Boys Why Do You Crave Submission

[Ash999]

I do not know why I adore submitting to a smaller, dainty, Feminine, Petite MistressWife , Queen but I do ....I love spanking my own Ass as a Tribute to my Queen , Petite, younger MistressWife and Queen ...like this...

 

[sanjuinmood]

I think for me submission is a surrender, when I loose everything for her pleasure.

 

[Ash999]

This morning I endured a painful session of CBT with my petite MistressWife....dunno' why I accept humiliation voluntarily but I looove to submit, surrender and suffer @HerMajesty's Feet but I do....

 

[hiker1234567]

what to do when you want to be submissive and your wife is also submissive and vanilla. I guess you end up in chat rooms.

 

[FantasySharer1]

I like the idea of being submissive to my wife because I married up. I'm a 5/10 and she's an 8/10. She's gorgeous and I got lucky. She also gave me four beautiful kids, and is nice, funny, kind, smart, reliable as a partner and companion, and the whole fucking package.

Licking her pussy as a daily act of gratitude and having her order me around turns me on because I'm so fucking lucky to have her. It makes me super into body worship, like licking the sweat off her body after a run and so many other things.

 

[SPARTAN047]

I like the idea of being submissive to my wife because I married up. I'm a 5/10 and she's an 8/10. She's gorgeous and I got lucky. She also gave me four beautiful kids, and is nice, funny, kind, smart, reliable as a partner and companion, and the whole fucking package.

Licking her pussy as a daily act of gratitude and having her order me around turns me on because I'm so fucking lucky to have her. It makes me super into body worship, like licking the sweat off her body after a run and so many other things.

That's great. Hope you got the chance. I don't want to be ordered around for everything, but I like some control and direction in the bedroom. Most of your fantasies are mine too. Not with a wife but that's not important — I'd love someoen like that to sit on my face and make me eat her pussy and asshole, and the same body worship — taking off her trainers or heels, licking her feet, and licking her sweaty body, especially ass and pussy after a run.

 

[FantasySharer1]

That's great. Hope you got the chance. I don't want to be ordered around for everything, but I like some control and direction in the bedroom. Most of your fantasies are mine too. Not with a wife but that's not important — I'd love someoen like that to sit on my face and make me eat her pussy and asshole, and the same body worship — taking off her trainers or heels, licking her feet, and licking her sweaty body, especially ass and pussy after a run.

Yeah, I absolutely understand. I love eating my wife's pussy and just having her dominate my face with it because of every possibly man she could have given it to, she gave it to me. She had MY kids from it. She gave me exclusive access to her womb. She let me reproduce with her when honestly she could have ANY man she wanted. She found the best in me and stuck to me and continues to do so. So - it's from a combined sense of gratitude, attraction, and just loving her body that I want her to make me eat her out. I could drink her honey for HOURS.

No dude on the planet has seen her puckered ass except me. Kissing it, licking it, tonguing her there is a privilege. And the ability to lick the sweat of her body when she hasn't showered is a gift. To have her spit in my mouth. To have her piss on my face. This beautiful, gorgeous woman who gave me so much and still does so much to take care of my kids and take care of me. Fuck. I want to be hers because she chose to be mine and she could have been anyone's if she wanted.

She's not perfect and has her flaws but I love them and I love her and submitting to her perfect pussy is fucking everything to me.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Yeah, I absolutely understand. I love eating my wife's pussy and just having her dominate my face with it because of every possibly man she could have given it to, she gave it to me. She had MY kids from it. She gave me exclusive access to her womb. She let me reproduce with her when honestly she could have ANY man she wanted. She found the best in me and stuck to me and continues to do so. So - it's from a combined sense of gratitude, attraction, and just loving her body that I want her to make me eat her out. I could drink her honey for HOURS.

No dude on the planet has seen her puckered ass except me. Kissing it, licking it, tonguing her there is a privilege. And the ability to lick the sweat of her body when she hasn't showered is a gift. To have her spit in my mouth. To have her piss on my face. This beautiful, gorgeous woman who gave me so much and still does so much to take care of my kids and take care of me. Fuck. I want to be hers because she chose to be mine and she could have been anyone's if she wanted.

She's not perfect and has her flaws but I love them and I love her and submitting to her perfect pussy is fucking everything to me.

Very understandable thoughts and fantasies, that's what I'd love to think of myself. Being spit on, fucked with strapons, spanked, and pissed all over every day.

 

[LeaHaven]

I wrote in another thread on here somewhere that I purchased a cock cage for my husband. He does not know that. He will find out on Christmas Eve when he unwraps his presents. I will make sure he opens that present last. I put a note in the box with it that says, "Enjoy your freedom until 2025 begins, because at midnight on New Year's, I'm locking you up."

This is a really big step for us, and I am very nervous. Please wish me luck!

 

[whenagain]

I wrote in another thread on here somewhere that I purchased a cock cage for my husband. He does not know that. He will find out on Christmas Eve when he unwraps his presents. I will make sure he opens that present last. I put a note in the box with it that says, "Enjoy your freedom until 2025 begins, because at midnight on New Year's, I'm locking you up."

This is a really big step for us, and I am very nervous. Please wish me luck!

Good for you! That’s a huge step.

Is this something he and you have talked about before?

 

[PaxNurgle]

Good luck to Ms Haven! As a guy I've fantasized about this scenario. To give total control of your sexual releases to another person is a deep, trusting, and loving bond. I hope he is ready to make that commitment.

 

[LeaHaven]

Good for you! That’s a huge step.

Is this something he and you have talked about before?

He and I don't talk about sex. He only throws out innuendo and comments about me and other guys and stuff like that. He avoids fucking, bc he cums fast and it embarrasses him, so I mostly only get oral sex, and then I may or may not jerk him off as he sits up in bed. Sometimes I tell him he is not allowed to cum or he has to do it himself. That is more of a recent thing, and since we don't talk about any of this, I have to gauge his reaction. But that is pretty easy to do. Before all this our sex life had almost become nonexistent, bc neither one of us knew what to do. Now we have sex often. Tbh, it is all an experiment, but it is working. For so long he has said that he wants me to be the boss of everything. I always thought that I already was the boss of everything, but after reading these forums, I realized that I was not the boss in our sex life. So, I became the boss in the bedroom, too. I got a lot of help on that, on what to do, from people on here. That's why I bought the cage.

I have already decided that on the day after he opens the box and finds the cage (Christmas Day), I will tell him that I will leave it on the island in the kitchen. If it is gone the next day, I am ok with that. If it is still there, then I have some definite plans for our future. That will give him a way out without having to face me.

That was a long answer to a simple question.

I write too much, don't I?

 

[LeaHaven]

Good luck to Ms Haven! As a guy I've fantasized about this scenario. To give total control of your sexual releases to another person is a deep, trusting, and loving bond. I hope he is ready to make that commitment.

I hope he is too, bc if he is not, then I will be really confused about our sex life again

 

[Blueeyes4u100]

Men, why do you crave submission? Do you find it easy or hard to talk about your needs? Do you expect your domme to be able to trad your mind or do you like to ask for your needs?

Like a lot of the other posts here. In my work life I am always in charge. Even so as a parent. Why do I crave submission? At my age I have realized the joy and pleasure I get thinking about not always being in control. I am definitely more of a pleasure giver.

This does not mean that there are times when I do like being in control sexually...... My back to your question . Something arousing bring told what to do, or not to do. Just wanting to experience as much as possible

 

[9to5]

He and I don't talk about sex. He only throws out innuendo and comments about me and other guys and stuff like that. He avoids fucking, bc he cums fast and it embarrasses him, so I mostly only get oral sex, and then I may or may not jerk him off as he sits up in bed. Sometimes I tell him he is not allowed to cum of he has to do it himself. That is more of a recent thing, and since we don't talk about any of this, I have to gauge his reaction. But that is pretty easy to do. Before all this our sex life had almost become nonexistent, bc neither one of us knew what to do. Now we have sex often. Tbh, it is all an experiment, but it is working. For so long he has said that he wants me to be the boss of everything. I always thought that I already was the boss of everything, but after reading these forums, I realized that I was not the boss in our sex life. So, I became the boss in the bedroom, too. I got a lot of help on that, on what to do, from people on here. That's why I bought the cage.

I have already decided that on the day after he opens the box and finds the cage (Christmas Day), I will tell him that I will leave it on the island in the kitchen. If it is gone the next day, I am ok with that. If it is still there, then I have some definite plans for our future. That will give him a way out without having to face me.

That was a long answer to a simple question.

I write too much, don't I?

I hope he enjoys the cage you give him and 1 week to start with it
I am also caged and I love it. have fun with the control and dont forget to keep teasing him while he wears it

 

[whenagain]

He and I don't talk about sex. He only throws out innuendo and comments about me and other guys and stuff like that. He avoids fucking, bc he cums fast and it embarrasses him, so I mostly only get oral sex, and then I may or may not jerk him off as he sits up in bed. Sometimes I tell him he is not allowed to cum or he has to do it himself. That is more of a recent thing, and since we don't talk about any of this, I have to gauge his reaction. But that is pretty easy to do. Before all this our sex life had almost become nonexistent, bc neither one of us knew what to do. Now we have sex often. Tbh, it is all an experiment, but it is working. For so long he has said that he wants me to be the boss of everything. I always thought that I already was the boss of everything, but after reading these forums, I realized that I was not the boss in our sex life. So, I became the boss in the bedroom, too. I got a lot of help on that, on what to do, from people on here. That's why I bought the cage.

I have already decided that on the day after he opens the box and finds the cage (Christmas Day), I will tell him that I will leave it on the island in the kitchen. If it is gone the next day, I am ok with that. If it is still there, then I have some definite plans for our future. That will give him a way out without having to face me.

That was a long answer to a simple question.

I write too much, don't I?

No, that answer was thorough and honest. You don’t write too much— if someone is reading this thread it’s because they’re interested in the subject matter.