Boys Why Do You Crave Submission

[KinkStevens]

Men, why do you crave submission? Do you find it easy or hard to talk about your needs? Do you expect your domme to be able to trad your mind or do you like to ask for your needs?

Addressing as boys is sexier than as men

 

[Confused6969]

For me, it's the release of power. So many things need my action and control elsewhere in my life. The power exchange is such a relief. Plus, women are so sexy and sensual, seeking their approval and serving them makes me satisfied.

 

[jtf1960]

Men, why do you crave submission? Do you find it easy or hard to talk about your needs? Do you expect your domme to be able to trad your mind or do you like to ask for your needs?

After being at work all day and in charge of so much, it's a wonderful release to submit and be owned and not have to be in charge of anything or have to think. I only have to obey. I love to please my wife orally and savor her sweet pussy. I relish the pain when she spanks me. It is such exquisite pain and I love to stand in front of the mirror and see red marks and welts on my ass. I will gladly do whatever she asks me to do, as she is my Goddess. Her wish is my command.

 

[flameinsidesoul]

Men, why do you crave submission? Do you find it easy or hard to talk about your needs? Do you expect your domme to be able to trad your mind or do you like to ask for your needs?

Because submission, when real, is not weakness—it’s devotion in motion. It’s not about power for me. It’s about precision. About presence. About peeling back layers until the person kneeling before me doesn’t just obey—they belong. I remember one submissive in particular—she was bold, fiery, used to being in control. But she came to me because she was exhausted from holding everything together. Her life was successful but empty. She didn’t need someone to play with her—she needed someone to unmake her, slowly and with care.

It wasn’t about chains. It was about teaching her how to exhale. To feel safe enough to cry in my presence, knowing it wouldn’t lessen her… it would free her. I don’t expect a submissive to read my mind. I guide her. Train her. Teach her how I think, what I crave, and how I want her to serve. But I also expect her to tell me what stirs in her. Because true submission doesn’t hide. It offers.

And when that offering is made honestly? That’s where transformation begins!!

 

[masterslave00]

Because submission, when real, is not weakness—it’s devotion in motion. It’s not about power for me. It’s about precision. About presence. About peeling back layers until the person kneeling before me doesn’t just obey—they belong. I remember one submissive in particular—she was bold, fiery, used to being in control. But she came to me because she was exhausted from holding everything together. Her life was successful but empty. She didn’t need someone to play with her—she needed someone to unmake her, slowly and with care.

It wasn’t about chains. It was about teaching her how to exhale. To feel safe enough to cry in my presence, knowing it wouldn’t lessen her… it would free her. I don’t expect a submissive to read my mind. I guide her. Train her. Teach her how I think, what I crave, and how I want her to serve. But I also expect her to tell me what stirs in her. Because true submission doesn’t hide. It offers.

And when that offering is made honestly? That’s where transformation begins!!

Nice...

BUT, the question was the other way round!

 

[subdudeme13]

By performing Penance to Divine Feminine / Goddess Kali i purify my Heart,Soul,Asshole....
( Seen here spanking my bared glutes as Tribute to Devi Kali)

Spank harder!

 

[panty_chap]

It's fun to push limits, to be given an excuse to try/do things that I perhpas would never try on my own.

There are things I don't like to do, but I enjoy having done them for others. And there are things I never thought I'd enjoy but once I've done them a time or two I find that yes, I do like them.

It's also enjoyable to serve I suppose.

 

[kneelingmatt]

For me I am a submissive man that loves to please and having a lady guide me to be better for her as he controls me is a wonderful feeling.

 

[Dearelliot]

I find it very erotic if a woman's full attention is on my genitals, not just to see them but to concentrate on, examine, handle, play with and abuse. I like it if a woman is outspoken and blatant, legs spread open, in your face sex. I want to hear her use the words, cunt, cock, fuck, suck.
If she's abusing them she's, holding, touching, doing things to my cock and balls.

 

[old_hippy_46]

Men, why do you crave submission? Do you find it easy or hard to talk about your needs? Do you expect your domme to be able to trad your mind or do you like to ask for your needs?

I am a foreman of a construction crew. I run the job. I don't put up with any BS from anyone. There is no doubt who is in charge of the job. This works in the construction macho world, but not at home. I am willing, in fact I crave my wife to be in charge, to make me perform and please her. I become submissive to her. It brings an exciting aspect to our life.

 

[LFM90]

I have mommy issues. So I tend to fantasize about older female mother figures that can be loving, caring, and nurturing sometimes I fantasize about a more dominant mother figure as well. punishing me … spanking

 

[Cleanshaved50]

I crave being submissive as I have a difficult to satisfy a woman or man with my cock. Won't stay hard to have sex and orgasm. I like to be humiliated and used. I also had spanking moments when I was younger, but that's another story

 

[tall758]

I crave submission because it is so much different than everything else in my life. For everything else, I’m a “Type A” as in asshole, and very successful at it. I guess being dominated sexually is my way to pay back the world by being a pleasure slut for others. My ultimate submission is to be on my knees pleasuring the cocks of other “Type A” men, knowing that they are using my mouth for their pleasure. Then, their cum is my reward.

 

[Never2late4funxxx]

Men, why do you crave submission? Do you find it easy or hard to talk about your needs? Do you expect your domme to be able to trad your mind or do you like to ask for your needs?

Since I’m in control of everything in my life, professionally, personally and so on, it gives me great pleasure in completely submitting to a woman and her desires. I’m not looking for her to read my mind or listen to my begging. I’m looking for her to take from me physically and emotionally whatever she desires, for her to make the decisions and take that control. I’m a switch, but will follow the dynamics of the moment.

 

[ZoeFir]

That's fun.

 

[Never2late4funxxx]

That's fun.

I think so , and glad you do too!

 

[Dill_the_Dog]

For me, I work in a very volatile and highly stressful industry where my split-second decisions affect lives. It's also largely male-dominated. I don't want all that at home too. Sometimes (not all the time - I can happily switch) I just want a woman to take the reins and just use me in whatever way for her own pleasure.

 

[Dill_the_Dog]

That's fun.

Is that you in your avatar? Stunning!

 

[T_2K_59]

I have mommy issues. So I tend to fantasize about older female mother figures that can be loving, caring, and nurturing sometimes I fantasize about a more dominant mother figure as well. punishing me … spanking

Oh, yes! My mom always let me know who was in charge, I always craved her approval, I remember that I would often misbehave just to be punished by her, which was usually a spanking. She would take me over her lap and pull down my pants and either with an open hand, or a nice paddle, spank my ass until she was done with me. I don't recall ever getting an erection until I was HS age, but I remember loving being her "bad boy" that needed to be punished.

 

[LFM90]

Oh, yes! My mom always let me know who was in charge, I always craved her approval, I remember that I would often misbehave just to be punished by her, which was usually a spanking. She would take me over her lap and pull down my pants and either with an open hand, or a nice paddle, spank my ass until she was done with me. I don't recall ever getting an erection until I was HS age, but I remember loving being her "bad boy" that needed to be punished.

Oh most definitely the lovely spanks my mom would bend me over and spank me hard her weapon of choice was the big wooden spoon

 

[LFM90]

Oh, yes! My mom always let me know who was in charge, I always craved her approval, I remember that I would often misbehave just to be punished by her, which was usually a spanking. She would take me over her lap and pull down my pants and either with an open hand, or a nice paddle, spank my ass until she was done with me. I don't recall ever getting an erection until I was HS age, but I remember loving being her "bad boy" that needed to be punished.

 

[T_2K_59]

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No, momy's doing it hard enough, it's just the thought of you paddling my bare ass while I'm laying over your lap, my cock fits nicely between your legs and rubs in that warm crevice with each smack on my ass

 

[PegMahone]

I work in a male dominated industry with a lot of male ego and pride. I have to be assertive too regularly in life for one reason or another. Then when I’m at home with my wife alone. I’m usually the one driving the boat, I’ll take direction well but really I’m led by knowing my wife.

It is very very nice when I don’t have to be on guard, in control or be the person who does all the fucking. It’s really nice to let down my guard, let someone else drive and being fucked for a change.

I also don’t pick up on social cues very well. So being told exactly what to do is a turn on. Then I don’t have to figure anything out, just perform to the best of my abilities. So I enjoy being bossed around in the bedroom.

 

[env789]

There are a lot of reasons I submit. These are in no particular order. I tried to order them, and couldn't decide!

First, the energy that exists between me and the partner. I get aroused by arousing my partner, for example, so that's definitely a meaningful element.

Second, I'm autistic, so clear and direct communication are very important. I've seen it floated in the neurodivergent community more broadly that BDSM is very attractive to so many of us because the lines and rules are clear in a healthy dynamic. Submitting also makes it easier to turn my brain off and exist in the moment rather than in my head. It's a difficult experience to simply create without chemical assistance.

Third, it subverts typical gender expectations, and being subversive is a huge turn-on for me. Within boundaries, but this point is basically what it says on the tin.

Fourth, a consensual imbalanced power dynamic is my absolute biggest kink. I do switch, so I appreciate the relationship between dominant and submissive from both angles, and I find them endlessly fascinating.

On the topic of mind reading, I don't think it's reasonable to expect any human to be capable of that. Going back to the clear and direct communication, I have those discussions up front. The potential partners need to discuss styles, limits, safe words, aftercare needs, etc. D/s is an umbrella that contains multitudes within it, and in my experience, most people are drawn to a very small subset of those multitudes.

There's a seemingly infinite supply of discourse around for those discussions should take place, but here's my personal approach. I prefer the dominant person starts the conversation with their style and limits at a high level, for two reasons: it shows some vulnerability to go first, and being willing to be vulnerable in this way is good leadership. Starting the conversation can be awkward, especially for someone new to it. Secondly, going second gives the potential submissive a more informed position from which to act: bow out early, continue the conversation, ask clarifying questions, etc.

 

[Erosfan]

Men, why do you crave submission? Do you find it easy or hard to talk about your needs? Do you expect your domme to be able to trad your mind or do you like to ask for your needs?

I just love to do as my lady wishes. I find it easy to talk about this with the one I love. I don't expect or want her to read my mind. I want her to understand me and my kinks/needs.

The better she understands me, the better she uses me.

My late wife became a master of Gentle Fem-dom because of our frank and open conversations. She was amazing at driving me crazy with desire. I was hers in every imaginable way. I really loved the look on her face when we played. She would get so turned on by using me and pushing me to my limits.