Bi married women!!

You joined in a marriage and it's only fair that you consider his feelings and not go behind his back because he doesn't agree. It's unfortunate that he doesn't support your feelings, but a marriage consists of 2 not 1. You both made the decision to be in a marriage together and if you want it to work, you gotta play by the rules.

Totally...I was trying to get clarification from the poster above me as to what they meant by their post--I was confused by "You have a lot of support to live the life you want to live."

I've NEVER cheated and NEVER will....just goes against my ethics and my beliefs.
 
My husband is aware of my bisexual desires, and he realizes that when I go shopping with the girls, it isnt merely an afternoon spent shopping. We shop; we have lunch; then we have hot and wonderful sex. Usually there are at least three of us, and two days ago I was with Annie and Kay. Between lunch and sex we stopped by my apartment to drop off things I had bought and when we entered we found my husband lying naked on the sofa, watching a prono film on TV and stroking his cock.

Since my husband and I have a domme/sub relationship, I decided to show my friends exactly how I put him through his paces. Before he could dart into the bedroom to hide and dress, I grabbed a fistful of his hair and ordered him to kneel. He obeyed instantly, and as soon as he was on his knees before me, with my left hand still hanging onto his hair, I slapped his face. I slapped him twice: first with my palm; then with the back of my hand. I released his hair. He thanked me and bend down and kissed my feet.

I could hear Annie breathing heavily. Kay giggled until flashed her an angry look. She was quiet, staring wide-eyed as I got the handcuffs and my riding crop. After shackling Billy-boy's hands behind him and ordering him to bend over the arm of an easy chair, I took aim at his white ass and struck. I gave him six fresh red strips across the butt. Took a moment to share a three way embrace and kisses with my friends, then we went into the bedroom. I blindfolded my husband and made him sit on a hard chair beside the bed, then we three girls undressed and lay together in a mass of soft female flesh - kissing and rubbing; licking and biting - coming and coming and then coming again until we were exausted, but Annie had enough strength and desire left to go down on my husband and siphon the cum from him.

As my friends were leaving we agreed to use my man-boy arouse us again - soon.
 
I had to visit this thread again. I've really been thinking about women a lot lately. I'm just so sorry that I never explored women more when I was single.

Sadly hubby isn't into letting me explore. I love watching lesbian porn and I perve some of the chicks in AM pics.

I've already made a promise to myself that if I should ever become single again, I'm taking myself out for drinks to a gay bar!
 
Oh you so got it

My husband is aware of my bisexual desires, and he realizes that when I go shopping with the girls, it isnt merely an afternoon spent shopping. We shop; we have lunch; then we have hot and wonderful sex. Usually there are at least three of us, and two days ago I was with Annie and Kay. Between lunch and sex we stopped by my apartment to drop off things I had bought and when we entered we found my husband lying naked on the sofa, watching a prono film on TV and stroking his cock.

Since my husband and I have a domme/sub relationship, I decided to show my friends exactly how I put him through his paces. Before he could dart into the bedroom to hide and dress, I grabbed a fistful of his hair and ordered him to kneel. He obeyed instantly, and as soon as he was on his knees before me, with my left hand still hanging onto his hair, I slapped his face. I slapped him twice: first with my palm; then with the back of my hand. I released his hair. He thanked me and bend down and kissed my feet.

I could hear Annie breathing heavily. Kay giggled until flashed her an angry look. She was quiet, staring wide-eyed as I got the handcuffs and my riding crop. After shackling Billy-boy's hands behind him and ordering him to bend over the arm of an easy chair, I took aim at his white ass and struck. I gave him six fresh red strips across the butt. Took a moment to share a three way embrace and kisses with my friends, then we went into the bedroom. I blindfolded my husband and made him sit on a hard chair beside the bed, then we three girls undressed and lay together in a mass of soft female flesh - kissing and rubbing; licking and biting - coming and coming and then coming again until we were exausted, but Annie had enough strength and desire left to go down on my husband and siphon the cum from him.

As my friends were leaving we agreed to use my man-boy arouse us again - soon.

You are the dom type that I am looking for to seduce my wife and take control of both of us. At a party we were at over a year ago, the ladies were talking of breasts augmentation and 4 of them went into the the bathroom to compare. My wife had a reduction, 2 had implants and the 4th was curious. She told me later they all removed their tops, checked each other's breasts out and felt each other. Of course us guys were hootin and hollering outside the door.. being guys. My wife told me she actually got very wet. The touches were all very soft and all areas of the breasts were felt top, sides, underneath and even the nipples. Although it was not meant to be erotic and she assurred me she was not interested in women. She said it was natural and it is bound to happen through this much touching. I just smiled and agreed.

What do you think....I would love to have a female seduce my wife just because I believe she would enjoy it more than she thinks. Your story made me so hot that I knew right after reading it that is how I would like to be involved. Just to be used as a catalyst to heat up the action. I do not believe I would have to be invoplved in any other way, unless you forced me to performoral sex on each of you or just her or just you or...just to be the object of satisfaction for some erotic women would be enough for me.

Thank you for the insight...maybe there is hope for us.
 
So nice to see others in same position as I am. I have been wanting to explore and hubby is into it but a little nervous at the same time. I hope to do something soon, we are looking into swinging and openening up things.
I love this site, jsut joined the other day, and have loved seeing that I am "normal"
 
I would like to experiment but have no clue of how to meet someone. I'm in a straight relationship, i've never done anything with a woman before but i would really like to. Seeing this thread was kinda cool.
Ideally, i would like to meet someone who i'm comfortable with on a friendly level to start. Then i'd like to slowly explore different things. It's tough though, i don't have any female friends who i'm even slightly attracted to so i can't test the waters there. I also don't want to just post an ad and end up meeting somebody and then everything is wierd and akward.

Any suggestions? Or if anyone is in my area and would like to talk more feel free to pm me.

Kim
 
I would like to experiment but have no clue of how to meet someone. I'm in a straight relationship, i've never done anything with a woman before but i would really like to. Seeing this thread was kinda cool.
Ideally, i would like to meet someone who i'm comfortable with on a friendly level to start. Then i'd like to slowly explore different things. It's tough though, i don't have any female friends who i'm even slightly attracted to so i can't test the waters there. I also don't want to just post an ad and end up meeting somebody and then everything is wierd and akward.

Any suggestions? Or if anyone is in my area and would like to talk more feel free to pm me.

Kim


I have had this same problem of not having an idea of how to "dive in" so to speak. Although two of my very closest friends are so gorgeous and I've wanted to try getting physically close with them - I get so nervous when I think about it that even if the opportunity arises I can't figure out what to do with myslef.

My fiancee is aware that I have an attraction for women. He was in a swinging relationship previous to us, and so he is open to the idea of me exploring that side of my sexuality. I am just too uncomfortable and awkward to make it happen :eek:
 
My EX husband was very open to me being with other women....now I'm finally out of the closet, so to say, and living with the best woman I could find!
 
hey all, can't believe this thread needs bumping!!:eek:i'm new to the board!

i am very curious and have a very supportive husband who wants me to decide how what where when etc. just have the little thing of self confidence in the way!:rolleyes:
 
hey all, can't believe this thread needs bumping!!:eek:i'm new to the board!

i am very curious and have a very supportive husband who wants me to decide how what where when etc. just have the little thing of self confidence in the way!:rolleyes:

Hi koogar (love the spelling on that) welcome.
 
I would like to experiment but have no clue of how to meet someone. I'm in a straight relationship, i've never done anything with a woman before but i would really like to. Seeing this thread was kinda cool.
Ideally, i would like to meet someone who i'm comfortable with on a friendly level to start. Then i'd like to slowly explore different things. It's tough though, i don't have any female friends who i'm even slightly attracted to so i can't test the waters there. I also don't want to just post an ad and end up meeting somebody and then everything is wierd and akward.

Any suggestions? Or if anyone is in my area and would like to talk more feel free to pm me.

Kim

Hi Kim!

Welcome!! I am in the NW burbs near O'Hare. If you'd ever like to talk, PM me!!

I was curious for years and years and had my first experience less than 6 months ago. It was the most amazing thing I could have ever imagined and now I am talking to several women I would like to meet as friends and then see if it goes anywhere. I would love to have a LTR with a woman and my husband is okay with it. I can give you a website where there are other women who want to meet as friends first and then see if it goes anywhere. Many of them have said even though there wasn't chemistry, they now have good friends with whom they can actually talk to about their true feelings!!!
 
He knows

Hey ladies...do all of your husbands know about your love of woman????

tell us your story!!!!:kiss:

Right after we got married he asked and I admitted it. :eek: He really likes it but sometimes holds it against me. :rolleyes: I know he likes that I'm bi but we both don't like the others taste in women. :(
:rose:
 
My hubby knows, hates it and pretends it does not exist. But then I think I married the most uptight man on the planet where sex and anything below the waist are concerned.

I don't get a chance much these days, but it was fun when I did.
 
It's not cheating if he knows about it and is okay with it! The only reason I say "same-sex cheating is still cheating" is because people think "oh, it's with my own sex, I don't have to tell, it's not really cheating." If your spouse doesn't know, it's cheating, whether you are doing it with a man or a woman! But if they are cool with it, then it's not cheating. :D

True dat!
Excellent progress on the weightloss btw, superb!
 
Hey ladies...do all of your husbands know about your love of woman????

tell us your story!!!!:kiss:

My husband knows I am bisexual and is very comfortable with it because he is also bisexual. Hi is also a masochist and on two occasions, after I had applied my bamboo to his behind while my lady friends watched, he witnessed our sexual play. "Witnessed" isn't exactly the correct word. My husband was blindfolded and bound to a chair beside the bed. Of course the volume of our sexual sounds had been increased to intensify the torment of his unsatisfied arousal.
 
My husband knows and is quite supportive =) As it is said 'it doesn't matter where you get your appetite as long as you come home for dinner' - something I am most happy to do, even bringing the dessert on occasion ;)
 
My husband knows and is quite supportive =) As it is said 'it doesn't matter where you get your appetite as long as you come home for dinner' - something I am most happy to do, even bringing the dessert on occasion ;)

Good for you.
 
I know my fiancee is bi lol :p I'm the bf and tbh her being bi is a turn-on in itself. I love knowing that she thinks about women as well as men. I have been asking her about women a lot though recently and I think I'm being a bit unfair even asking...
 
Hey ladies...do all of your husbands know about your love of woman????

Over the years I developed my own theory about men in relationships with bi men. I feel that there are basically 3 kinds of men in this regard.

1. Those that are threatened by it. I feel these have more of an issue about insecurity about their own sexuality and it has little or nothing to do with hers. Classic line from one of these men is, "The only reason you like women is because you have never been with me." In other words, false machismo used to cover his own feelings of sexual inadequacy.

2. What I often refer to as the "porn director." These men are basically users that see a bifem as a means to live out their own, mostly porn inspired fantasies. Their minds are instantly filled with images of lustly FMF 3sums with themselves filling the role of producer, director, and male lead (of course.) The sad fact is that any such 3sum never quite seems to live up to their fantasy. Guess what, they find out they can't call out cut and stop the action and make their stamina drag out for hours. Often they just get in the way of two women that are horny and into each other. Classic line; "Great! When can we get together with your girl friend for a 3sum."

3. I often refer to the third type as "My Hubby." :) It took me a long time to find him and to be honest I gave up on finding one of my own. Type 3 seems to be rare as hen's teeth. They tend to be loving, supportive, open, and accepting. They understand that there are part's of their woman's sexuality that they are incapable of fulfilling. Whether or not they are involved in her efforts to fulfill that part with another woman, they know that the benefits of her fulfillment will come back to reward him in their own bed. In a 3sum, they are comfrotable enough with their sexuality to know they don't have to perform like a porn stud and know that there is just a time to sit back and enjoy the show. He knows that the women will get back to him when they are in need of his attention.

OK, there's my 2 cents.
 
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