella]

You mean other than my own? Why, yours of course.
And the ask me a question, etc type threads, and the word games.

How often do watch porn videos?

I only watch clips or videos recommended or liked on here. So, not often.
what about you?

 

[lakesailer_mi]

I only watch clips or videos recommended or liked on here. So, not often.
what about you?

Yeah, it depends. I have stretches where I've been pretty "regular" (weekly or even more), and then times when it's been weeks or months that I haven't. Right now, not so often.

Do you find visual or aural stimulation to be more important?

 

[Deleted member 3041612]

Yeah, it depends. I have stretches where I've been pretty "regular" (weekly or even more), and then times when it's been weeks or months that I haven't. Right now, not so often.

Do you find visual or aural stimulation to be more important?

It depends on the mood. One, the other or maybe even both if the need for fulfillment is there.

Are you the giving or the receiving type?

 

[Cyber_Bella]

Yeah, it depends. I have stretches where I've been pretty "regular" (weekly or even more), and then times when it's been weeks or months that I haven't. Right now, not so often.

Do you find visual or aural stimulation to be more important?

I like both, but for some reason aural really gets me going.

I’m the giving type. Very much a pleaser.

what would you consider yourself?

 

[lakesailer_mi]

It depends on the mood. One, the other or maybe even both if the need for fulfillment is there.

Are you the giving or the receiving type?

I like both, but for some reason aural really gets me going.

I’m the giving type. Very much a pleaser.

what would you consider yourself?

I think it varies for me. In many ways I'm a giver. This comes up at work as I do "too much" service stuff. I think I tend to give, but I get resentful and angry then.
I need to get something back. What, depends on my situation.
Sexually, I think I'm a little more balanced. I do enjoy (receive gratification) from giving my partner pleasure. There I need to hear that back though. I need to know that I'm generating that kind of pleasure. So, I need vocal (and visual ) or in the case of Lit at least written confirmation that I'm achieving that?
I guess what I'm saying is that I can be quite the giver, but I need to be appreciated?

But I'm also one who sometimes just likes to be the center of attention, to "take." Again it depends on the situation what that means. At work it can mean ignoring the needs of others to do my own stuff. In friendships it can mean being the recipient of things like help, and advice, and "a shoulder to cry on" without reciprocating well (although I think I do in most cases). Sexually it can me focusing a lot on my own orgasm and not on hers at all. I know I was like this much more as a younger man. As I got older I found pleasure in the giving too.

Do you like to be in charge/control or give up control?

 

[Cyber_Bella]

I think it varies for me. In many ways I'm a giver. This comes up at work as I do "too much" service stuff. I think I tend to give, but I get resentful and angry then.
I need to get something back. What, depends on my situation.
Sexually, I think I'm a little more balanced. I do enjoy (receive gratification) from giving my partner pleasure. There I need to hear that back though. I need to know that I'm generating that kind of pleasure. So, I need vocal (and visual ) or in the case of Lit at least written confirmation that I'm achieving that?
I guess what I'm saying is that I can be quite the giver, but I need to be appreciated?

But I'm also one who sometimes just likes to be the center of attention, to "take." Again it depends on the situation what that means. At work it can mean ignoring the needs of others to do my own stuff. In friendships it can mean being the recipient of things like help, and advice, and "a shoulder to cry on" without reciprocating well (although I think I do in most cases). Sexually it can me focusing a lot on my own orgasm and not on hers at all. I know I was like this much more as a younger man. As I got older I found pleasure in the giving too.

Do you like to be in charge/control or give up control?

I’m give and take. I’m definitely not a submissive nor a domme. I like loving, erotic encounters.
Do you like being in control?

 

[kentuckymtnman]

I’m give and take. I’m definitely not a submissive nor a domme. I like loving, erotic encounters.
Do you like being in control?

At work 100%
At home shared
Sexually I am 100% a pleaser

What sexual activities are off limits for you?

 

[Paul_Chance]

At work 100%
At home shared
Sexually I am 100% a pleaser

What sexual activities are off limits for you?

Next to none.

What band t-shirt do you have, cherish, and wear regularly?

 

[PlotDriven]

Grateful Dead

Last concert you went to?

 

[kentuckymtnman]

Grateful Dead

Last concert you went to?

T-shirt Styx
Concert Elton John… or my grandson’s band concert if that counts.

Performer you saw who surprised you?in a good or bad way….

(Years ago Johnny Mathis opened the new performing arts center in Tulsa… I was soooo disappointed… then the concert… utterly captivating performance. They seriously could not have done better.)

 

[bobb_sledd]

T-shirt Styx
Concert Elton John… or my grandson’s band concert if that counts.

Performer you saw who surprised you?in a good or bad way….

(Years ago Johnny Mathis opened the new performing arts center in Tulsa… I was soooo disappointed… then the concert… utterly captivating performance. They seriously could not have done better.)

Went with my wife (a serious fan) to a Depeche Mode concert knowing it wasn’t really my kind of music. Ended up having a great time.

What was the last purchased item you returned for a full refund?

 

[lakesailer_mi]

Solenoid switch for a fox body mustang.

How often do you go swimming?

Only when I fuck up a jibe in heavy air...so, it's been a while! LOL..
No, we swim off the boat sometimes when it's hot. I haven't been to a pool in years though.

How often do you go hiking?

 

[Cyber_Bella]

Only when I fuck up a jibe in heavy air...so, it's been a while! LOL..
No, we swim off the boat sometimes when it's hot. I haven't been to a pool in years though.

How often do you go hiking?

As often as I can. It’s one of my favorite things.
What is one past time you could do for the rest of your life and not grow bored?

 

[lakesailer_mi]

As often as I can. It’s one of my favorite things.
What is one past time you could do for the rest of your life and not grow bored?

You mean, besides sex, right?
I think maybe sailing. I think camping and hiking, as long as I can go to new places. Travel in general.

Do you have a creative outlet you pursue for fun?

 

[Cyber_Bella]

You mean, besides sex, right?
I think maybe sailing. I think camping and hiking, as long as I can go to new places. Travel in general.

Do you have a creative outlet you pursue for fun?

Sometimes I do little art projects or house projects. For example, last summer I resurfaced my kitchen countertops with volcanic spread rock. I also added a backsplash. However, my passion is baking.
what are you passionate about?

 

[lakesailer_mi]

Sometimes I do little art projects or house projects. For example, last summer I resurfaced my kitchen countertops with volcanic spread rock. I also added a backsplash. However, my passion is baking.
what are you passionate about?

Oh that's cool, I like that!

My work. I do like it (contrary to my kvetching in the cove sometimes) and I'm proud of what I do. It can be very rewarding.
Sailing I guess too. At least at times.

I find I tend to be very competitive, so I'm actually working on "fun things" that I don't feel so passionate about. I can relax and enjoy them? Does that make sense.

Who do you admire?

 

[Cyber_Bella]

Oh that's cool, I like that!

My work. I do like it (contrary to my kvetching in the cove sometimes) and I'm proud of what I do. It can be very rewarding.
Sailing I guess too. At least at times.

I find I tend to be very competitive, so I'm actually working on "fun things" that I don't feel so passionate about. I can relax and enjoy them? Does that make sense.

Who do you admire?

Dolly Parton. She’s a keen businesswoman, heart of gold, and never has an unkind word for anyone. She’s inspiring with her rags to riches story.

Do you find a certain Litster or Litsters irresistible?

 

[lakesailer_mi]

Dolly Parton. She’s a keen businesswoman, heart of gold, and never has an unkind word for anyone. She’s inspiring with her rags to riches story.

Do you find a certain Litster or Litsters irresistible?

She is definitely a good person who I can admire too!

Oh, that's such a complicated question. I would say no. But there have been some that I feel or felt especially drawn to in various ways. I think that's the best I can do for an answer.

How many times have you had your heart broken at Lit?

 

[Cyber_Bella]

She is definitely a good person who I can admire too!

Oh, that's such a complicated question. I would say no. But there have been some that I feel or felt especially drawn to in various ways. I think that's the best I can do for an answer.

How many times have you had your heart broken at Lit?

None. I’ve been disappointed by a few, but never had my heart broken.

Same question.

 

[lakesailer_mi]

None. I’ve been disappointed by a few, but never had my heart broken.

Same question.

Dammit.
Yes. I'd say twice. I admit though that in both cases, I played a role. There are no "innocents" in that stuff.

On a more cheery note. What's your funniest "got interrupted" story?

 

[Cyber_Bella]

Dammit.
Yes.

On a more cheery note. What's your funniest "got interrupted" story?

I was having sex, on top…really riding him hard. I suddenly heard, “Mooooo!” My little dog decided to play with his stuffed cow that mooed. We both cracked up laughing and couldn’t finish.
Same question.