Ask Me Anything

[Noor]

I prefer my women naked

but is there really such a thing as sleazy lingerie?

whatever my woman wears for me I want her to feel sexy and beautiful because that is what she is to me

There is cheap uncomfortable lingerie.
I would rather have a nice soft tshirt

I prefer wearing sesame oil or honey dust Maybe some of my favorite perfume and a lover...

 

[J D Danger]

There is cheap uncomfortable lingerie.
I would rather have a nice soft tshirt

I prefer wearing sesame oil or honey dust Maybe some of my favorite perfume and a lover...

I must say I like the way your mind works....I would wear you

I am a big fan of the t-shirt and PJ pants look on a woman...I call it the Helen Hunt...LOL

 

[Noor]

I must say I like the way your mind works....I would wear you

I am a big fan of the t-shirt and PJ pants look on a woman...I call it the Helen Hunt...LOL

how about just a tshirt or large man's shirt?

Did you see Helen Hunt in "The sessions?"

 

[J D Danger]

how about just a tshirt or large man's shirt?

Did you see Helen Hunt in "The sessions?"

a woman in nothing but a man's shirt is always hot!

I have not seen The sessions yet...but I want to...seems an interesting story

 

[Noor]

a woman in nothing but a man's shirt is always hot!

I have not seen The sessions yet...but I want to...seems an interesting story

It was, I found it very interesting, it made me want to live in California. We don't have sexual surrogates in my state and I could have used one.

Do men realize how sexy they are in a suit or even just a button front shirt and pleated trousers?

 

[J D Danger]

It was, I found it very interesting, it made me want to live in California. We don't have sexual surrogates in my state and I could have used one.

Do men realize how sexy they are in a suit or even just a button front shirt and pleated trousers?

sexual surrogates and sex therapy are two things that have interested me for a long time

have you seen my profile pic?...I don't dress up much but when I do...I look good and I know it...I think most guys are that way

 

[Noor]

sexual surrogates and sex therapy are two things that have interested me for a long time

have you seen my profile pic?...I don't dress up much but when I do...I look good and I know it...I think most guys are that way

In a way, I had sexual phone therapy

Yes, I have seen it. Most guys look good that way but don't use it to their advantage (or ours )

What are your thoughts on sexual healing?

 

[J D Danger]

In a way, I had sexual phone therapy

Yes, I have seen it. Most guys look good that way but don't use it to their advantage (or ours )

What are your thoughts on sexual healing?

I love phone sex!!!

sexual behavior is all about confidence...if you have it you will use it to get what you want and confidence is sexy so if you have it you will not have to work hard

but confidence is a slippery sloop

sexual healing the song?...love it!!!

no I think anytime sex can be used to bring joy and heal the soul it should be...but I don't know much about sexual healing....I would love to learn more

 

[Noor]

I love phone sex!!!

sexual behavior is all about confidence...if you have it you will use it to get what you want and confidence is sexy so if you have it you will not have to work hard

but confidence is a slippery sloop

sexual healing the song?...love it!!!

no I think anytime sex can be used to bring joy and heal the soul it should be...but I don't know much about sexual healing....I would love to learn more

I love phone sex too but finding a good reliable partner can be difficult.

Sometimes there is more to healing sexually than just confidence, there is physical, emotional and neurological. I think the physical and neurological is where sexual therapy comes in. I was lucky... in my case it helped heal my body.

Why do people accept no longer feeling sexual? I see it in men and in women.

 

[J D Danger]

I love phone sex too but finding a good reliable partner can be difficult.

Sometimes there is more to healing sexually than just confidence, there is physical, emotional and neurological. I think the physical and neurological is where sexual therapy comes in. I was lucky... in my case it helped heal my body.

Why do people accept no longer feeling sexual? I see it in men and in women.

Define reliable

I have no doubt there is more to the need for sexual healing then regaining confidence...but I feel a great deal of the damage done that requires sexual healing has roots in lack of or loss of confidence

I don't think many people who accept no longer feeling sexual feel they have a choice...

they don't see themselves as sexy and they have no one they can trust telling them they are so there comes a time where they say what is the point? and that part of them shuts down

 

[Noor]

Define reliable

I have no doubt there is more to the need for sexual healing then regaining confidence...but I feel a great deal of the damage done that requires sexual healing has roots in lack of or loss of confidence

I don't think many people who accept no longer feeling sexual feel they have a choice...

they don't see themselves as sexy and they have no one they can trust telling them they are so there comes a time where they say what is the point? and that part of them shuts down

Reliable-trustworthy, one whose word can be depended upon.

I am not sure it's a choice or that it is externally dependent but that they just stop feeling it slowly over time and no longer care. When it happened to me, it was so quick, I noticed and I wanted the color back in my world.

Has it ever happened to you?

 

[J D Danger]

Reliable-trustworthy, one whose word can be depended upon.

I am not sure it's a choice or that it is externally dependent but that they just stop feeling it slowly over time and no longer care. When it happened to me, it was so quick, I noticed and I wanted the color back in my world.

Has it ever happened to you?

I agree I think it happens slowly over time and they stop caring

why did it happen to you?

I don't know that I have ever not felt sexual...when I am in the mood I tend to go caveman....

growl..grunt...grab them by the hair toss them down and...

but I feel unwanted and not good enough for anyone all the time...I lack confidence alot

I am in one of those no longer care moods right now....I have not shaved in forever..because I just don't give a fuck

 

[Noor]

I agree I think it happens slowly over time and they stop caring

why did it happen to you?

I don't know that I have ever not felt sexual...when I am in the mood I tend to go caveman....

growl..grunt...grab them by the hair toss them down and...

but I feel unwanted and not good enough for anyone all the time...I lack confidence alot

I am in one of those no longer care moods right now....I have not shaved in forever..because I just don't give a fuck

An unexpected surgeon's knife. It's very weird to wake up to find the world has suddenly become black and white.

I never go caveman, I tend to be more interactive. I may be unwanted or rejected by individuals but there are always men to twinkle with, I never feel not good enough for anyone, although at times I suppose I could be.
I stay away from people I might hurt if I am not feeling responsible. I rarely, if ever, shave regardless but I am somewhat of hairless anyway.
I am sorry.

How did you get out of these moods?

 

[GorgeousGeekGirl]

Noor asked:

why do men give sleezy lingerie to women who don't want sex?

Why don't they give them gift certificates to Figleaves or somewhere that has nice lingerie?
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Because to a man sleazy lingerie is good lingerie. So is classy, skimpy, tight, see through, slutty, satin, chiffon, leather, feather, vinyl, velour, velvet, whorish, school girl, cheerleader, naughty nurse, naughty Santa helper, mistress spanks-a-lot... You get where I'm going with this? Men want sex, and they want women who want sex, and they want women to look like they want sex. Stupidest commercial on tv is that pajama gram commercial where they are trying to tell men that hooded onsies are what they should buy their wives for valentines day. If your man buys you that for valentines, it's because he is cheating or gay, which means he's cheating with a man.

As far as why they buy it for wives with no interest in sex, the message is "I still want sex from you, but keep turning me down and I'll find another woman who will wear this". Don't believe me? Think of all the men you see here on lit because they don't get action at home. Which reminds me, I wonder what color silk boxers my lit playmate would like...

 

[Noor]

Because to a man sleazy lingerie is good lingerie. So is classy, skimpy, tight, see through, slutty, satin, chiffon, leather, feather, vinyl, velour, velvet, whorish, school girl, cheerleader, naughty nurse, naughty Santa helper, mistress spanks-a-lot... You get where I'm going with this? Men want sex, and they want women who want sex, and they want women to look like they want sex. Stupidest commercial on tv is that pajama gram commercial where they are trying to tell men that hooded onsies are what they should buy their wives for valentines day. If your man buys you that for valentines, it's because he is cheating or gay, which means he's cheating with a man.

As far as why they buy it for wives with no interest in sex, the message is "I still want sex from you, but keep turning me down and I'll find another woman who will wear this". Don't believe me? Think of all the men you see here on lit because they don't get action at home. Which reminds me, I wonder what color silk boxers my lit playmate would like...

I notice that men who love women, all women, are more likely to give good quailty lingerie, amazing chocolate, eroscillators and memory foam toppers of course those men you want to have sex without any gifts.

By the way, I could use a couple Lanz nightgowns for next winter They have nice buttons down the front and easy access, I am much more into sex if I am warm

 

[J D Danger]

An unexpected surgeon's knife. It's very weird to wake up to find the world has suddenly become black and white.

I never go caveman, I tend to be more interactive. I may be unwanted or rejected by individuals but there are always men to twinkle with, I never feel not good enough for anyone, although at times I suppose I could be.
I stay away from people I might hurt if I am not feeling responsible. I rarely, if ever, shave regardless but I am somewhat of hairless anyway.
I am sorry.

How did you get out of these moods?

oh I can be caring loving and gentle too

I take very good care of women I am with most of them just like the caveman..he shuts up and fucks them...LOL

loving and firm I am

why are you sorry?

how do I get out of them?...who knows...a late night phone call..my writing...a talk with a good friend...a good movie...sunshine

 

[J D Danger]

I notice that men who love women, all women, are more likely to give good quailty lingerie, amazing chocolate, eroscillators and memory foam toppers of course those men you want to have sex without any gifts.

By the way, I could use a couple Lanz nightgowns for next winter They have nice buttons down the front and easy access, I am much more into sex if I am warm

the first part is true

and the second part sounds sexy to me

 

[Noor]

oh I can be caring loving and gentle too

I take very good care of women I am with most of them just like the caveman..he shuts up and fucks them...LOL

loving and firm I am

why are you sorry?

but I feel unwanted and not good enough for anyone all the time...I lack confidence alot

how do I get out of them?...who knows...a late night phone call..my writing...a talk with a good friend...a good movie...sunshine

Your description of caveman sex sounds kind of limited to me, perhaps you are selling yourself short here?

 

[Noor]

the first part is true

The second part too, Minnesota winters are cold!
Not that I am likely to have sex for gifts, but at least I would be warm

 

[J D Danger]

The second part too, Minnesota winters are cold!
Not that I am likely to have sex for gifts, but at least I would be warm

the second part sounds sexy to me

 

[J D Danger]

Your description of caveman sex sounds kind of limited to me, perhaps you are selling yourself short here?

I am leaving alot of the details of craveman sex out

but selling myself short is a bad habit...I am just starting to break

 

[Noor]

I am leaving alot of the details of craveman sex out

but selling myself short is a bad habit...I am just starting to break

The devil is in the details...

Glad to hear it!

 

[J D Danger]

why do men give sleezy lingerie to women who don't want sex?

Why don't they give them gift certificates to Figleaves or somewhere that has nice lingerie?
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Because to a man sleazy lingerie is good lingerie. So is classy, skimpy, tight, see through, slutty, satin, chiffon, leather, feather, vinyl, velour, velvet, whorish, school girl, cheerleader, naughty nurse, naughty Santa helper, mistress spanks-a-lot... You get where I'm going with this? Men want sex, and they want women who want sex, and they want women to look like they want sex. Stupidest commercial on tv is that pajama gram commercial where they are trying to tell men that hooded onsies are what they should buy their wives for valentines day. If your man buys you that for valentines, it's because he is cheating or gay, which means he's cheating with a man.

As far as why they buy it for wives with no interest in sex, the message is "I still want sex from you, but keep turning me down and I'll find another woman who will wear this". Don't believe me? Think of all the men you see here on lit because they don't get action at home. Which reminds me, I wonder what color silk boxers my lit playmate would like...

if a woman does not want to have sex with her partner

the man need to do whatever he has to find out why

if it has to do with not feeling sexual...he should help her feel sexual or someone else will

 

[Noor]

the second part sounds sexy to me

Yep, I feel sexy in a granny gown

overalls too

 

[J D Danger]

The devil is in the details...

Glad to hear it!

the little devil on my shoulder takes over alot during sex yes