UnquietDreams
Bad at Lit
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My poop friend limit topped out at "zero."Ew. Lol.
I confess to not being sad I don't have poop friends...
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My poop friend limit topped out at "zero."Ew. Lol.
I confess to not being sad I don't have poop friends...
You think you know someone...My poop friend limit topped out at "zero."
Yes, I was going to ask you to stop DMing me when you poop. Kaithanxbai.You think you know someone...
Yes, I was going to ask you to stop DMing me when you poop. Kaithanxbai.
Emphasis on the fucking...Still carrying on about poop huh?
Lit threads provide the ideal place for the study of human behavior. It’s fucking fascinating.
You're not alone in that. Somewhere along the line you ask yourself if an online relationship is valid, or as valid as a flesh and blood one. It is of course. Yes, it's different but if you cut me, do I not bleed?“When I joined Lit, I was newly divorced and lonely, but I didn't want anything to do with "real" relationships. I just wanted to have fun and ease the loneliness.
I eventually got into a pretty intense online relationship. For me, it was fun and enjoyable, but I never regarded it as "real." When it started to be too much, and I realized the other person considered me their significant other, I put the brakes on.
It was horrible. The other person was extremely hurt, and I felt terrible.
It was so bad I stayed away entirely for a long time. I post again, and I have chatted quite a bit, but I am always scared that it will happen again. Plus, I am re-married, so there is always the tug of guilt.
I guess my confession is that I like visiting Lit, but I'm always uncomfortable. I worry about messing up my real-life relationship, and I worry about people here getting too close.“
I agree - I think it happens to a lot of people. I think the confusion happens when one person wants limitations and establishes boundaries for the online relationship, and the other either doesn't understand them or just develops feelings that make them want to push the boundaries.You're not alone in that. Somewhere along the line you ask yourself if an online relationship is valid, or as valid as a flesh and blood one. It is of course. Yes, it's different but if you cut me, do I not bleed?
Maybe we've had to take the flesh and blood rules and somehow adapt them to online situations? I have trouble interpreting real life relationships so you'd think online might be simpler, without the bad breath and acne.I agree - I think it happens to a lot of people. I think the confusion happens when one person wants limitations and establishes boundaries for the online relationship, and the other either doesn't understand them or just develops feelings that make them want to push the boundaries.
I have experienced both, at different times. It's hard to keep things in their boxes. It does make things feel like walking a minefield at times. I can relate to the confessor.