Bisexual Men: Who's better?

[klippert]

OK, everyone this question is for the bisexual guys. who's better at sex, or who do you get more pleasure from? Men or Women? and if so why?

I am asking this question because a guy that I am seeing, recently admitted that he had male partners in the past. Now, although I enjoy gay porn, and watching bisexual videos, I am kind of confused if I should take this guy seriously both sexually and emotionally in a relationship. To be honest about it, I don't I want to take this guy seriously.

This little comment is what caught my attention. Guy your seeing; "recently admitted that he had male partners in the past"

Does that mean he's had a relationship...emotional, or just sex. Does he cruse for other men...hang out with gay or bi men... Guess what I'm getting at. I've had male partners....never had I thought of the in the emotional sense that I do about woman.

I understand asking the question here....receiving some insight. In the long run. Your better of asking your question to him personally.

last. You don't want to take this guy seriously...That may answer all your questions. Might not be fair to him. As for turning gay....didn't know one turned gay, I thought you were conceived that way.

 

[lovebothsexes]

men or women

men are, because you get more out of it

 

[Queen_Vicki]

This little comment is what caught my attention. Guy your seeing; "recently admitted that he had male partners in the past"

Does that mean he's had a relationship...emotional, or just sex. Does he cruse for other men...hang out with gay or bi men... Guess what I'm getting at. I've had male partners....never had I thought of the in the emotional sense that I do about woman.

I understand asking the question here....receiving some insight. In the long run. Your better of asking your question to him personally.

last. You don't want to take this guy seriously...That may answer all your questions. Might not be fair to him. As for turning gay....didn't know one turned gay, I thought you were conceived that way.

I think he meant sexual, but I also did not ask any other questions,because I was too wierded out. I enjoy watching gay porn, and mmf porn from time to time, but to actually meet a man that has male experiences really made me uncomfortable,and very insecure, to the the point where I thought about not being in any romantic relationship with him. He seems like a good guy,but with admitting to having sex with men,made me question things.

And to StarroftheNite you are correct that I was thinking what you wrote.I mean how can I compete with a man?The answer is I can't, and I refuse too.

 

[ilovesex29]

OK, everyone this question is for the bisexual guys. who's better at sex, or who do you get more pleasure from? Men or Women? and if so why?

I am asking this question because a guy that I am seeing recently just admitted that he had male partners in the past. Now, although I enjoy gay porn, and watching bisexual videos, I am kind of confused if I should take this guy seriously both sexually and emotionally in a relationship. To be honest about it, I don't I want to take this guy seriously.

I would say it all depends on your preferences. He has mentioned that he is into guys too... so set your priorities and preferences whether you can deal with the situation or not.

As he has been honest with you, he might start seeing some another guy in future...if that happens, would you be ok?

About pleasure, it all depends on person what he or she is into. Both genders can be bisexual. There is nothing rule of thumb about liking... it all depends on individual....

But looking at this forum posts on similar topics... it seems like men are enjoying blow job from another men more than what they get from their female partner....

 

[Queen_Vicki]

I would say it all depends on your preferences. He has mentioned that he is into guys too... so set your priorities and preferences whether you can deal with the situation or not.

As he has been honest with you, he might start seeing some another guy in future...if that happens, would you be ok?

About pleasure, it all depends on person what he or she is into. Both genders can be bisexual. There is nothing rule of thumb about liking... it all depends on individual....

But looking at this forum posts on similar topics... it seems like men are enjoying blow job from another men more than what they get from their female partner....

Exactly to the last sentence. It seems that bisexual men enjoy men more when it comes to sex,leading me to believe are they really bi in the first place? and as for the guy I am seeing I asked can we slow it down, and even went as far to say can we just be friends.

 

[Queen_Vicki]

If he really is much more of a man's man then yes, but as someone would say to me in a similar situation: man up (or woman up in your case.) Plenty of bi men prefer women (me included,) and even if he doesn't, he might still prefer you.

Your lack of confidence certainly isn't sexy though (sorry) , and most openly bi men deal with plenty of women going through this insecurity. The internet is flooded with women asking the same question you are about their bi men, and the answer usually seems to be that they (the women) cannot compete with men at all. why not? I think you should imagine being in a similar situation he is. (Assuming you are straight) and you knew your male lover was this unsure of his ability to compete with another man (or a woman if your bi) and refused to do so, and let's also say there's a super confident man (or woman) who would compete for you until the very end, you might be tempted to have an affair.

There are gay guys out there who fantasize and are so sure they can turn a straight man bi. That confidence is very sexy, and you know when someone has that kind of confidence they really care about keeping you with them. If you really care about this man, maybe you should show him how confident you are that you can keep him and that you would fight for his lady loving side until the end. Maybe, he's gay and there's nothing you can do about it.

Your last paragraph is the exact reason why, I am not confident with being with a bisexual man,well not entirely.I do find bisexual men kind of sexy, just like I find all men sexy, but being the natural born Virgo that I am, I worry alot and I can be my own worst critic. I guess what I am saying that bisexual men can be easily persuaded into cheating with a man if he chooses too. Not because he is bi,but because the simple fact he is a man, and hes young(and I am sure that is not the case with all men). But other than that, I do enjoy his company, and companionship.

 

[Stella_Omega]

My girlfriend has a bisexual boyfriend (talk about extended family! ) and I asked him.

He said;
"Guys are sexy because they are easy to get naked. Women are sexy because I really love women. I love everything about them. But as far as sex is concerned, I'd rather be with a woman who is as aggressive as a man then with a man who is easy to get in bed with"

Dunno if that helps...

 

[Nightierub]

Another question is what type of relationship are you wanting? Set boundaries if you are wanting a monogamous relationship and being exclusive and faithful to one another. Sounds more like you have a fear he may fool around with the boys while with you. Just my thoughts.

 

[Queen_Vicki]

Another question is what type of relationship are you wanting? Set boundaries if you are wanting a monogamous relationship and being exclusive and faithful to one another. Sounds more like you have a fear he may fool around with the boys while with you. Just my thoughts.

Basically now after he told me,we are just friends.Like I said earlier I enjoy his company and companionship, but I don't want nothing serious.

 

[Queen_Vicki]

My girlfriend has a bisexual boyfriend (talk about extended family! ) and I asked him.

He said;
"Guys are sexy because they are easy to get naked. Women are sexy because I really love women. I love everything about them. But as far as sex is concerned, I'd rather be with a woman who is as aggressive as a man then with a man who is easy to get in bed with"

Dunno if that helps...

hehehehe.Thanks.It kind of does make senses, and shed some new found light.

 

[Hitchiker69]

Who is better in bed is who you click with, regardless of gender.

I think it's a matter of sexual personality. Are you adventurous in bed? Is your partner? Do you have similar tastes in sex, do you instinctively know how to please each other? Do you have similar drives, and passions? That's what matters.

Once you get past the taboos and hangups that say you shouldn't have sex with this person, because their equipment is the same as yours, then you can enjoy the passion that any people can share.

I've had great sex with men and women I didn't want to have relationships with. But when it clicks, it's great.