Cucking and Watching

[Timetotryagain]

Years ago, I lived with a girl who cheated on me. I was beyond pissed about her lying to me, but then something weird happened. Every time I ate her pussy, I would get hard fantasizing I was eating her freshly fucked pussy. Years later, not only would I have let her fuck him, I would love to help her suck his cock.

 

[SlutAddicted]

Years ago I dated a girl who wanted me to lick her pussy and eat her ass regularly. But all she would do in return was kiss - no blowjob, no fucking, not even a hand job. Sometime later I found out that she had been dating other guys at the same time and fucking some of them. I sort of confronted her about it, albeit timidly.

She shrugged it off and said "I just never really wanted to fuck you. Besides I never lied to you. I never said we were exclusive. And you enjoyed yourself."

It stung at the time but she wasn't wrong. I got used to the idea of a very sexual woman being in control and recognizing that she doesn't owe anybody anything (other than whatever she might choose to promise). And being put in my place so to speak was in many ways a relief. I consider myself average in looks and sexual prowess. It is only logical that a woman might want to experience more. Meanwhile trying to pretend otherwise (either as to my prowess or a woman's desires) is exhausting and stands in the way of self realization.

That girlfriend was selfish. My wife is not and she is more enthusiastic about sex with me. But having that selfish girl lay down some truth bombs did open my eyes. I want to be with a sexually exciting woman and it is only logical that such a woman will have appetites beyond what I can satisfy. Seeing her with other men or knowing she is with them reinforces just how sexy she is to me.

Oh and when I asked that old girlfriend if she had ever fucked a guy right before she had me eat her pussy, she just smiled and said "I don't remember, but probably." That excited me and it still does. I have told my wife about her and my wife said that she would have to thank her some day for starting my cuckold training.

 

[Rodh]

Been sharing

Her for over a decade now. The watching part got old after 6 months, surprisingly Hearing became a thing! I can be in the house and she will have a lover or two and it’s nice to hear!

 

[bicuriohub]

At first glance of the idea of cucking it seems like an amazing fantasy that I definitely want. I’m sure at the time of it actually going down many would have reservations. My wife is bisexual and I’ve been present when she’s had experiences with women. I suppose that’s still a cuck situation and I’ve been perfectly fine with it.
On the other hand having a man have sexwith her in front of me would probably change the dynamic but part of my fantasy also includes some humiliation involving him being way bigger than me and then teasing me. So I do think I could see it through. She’s very open sexually and that helps visualize it.

 

[dixonjay999]

I want more experiences with cucking. It's one of my favorite brain spaces to get into with a man.

There are a few different varieties. The humiliating kind, the heartbreaking kind, the forced kind. Then the fun kind, the teasing kind, and the involved.

I have men who enjoy the fantasy but when it comes down to actually doing it... they chicken out.

Men, is this just left as a fantasy for you or do you actually want to see her fucked and pleased?

It is something we have done several times and probably have tried all the kinds you mention. I enjoy the humiating and teasing kind the most.

 

[Kittykan23]

The show of dominance…..

Does thinking about tying my mistresses hubby to a chair with is eyes and mouth bloody from my fist and making him watch me fuck her till she is dehydrated from squirting all over my cock count? oh shit , sorry , is that to much?

This is a person who probably wouldn’t mind getting his knuckles bloody……it’s exhilarating!

 

[SlutAddicted]

It is something we have done several times and probably have tried all the kinds you mention. I enjoy the humiating and teasing kind the most.

The way my wife describes it, a certain amount of humiliation is necessary to acceptance. For instance, I can't satisfy all of her sexual needs and she has an affinity for well hung studs (of which I am not one). These are facts which can be humiliating at times. But in order to embrace this lifestyle and give her the latitude she desires I need to accept these things as reality. Early on she made a deliberate point of making sure this was in my face so that my natural male inclination to deny it was overcome. That isn't necessary any more, but now I have learned to be very aroused by the masochistic aspect of this.

Maybe for some guys this wouldn't be humiliating, but I think that even most cuckolds have some of this tendency. Even if we have a good sex life (we do) and I have other appealing sexual talents (I do), the fact remains that sometimes she wants to be fucked roughly by a big cock stud and that is not something I can offer.

 

[policywank]

The way my wife describes it, a certain amount of humiliation is necessary to acceptance. For instance, I can't satisfy all of her sexual needs and she has an affinity for well hung studs (of which I am not one). These are facts which can be humiliating at times. But in order to embrace this lifestyle and give her the latitude she desires I need to accept these things as reality. Early on she made a deliberate point of making sure this was in my face so that my natural male inclination to deny it was overcome. That isn't necessary any more, but now I have learned to be very aroused by the masochistic aspect of this.

Maybe for some guys this wouldn't be humiliating, but I think that even most cuckolds have some of this tendency. Even if we have a good sex life (we do) and I have other appealing sexual talents (I do), the fact remains that sometimes she wants to be fucked roughly by a big cock stud and that is not something I can offer.

I think that this sort of subtle humiliation is a useful and natural part of the cuckolding process. There may not be anything intentional or aggressive about it, but at some point most cuckolds are going to need to face something uncomfortable.

We often hear men say things like "I am ok with her having sex with other men as long as X". Well, eventually a circumstance will come to pass where X is true or something that she is willing to do. For her sake she needs to pursue the lifestyle as it suits her virtually without limitation and if her actions humiliate her cuckold it is up to him to embrace that and face the truth.

 

[nutoseen]

I want more experiences with cucking. It's one of my favorite brain spaces to get into with a man.

There are a few different varieties. The humiliating kind, the heartbreaking kind, the forced kind. Then the fun kind, the teasing kind, and the involved.

I have men who enjoy the fantasy but when it comes down to actually doing it... they chicken out.

Men, is this just left as a fantasy for you or do you actually want to see her fucked and pleased?

I have been "reverse cucked" a couple of wives/fiancees. it was super hot.

 

[policywank]

Who is doing the cuckolding?

For me personally there is a key distinction between me cuckolding my husband and some other guy cuckolding him.

I see cuckolding as reflective of my sexual superiority to my husband and in many ways female sexual superiority to men. It isn't about finding a better man to which I may submit or play a secondary role. And it certainly isn't about allowing another man to dominate my husband sexually.

I do play games with my husband and other (trustworthy) men which include humiliating comparisons and various kinks that are mostly for his benefit. But underlying it all is female sexual liberation, not an exchange of masters. My husband knows that no one man is enough for me so I am looking to augment his attentions not trade them in.

 

[IsItBad]

reality

for the longest time, i loved to fantasize about watching some other guy fuck my wife.....there is no telling how many times i have actually jacked off thinking of that.....

i have never really thought of being a "cuckold" though.....or any of that kind of degrading or humiliating stuff.....were it ever to happen itd be with everyone's consent and for her pleasure and for mine as well as far as watching it

as far as the normal cuckold type of process......totally not for me......

in fact, in the reverse....fucking another man's wife ....while he was acting as a cuckold, i wouldn't want to do that either.....

i guess i am just not about my own feelings getting crushed or someone elses......

as far as watching my wife ride another guy's cock though......that might be super hot

 

[Versa92646]

Fantasy vs reality

for the longest time, i loved to fantasize about watching some other guy fuck my wife.....there is no telling how many times i have actually jacked off thinking of that.....

i have never really thought of being a "cuckold" though.....or any of that kind of degrading or humiliating stuff.....were it ever to happen itd be with everyone's consent and for her pleasure and for mine as well as far as watching it

as far as the normal cuckold type of process......totally not for me......

in fact, in the reverse....fucking another man's wife ....while he was acting as a cuckold, i wouldn't want to do that either.....

i guess i am just not about my own feelings getting crushed or someone elses......

as far as watching my wife ride another guy's cock though......that might be super hot

I understand and agree completely. We are more on the hot wife, vixen/Stag end of this game. Not judging the humiliation end of the spectrum, it’s just not for us.

I enjoy selecting her outfits, watching her flirt, and using the man to intensify OUR pleasure. And reclamation sex is best!

 

[Vitriolhack]

For me personally there is a key distinction between me cuckolding my husband and some other guy cuckolding him.

I see cuckolding as reflective of my sexual superiority to my husband and in many ways female sexual superiority to men. It isn't about finding a better man to which I may submit or play a secondary role. And it certainly isn't about allowing another man to dominate my husband sexually.

I do play games with my husband and other (trustworthy) men which include humiliating comparisons and various kinks that are mostly for his benefit. But underlying it all is female sexual liberation, not an exchange of masters. My husband knows that no one man is enough for me so I am looking to augment his attentions not trade them in.

And if you are both into it and are ok with it, more power to you!

That’s healthy!

Have you written about your adventures?

 

[Vitriolhack]

I understand and agree completely. We are more on the hot wife, vixen/Stag end of this game. Not judging the humiliation end of the spectrum, it’s just not for us.

I enjoy selecting her outfits, watching her flirt, and using the man to intensify OUR pleasure. And reclamation sex is best!

Exactly!

Do you also enjoy seeing her getting pleased?

 

[policywank]

And if you are both into it and are ok with it, more power to you!

That’s healthy!

Have you written about your adventures?

I write fiction but it is extensively infused with my experiences.

 

[Vitriolhack]

I write fiction but it is extensively infused with my experiences.

I am looking fed to reading it.

 

[journeyofself]

Cuckold in waiting

I want more experiences with cucking. It's one of my favorite brain spaces to get into with a man.

There are a few different varieties. The humiliating kind, the heartbreaking kind, the forced kind. Then the fun kind, the teasing kind, and the involved.

I have men who enjoy the fantasy but when it comes down to actually doing it... they chicken out.

Men, is this just left as a fantasy for you or do you actually want to see her fucked and pleased?

I sincerely want my wife to take on another younger, very sexual, Big Cocked boyfriend. She knows about my fantasy and desire to be real-life cucked. We haven't talked about it much but i would love to do more than watch. We go to the gym and if she sees a guy she likes she even tells me on the way home who he is and could I check out his cock in the shower. An assignment I am more than happy to take on.

The closest I've got to this so far is buying her a Spa Day, and she has gotten a massage from a very capable and attractive young man. She is usually embarrassed to say much about them afterward, other than to say they "were nice".

I talk about it in bed with her and keep hoping she will. I need the submission, humiliation, my craving to suck cock and be a sexual slave to Him and Her.

 

[trooper6]

For me personally there is a key distinction between me cuckolding my husband and some other guy cuckolding him.

I see cuckolding as reflective of my sexual superiority to my husband and in many ways female sexual superiority to men. It isn't about finding a better man to which I may submit or play a secondary role. And it certainly isn't about allowing another man to dominate my husband sexually.

I do play games with my husband and other (trustworthy) men which include humiliating comparisons and various kinks that are mostly for his benefit. But underlying it all is female sexual liberation, not an exchange of masters. My husband knows that no one man is enough for me so I am looking to augment his attentions not trade them in.

I think you are right on the mark. Cuckolding is about the power exchange. It doesn't always need to have an element of humiliation. It can be very subtle such as my wife reminding me that someone else will get to enjoy her pussy before I can as she click the lock on my cage.

 

[beckiefalwell]

Start slowly?

You can always begin by having your wife or girl dress very provocatively in public. You can be with her or watch from a distance. Watch her make small talk with strangers. Watch guys follow her around and eventually talk to her.

 

[Bianca_Bitch69]

Selina enjoys having me watch

We have known each other for 5 years but my plumbing doesn't work anymore and I always crossdress when we meet with other couples. Selina plays with both male and female but enjoys it most when she is playing with the female and her husband takes her from behind while I watch all the action.

 

[HottieOlwen]

I want more experiences with cucking. It's one of my favorite brain spaces to get into with a man.

There are a few different varieties. The humiliating kind, the heartbreaking kind, the forced kind. Then the fun kind, the teasing kind, and the involved.

I have men who enjoy the fantasy but when it comes down to actually doing it... they chicken out.

Men, is this just left as a fantasy for you or do you actually want to see her fucked and pleased?

I was shocked when my husband suggested that I find a better equipped lover. (He is really tiny!) But having relented, I took to it like a duck to water. We now have a FLM, and I love the denial, teasing and enforced chastity that he introduced me to and persuaded me to inflict on him.

 

[gaius7]

This isn’t like trying a new toy or position and deciding it isn’t for you. It can break up marriages snd relationships if they’re not ready for the jealousy and resentment that can come if both partners aren’t committed to it. If people aren’t absolutely sure they want this they should say so even if it’s late in the game. Consent is not chickening out.

 

[MrETnman]

I thought about a man doing my wife while I watched and it turned me on, but I didn’t know how to proceed, or if I could see it through,so I came up with a plan. I brought up a conversation about doing some exciting new things to spice things up,and we could take turns making the suggestions. My wife was pretty simple,she wanted to body paint each other, and mine were I wanted to watch her be massaged. She was happy with that,but had a few questions,man or woman,and what to wear. This is where I got to probe her and see how far she would go. She said she preferred a woman,didn’t matter if I was there or not,and was fine being in her underwear or naked. I told her since it was my suggestion,I would find it exciting to have a man do hers,while I watched,in underwear,or a bikini, and she was ok with that. My next move was to contact someone online that was into doing that and smart enough to pull it off. Thinking it through I wanted a younger,very excitable,and loved older married women. I did find someone,we set it up in a out of town resort,I had my wife primed with wine,and a few shots when he arrived. My wife totally surprised me after I introduced them and she said, what do you want me keep on making reference to her clothing as she started to undress. She got down to her panties and bra and I told her that was good. How do you want me and I looked at him,laying on youre stomach is fine. He had brought baby oil and asked if it was ok if he undressed to his boxers and she said sure. After a few mins he suggested removing her bra to keep from getting oily,and surprisingly after that her panties. My sweet little wife was now naked and being massaged by this young man and I loved it! He had her turn over,and she did without reservation, revealing her nice sized breasts,thick dark nipples and trimmed pussy. Now I was beginning to feel a little weird and expected her to be more reluctant. He had a large obvious bulge in his boxers and without asking this time just pulled them off revealing a huge dick over 8+,and very thick,my wife even looked at me and said that’s big,I replied,I know! I didn’t know what was going to happen next and suggested I rub her lower half and him her chest and shoulders. I only rubbed her legs a few mins and started fucking her in front of this guy,she didn’t resist and was very receptive. He was standing up reaching over playing with her large nipples while she was staring at his large hard dick inches from her face. Touch it baby I said,see how it feels,I’m sure he won’t mind,and at that time he moved closer to her face trying to coax her to take it in her mouth. She did touch it and stroked it as he moaned, I told her kiss it sweetie and she did! He moved it closer and closer to her mouth until he was touching her lips,he had it forced against her lips until she allowed it inside her mouth. Then he asked if he could kiss her and I said sure and she nodded yes and as he was kissing her I felt nervous and a bit jealous. I stopped fucking her and he traded positions. Once at her other end she started to close her legs when he pushed them back open,positioned himself closer and slapped her clit with his large cock,and my wife moaned. He rubbed his cock up and down her slit then entered her. I was really getting a nauseous feeling that this was happening. He fucked my wife harder, in several positions resulting in her cumming several times and him twice inside her. Afterwards he dressed and said goodbye, I felt terrible it happened and as I looked at her smiling at me I got turned on and fucked her till I came. I think of that time everyday.

 

[Vitriolhack]

I thought about a man doing my wife while I watched and it turned me on, but I didn’t know how to proceed, or if I could see it through,so I came up with a plan. I brought up a conversation about doing some exciting new things to spice things up,and we could take turns making the suggestions. My wife was pretty simple,she wanted to body paint each other, and mine were I wanted to watch her be massaged. She was happy with that,but had a few questions,man or woman,and what to wear. This is where I got to probe her and see how far she would go. She said she preferred a woman,didn’t matter if I was there or not,and was fine being in her underwear or naked. I told her since it was my suggestion,I would find it exciting to have a man do hers,while I watched,in underwear,or a bikini, and she was ok with that. My next move was to contact someone online that was into doing that and smart enough to pull it off. Thinking it through I wanted a younger,very excitable,and loved older married women. I did find someone,we set it up in a out of town resort,I had my wife primed with wine,and a few shots when he arrived. My wife totally surprised me after I introduced them and she said, what do you want me keep on making reference to her clothing as she started to undress. She got down to her panties and bra and I told her that was good. How do you want me and I looked at him,laying on youre stomach is fine. He had brought baby oil and asked if it was ok if he undressed to his boxers and she said sure. After a few mins he suggested removing her bra to keep from getting oily,and surprisingly after that her panties. My sweet little wife was now naked and being massaged by this young man and I loved it! He had her turn over,and she did without reservation, revealing her nice sized breasts,thick dark nipples and trimmed pussy. Now I was beginning to feel a little weird and expected her to be more reluctant. He had a large obvious bulge in his boxers and without asking this time just pulled them off revealing a huge dick over 8+,and very thick,my wife even looked at me and said that’s big,I replied,I know! I didn’t know what was going to happen next and suggested I rub her lower half and him her chest and shoulders. I only rubbed her legs a few mins and started fucking her in front of this guy,she didn’t resist and was very receptive. He was standing up reaching over playing with her large nipples while she was staring at his large hard dick inches from her face. Touch it baby I said,see how it feels,I’m sure he won’t mind,and at that time he moved closer to her face trying to coax her to take it in her mouth. She did touch it and stroked it as he moaned, I told her kiss it sweetie and she did! He moved it closer and closer to her mouth until he was touching her lips,he had it forced against her lips until she allowed it inside her mouth. Then he asked if he could kiss her and I said sure and she nodded yes and as he was kissing her I felt nervous and a bit jealous. I stopped fucking her and he traded positions. Once at her other end she started to close her legs when he pushed them back open,positioned himself closer and slapped her clit with his large cock,and my wife moaned. He rubbed his cock up and down her slit then entered her. I was really getting a nauseous feeling that this was happening. He fucked my wife harder, in several positions resulting in her cumming several times and him twice inside her. Afterwards he dressed and said goodbye, I felt terrible it happened and as I looked at her smiling at me I got turned on and fucked her till I came. I think of that time everyday.

Good for the both of you! Do you think this will be an experience to repeat?

 

[Bianca_Bitch69]

But I love to read the stories here on Literotica about men being cucked especially when they are made to dress up all girly by their wives or gf's.

But I already wears skirts, and bras, and stockings, and high heeled boots