See my reaction to forced... Age play - and especially F/d incest - is an art and there are not many persons ( in fact men) who know how to exercise this art in the proper way... I am not saying that I am an expert, but at least I am trying to do the right thing and I try to make it desirable for the girl participant of the game. I have been trying for such a long time now... I am willing to play an incest game with a girl, who is prepared to follow me in my thoughts and feelings...
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See my reaction to forced... Age play - and especially F/d incest - is an art and there are not many persons ( in fact men) who know how to exercise this art in the proper way... I am not saying that I am an expert, but at least I am trying to do the right thing and I try to make it desirable for the girl participant of the game. I have been trying for such a long time now... I am willing to play an incest game with a girl, who is prepared to follow me in my thoughts and feelings...
I agree as far as force and violence concerns. However keep in mind that incest was an accepted phenomenon in history and in different cultures... Although we consider that unbelievable, the incest phenomenon is part of life and it does have to do with love as well. Violence and force have nothing to do with it and should therefore be condemned.
If that is true, then how can you explain your nickname???
you are OK for me
I am not shaking my head... not at all...
oh dear now I'm gonna have to screw up my courage for this one. Age play does turn me on - certainly as a fantasy. Its not part of my current relationship because we are trying to maintain a relationship as equals and as R is both my Dom and older than me we don't want to play at anything that might leave us feeling slightly off centre in our overall relaitosnhip.
I don't do Daddy fantasies althoguht eere have been the odd incest story that 'leaves a wet patch' they have been becasue of the other aspects of the story i think.
but..... age related fantasies - an older man whether the cultured stern masterful type or (squirm with embarrassment) the 'dirty old man' type - they work for me.
now i'm just gonna run away and hide while you all shake your heads in pity - I know I'm wierd okay!
I am not shaking my head... not at all...
Ms Lilith... your reaction on the matter triggered something in me. I ahve been playing an agegame for more that ten years ago... It destroyed my mariage and all the conventions I believed in! And now, being alone I feel your reaction evokes a thrill in me... It is still there...
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im really happy to admit that my Dom is now allowing me to call him Daddy and he loves it just as much as i do
I don't mind if my Master calls me little girl, or baby girl and have only almost called him daddy once in a joking manner. But, I thought better of it. With my background as a survivor, I think it might be too dangerous to even "go there" at this point in my life.
He can keep calling me baby girl or little girl though!
Incest fantasies...no way Jose, Not EVER gonna go there.
He can keep calling me baby girl or little girl though!
Incest fantasies...no way Jose, Not EVER gonna go there.
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any kind of power/control thing gets me going...whether it's a schoolgirl and a teacher or a girl and her uncle or daddy or boss and secretary.
It's totally fantasy in my head and competely separate from reality. Everyone's kink is different and going to shock or repel someone, somewhere LOL
For example, diaper stuff...I don't see it. But hey, whatever floats your consensual and legal boat LOL
It's totally fantasy in my head and competely separate from reality. Everyone's kink is different and going to shock or repel someone, somewhere LOL
For example, diaper stuff...I don't see it. But hey, whatever floats your consensual and legal boat LOL
My first Dom was 17 and I don't think that we even knew what we were at the time.. I am know with a diff. man some 15 or so yrs. later and he is 4 yrs younger than me but has a hand on me at all times.
It was the look in his eyes the first time that I meet him. The way we walked and talked when we dated. It is not the age. It is how you think and the way you handle yourself. (There is nothing else alike about the two diff. Doms that have been or are currently in my life. I don't do reruns double for cruel, sadistic men who do not understand safe words..)_
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a Daddy/Dom provides a special guidance, disipline, and play.
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There are times I just want someone to take care of me and call me his 'little girl'. I would gladly call him daddy in a protector/provider sense. In my opinion, this is different from age play.
I believe it was also asked if a daddy dom has to be older than his little girl/sub. To me, it wouldn't necessarily matter. It's the emotions and feelings of the daddy dom that matter more than his actual age.
I believe it was also asked if a daddy dom has to be older than his little girl/sub. To me, it wouldn't necessarily matter. It's the emotions and feelings of the daddy dom that matter more than his actual age.
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FYI: I'm replying to the beginning of this thread.
Now, mind you I am not highly educated in the terms,rules,etc of any scene.
But to me, age play and incest play are two VERY different things. To be Dom'd by an "older" (which mentally the number isn't the big thrill, it's the maturity, control, and power figure) man is highly erotic
to me, but having him represent a father figure sexually is a line I just won't cross.
*shrug* but to each there own, as long as it's safe sane consentual and legal ages.
I mean, what's the harm, if thyself what you enjoy, as long as it doesn't cross the line into child preditor?
Now, mind you I am not highly educated in the terms,rules,etc of any scene.
But to me, age play and incest play are two VERY different things. To be Dom'd by an "older" (which mentally the number isn't the big thrill, it's the maturity, control, and power figure) man is highly erotic
to me, but having him represent a father figure sexually is a line I just won't cross.
*shrug* but to each there own, as long as it's safe sane consentual and legal ages.
I mean, what's the harm, if thyself what you enjoy, as long as it doesn't cross the line into child preditor?
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I have to admit I haven't read all of this thread, as it is quite lengthy, but browsing through it a little bit, I felt compelled to share my experiences - in fact, it's the only reason I got an account.
For a long time I felt that the relationship between me and my Daddy was pretty unique and not something I could every discuss in polite company, so maybe I will be able to find some kindred spirits here.
First of all, I do have a younger Daddy, he's several years younger than me, biologically, but he acts and talks and commands like someone twice my age and he says I act like I'm five, so it all works out in the end.
Secondly, it's not just a bedroom-only type of sexual thing for us, our relationship pervades every aspect of our lives, and I call him Daddy all the time, to the point that using his real name sounds weird and unnatural to me, the same way that using your father's real name might to a child.
Thirdly, we do indulge very heavily in ageplay and incestplay.
I don't lust after my biological father, and the thought of having real incestuous relations is very much a turn-off. However, I think it's about the intimacy of that relationship, as well as the control, and the taboo about it, that is so appealing. I place my trust in my Daddy completely, to take care of me, to make me happy, to look after me, the same way you would expect a biological daddy to. With him I can be young and innocent again, I can be soft and vulnerable, when I spent years putting up defenses against the world and all the ways it can hurt you.
I was sexually abused from the age of 12 until the age of 17. I'm not suggesting that this is the only reason why a girl would want a Daddy in her life, far from it - I think Daddies are great and wonderful and everyone should have one if you found one that suited you (or if you're not a dom ;p) . I'm just sharing my personal experiences with it. As a result of my trauma, for years and years I was terrified of men and terrified of heterosexual sex. I played the domme role with a couple of guys, because this was the only way that I felt I could regain any semblance of power. I never let anybody touch me. I never let anybody see me naked. I never let anybody get close.
And then I met my Daddy.
We didn't start out in a relationship, of course, no one just jumps into things like that - but we talked a lot, and he slowly got to know me. We became very good friends. Of course our relationship always had a sexual tone to it, because we started out as online RP partners (for incestplay, ageplay - with little boys instead of little girls) that eventually progressed to phonesex, still in the same vein. Even just immersing myself in the mindset of someone who had a Daddy, I found a sort of comfort that I'd never experienced before. Whenever something bad happened in my real life, he knew how to soothe me, whenever I had a hurt, he knew how to make it better. Even before we got in a relationship, I grew to think of him as my Daddy.
He always wanted me to open up to him, to let him see who I really was inside, underneath the hostility and bitterness and bitchiness I was proud to show the rest of the world. He always saw the cute, soft little girl I was deep down - one that I didn't even know existed until he brought her out. I have body image issues, he made me feel beautiful. He slowly worked with me to get over my phobias of sex, slowly introducing the idea of having sex with him in stages, talking to me about it and eroticizing it to the point where my body would get turned on at the idea even if my mind still shuddered with revulsion. But slowly, he got me over that, too.
He learned what turned me on mentally, and when we first got together, he dedicated days to learning my body, learning how I liked to be touched physically and how to make me cum. I didn't even know another person could make me cum before I met him - not that I had ever tried. I'm naturally a very sexual person, but due to my past trauma, I thought sex was always painful at worst and unpleasant at best. Without my Daddy, I never could have known how wonderful sex was, how happy it could make me, how loved it could make me feel, what an intimate, bonding experience it could be. I never knew that I could want it so much or so often and how fulfilling it was when I got it!
(I mean...and this is one of those things I can't tell anybody in my life, my real first time I was bound, gagged, and blindfolded, indulging in ageplay, and it wasn't painful at all, it was fantastic.
)
He slowly gained my trust and got past my defences and now I trust him completely, to treat me how he likes or to use me as he sees fit, because I know he loves me above all else and thinks I'm the most precious, most beautiful thing in the world, just like how a father might treasure his baby girl. He knows me so well, better than anyone I've ever met, better than my own family or my best friends. He knows all my secrets. He knows how to push my boundaries and when to use force and when and how to pull me back from the edge. He makes me feel beautiful, and above all else, he makes me feel loved. I never thought I could find that with anybody, least of all a man.
I've already written so much already and I haven't even touched on many of the aspects I wanted to, but I don't want to bore you all (if you're not bored already) but suffice to say, I love my Daddy and I think every little girl deserves one.
For a long time I felt that the relationship between me and my Daddy was pretty unique and not something I could every discuss in polite company, so maybe I will be able to find some kindred spirits here.
First of all, I do have a younger Daddy, he's several years younger than me, biologically, but he acts and talks and commands like someone twice my age and he says I act like I'm five, so it all works out in the end.
Secondly, it's not just a bedroom-only type of sexual thing for us, our relationship pervades every aspect of our lives, and I call him Daddy all the time, to the point that using his real name sounds weird and unnatural to me, the same way that using your father's real name might to a child.
Thirdly, we do indulge very heavily in ageplay and incestplay.
I don't lust after my biological father, and the thought of having real incestuous relations is very much a turn-off. However, I think it's about the intimacy of that relationship, as well as the control, and the taboo about it, that is so appealing. I place my trust in my Daddy completely, to take care of me, to make me happy, to look after me, the same way you would expect a biological daddy to. With him I can be young and innocent again, I can be soft and vulnerable, when I spent years putting up defenses against the world and all the ways it can hurt you.
I was sexually abused from the age of 12 until the age of 17. I'm not suggesting that this is the only reason why a girl would want a Daddy in her life, far from it - I think Daddies are great and wonderful and everyone should have one if you found one that suited you (or if you're not a dom ;p) . I'm just sharing my personal experiences with it. As a result of my trauma, for years and years I was terrified of men and terrified of heterosexual sex. I played the domme role with a couple of guys, because this was the only way that I felt I could regain any semblance of power. I never let anybody touch me. I never let anybody see me naked. I never let anybody get close.
And then I met my Daddy.
We didn't start out in a relationship, of course, no one just jumps into things like that - but we talked a lot, and he slowly got to know me. We became very good friends. Of course our relationship always had a sexual tone to it, because we started out as online RP partners (for incestplay, ageplay - with little boys instead of little girls) that eventually progressed to phonesex, still in the same vein. Even just immersing myself in the mindset of someone who had a Daddy, I found a sort of comfort that I'd never experienced before. Whenever something bad happened in my real life, he knew how to soothe me, whenever I had a hurt, he knew how to make it better. Even before we got in a relationship, I grew to think of him as my Daddy.
He always wanted me to open up to him, to let him see who I really was inside, underneath the hostility and bitterness and bitchiness I was proud to show the rest of the world. He always saw the cute, soft little girl I was deep down - one that I didn't even know existed until he brought her out. I have body image issues, he made me feel beautiful. He slowly worked with me to get over my phobias of sex, slowly introducing the idea of having sex with him in stages, talking to me about it and eroticizing it to the point where my body would get turned on at the idea even if my mind still shuddered with revulsion. But slowly, he got me over that, too.
He learned what turned me on mentally, and when we first got together, he dedicated days to learning my body, learning how I liked to be touched physically and how to make me cum. I didn't even know another person could make me cum before I met him - not that I had ever tried. I'm naturally a very sexual person, but due to my past trauma, I thought sex was always painful at worst and unpleasant at best. Without my Daddy, I never could have known how wonderful sex was, how happy it could make me, how loved it could make me feel, what an intimate, bonding experience it could be. I never knew that I could want it so much or so often and how fulfilling it was when I got it!
(I mean...and this is one of those things I can't tell anybody in my life, my real first time I was bound, gagged, and blindfolded, indulging in ageplay, and it wasn't painful at all, it was fantastic.
)He slowly gained my trust and got past my defences and now I trust him completely, to treat me how he likes or to use me as he sees fit, because I know he loves me above all else and thinks I'm the most precious, most beautiful thing in the world, just like how a father might treasure his baby girl. He knows me so well, better than anyone I've ever met, better than my own family or my best friends. He knows all my secrets. He knows how to push my boundaries and when to use force and when and how to pull me back from the edge. He makes me feel beautiful, and above all else, he makes me feel loved. I never thought I could find that with anybody, least of all a man.
I've already written so much already and I haven't even touched on many of the aspects I wanted to, but I don't want to bore you all (if you're not bored already) but suffice to say, I love my Daddy
and I think every little girl deserves one.littleprincess - sounds like you are part of a wonderful caring & sharing relationship - who cares what roles you play or what names are used. Intimacy between adults coming in many guises. You seem to have found exactly who and what you need. Lucky you.
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What is a Daddy Dom:
A Daddy Dom is the most tender of all Dominants. He loves His adult little one with an undying passion. He always has his submissive's best interest in mind, even when it conflicts with his personal desires. That doesn't mean that he gives into her every whim. There can be a huge difference in her desires and her real needs. He has to be able to make that sacrifice for her if needed. And yes, at times he does punish her. This usually hurts him just as much if not more than her, but he will always do what's best for her.
He helps her set and reach her goals in life, not just in the lifestyle. He will help her improve herself to be the best she can be, not for HIM but for her ! He's not just looking to make her a better submissive, but a better person in general.
He becomes many things in her life, a mentor, a teacher, a protector, a guide, AND� a lover! He offers her what she needs most of all, unconditional love and acceptance. He is consistent in his actions so that she knows what to expect from him, she knows she can depend on him!
He wants nothing more than to pull her close and protect her from the cruel world. But knowing all along that he can't ! SO � it is up to him to prepare her for whatever life may bring her way, and be there to comfort her when things go wrong. Knowing she will run to him when she becomes overwhelmed or frighten by the harshness of life. The Daddy Dom listens to all her fears and concerns, knowing no matter how silly or childish they may sound to him, to her they are real and he will help her confront them. He slays her dragons so to speak and he is her "Knight in Shining Armor".
The Daddy Dom hears all her dreams, desires and all the dirty little secrets, and smiles because she is bold enough and loves him enough to open herself up so totally to him. He kisses her face and holds her close letting her know she is loved no matter what. she is His little one, and he loves her unconditionally.
There is nothing more satisfying to him than to see her succeed, to watch as she grows as a person. He revels in her daily accomplishments almost as much as she does herself.
He will cuddle her and show her the tenderness she craves when she needs it., when she feels unsure of herself he will whisper encouraging words for her. When she feels ugly he will reassure her how beautiful she is to him ... when she is scared he will be her safety net, her medium against the world if need be. She is his pride and joy � his main comfort in life � his reason for living. His pride in her shows in the tender loving way he cares for her, he is the only one for her, her Daddy !
A Daddy Dom is the most tender of all Dominants. He loves His adult little one with an undying passion. He always has his submissive's best interest in mind, even when it conflicts with his personal desires. That doesn't mean that he gives into her every whim. There can be a huge difference in her desires and her real needs. He has to be able to make that sacrifice for her if needed. And yes, at times he does punish her. This usually hurts him just as much if not more than her, but he will always do what's best for her.
He helps her set and reach her goals in life, not just in the lifestyle. He will help her improve herself to be the best she can be, not for HIM but for her ! He's not just looking to make her a better submissive, but a better person in general.
He becomes many things in her life, a mentor, a teacher, a protector, a guide, AND� a lover! He offers her what she needs most of all, unconditional love and acceptance. He is consistent in his actions so that she knows what to expect from him, she knows she can depend on him!
He wants nothing more than to pull her close and protect her from the cruel world. But knowing all along that he can't ! SO � it is up to him to prepare her for whatever life may bring her way, and be there to comfort her when things go wrong. Knowing she will run to him when she becomes overwhelmed or frighten by the harshness of life. The Daddy Dom listens to all her fears and concerns, knowing no matter how silly or childish they may sound to him, to her they are real and he will help her confront them. He slays her dragons so to speak and he is her "Knight in Shining Armor".
The Daddy Dom hears all her dreams, desires and all the dirty little secrets, and smiles because she is bold enough and loves him enough to open herself up so totally to him. He kisses her face and holds her close letting her know she is loved no matter what. she is His little one, and he loves her unconditionally.
There is nothing more satisfying to him than to see her succeed, to watch as she grows as a person. He revels in her daily accomplishments almost as much as she does herself.
He will cuddle her and show her the tenderness she craves when she needs it., when she feels unsure of herself he will whisper encouraging words for her. When she feels ugly he will reassure her how beautiful she is to him ... when she is scared he will be her safety net, her medium against the world if need be. She is his pride and joy � his main comfort in life � his reason for living. His pride in her shows in the tender loving way he cares for her, he is the only one for her, her Daddy !
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This is so beautiful and what, I would guess, alot of people who want a Daddy Dom crave. I would like the many of the same things in my PYL when I find him, some Daddy Dom traits would not be amiss.
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tigressnred
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I appreciate your compliment but can not take credit for these words are not mine they were written by another Daddy........http://www.strctdaddy.com/Discipline_Inc/A_Daddy_Dom.html
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Daddy took over half the space in my house yesterday. I have to admit to being a bit shocked at first, but today I could not be happier. It looks as if he will walk in at any moment!
He took half the bed and the night stand beside it, half the closet, half the vanity in my bathroom and the recliner in my bedroom. He also has a chair at the head of the dining table.
He took half the bed and the night stand beside it, half the closet, half the vanity in my bathroom and the recliner in my bedroom. He also has a chair at the head of the dining table.
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tigressnred
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ooooo! Sounds very exciting! A new chapter for you and your Daddy huh?Daddy took over half the space in my house yesterday. I have to admit to being a bit shocked at first, but today I could not be happier. It looks as if he will walk in at any moment!
He took half the bed and the night stand beside it, half the closet, half the vanity in my bathroom and the recliner in my bedroom. He also has a chair at the head of the dining table.
Oh yes! I am so excited I am fit to burst! Now he is in just about every part of my house. The only exception are the kids rooms and their bathrooms.
How wonderfully worded! So beautiful, so loving.
strike_gently
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I think it would be pretty exciting to have a Daddy Dom one day
