Lady_Fiona
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Likewise. But now my online daddy is now in my real life albeit not often enough for either of us. It is intense but worth every single second. I am a very lucky girl.
Daddy Doms and the girls who love them
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Likewise. But now my online daddy is now in my real life albeit not often enough for either of us. It is intense but worth every single second. I am a very lucky girl.
Jessi_Baby
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I'm happy for you sweetie
I knew my daddy for 2 years, it broke my heart when we split.Lady_Fiona
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I'm happy for you sweetie
I cannot even imagine how that feels honey, but I am glad your online daddy is working out (if I read that right lol)
Jessi_Baby
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heh nope I am single in the real and virtual worlds *sob*
Lady_Fiona
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Oh honey
If you are looking for someone I hope you find them soon. Its no fun being daddyless. 
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Having seen you're profile pic jessi i don't think you will be waiting too long ral or virtual world!
daddy_4_ynglady
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The Daddy Dom Dynamic
I think, after reading a number of these blogs, that there is a great deal of confusion regarding the Daddy Dom dynamic. It is NOT about age play, it is NOT about pedophilia, and it is NOT about incest. The Daddy role is one of a nurturing, caring relationship. It is about mentoring, guiding, and caring. But one should never forget that a Daddy Dom, by definition, is also a dominant. Along with that caring and adoration, there are still the elements of strictness and control that is a part of a normal bdsm relationship.
If people are still confused with this, feel free to write me and I will be happy to discuss it more.
I think, after reading a number of these blogs, that there is a great deal of confusion regarding the Daddy Dom dynamic. It is NOT about age play, it is NOT about pedophilia, and it is NOT about incest. The Daddy role is one of a nurturing, caring relationship. It is about mentoring, guiding, and caring. But one should never forget that a Daddy Dom, by definition, is also a dominant. Along with that caring and adoration, there are still the elements of strictness and control that is a part of a normal bdsm relationship.
If people are still confused with this, feel free to write me and I will be happy to discuss it more.
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subgirl2
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That is so true. I can tell you have given it a lot of thought and are the real deal. I am sending you a pm
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The daddy/girl dynamic is what rings true for me but I've gotten only hurt when I've tried to pursue it either online or irl. After a while I just caved in and have pretty much accepted that such a thing as this isn't ever going to come true.
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I hope that is not true. I suppose it is like everything else, you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince.
I am at the stage where I don't think I could tolerate vanilla. I have had that and it just doesn't turn me on anymore. I want a Daddy or DaddyDom and anything else would bore me. I am single and unless I get something 'different' that is the way I am staying.
The problem is I have also gotten hurt in my pursuit of happiness. The trouble is people give promises and then when they get bored or the 'fad' passes, they go back to vanilla again and move on to something more 'appropriate'. Why can't they develop or grow from what they have?
Keep looking, the right person is out there somewhere.
SG2
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dont give up. im sure the right daddy is out there, and you might find him in the most peculiar place. keep your hopes up and best of luck to you.
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daddy_4_ynglady;31104541snip It is NOT about age play snip [/QUOTE said:
Sweetdaisymae
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Sir is older than me, I have always prefered older men, but I don't think I could look upon him as a father figure and wouldn't want to. It would seem too odd for me.
Although I am happy to play out the schoolgirl fantasy, a father fantasy/role play would utterly freak me out.
But horses for courses, we all have our own quirks, thats what makes it fun!
Although I am happy to play out the schoolgirl fantasy, a father fantasy/role play would utterly freak me out.
But horses for courses, we all have our own quirks, thats what makes it fun!
knee_socks_and_thigh_highs
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Hmmm well I read most of the beginning posts and I have to say..I love older men. Calling one daddy does get me going alittle and that might strange...but I don't care.
I mean that may change when I actually have sex for the first time
But for the time being I like the daddy aspect.
The only time I don't is when they actually have childern...that makes me slightly uncomfortable knowing they could be thinking about their daughter when talking to me
I mean that may change when I actually have sex for the first time
But for the time being I like the daddy aspect.
The only time I don't is when they actually have childern...that makes me slightly uncomfortable knowing they could be thinking about their daughter when talking to me
knee_socks_and_thigh_highs
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I guess it would depend on the person being the little girl/sub in the situation
AimeeLamis
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I call my Master Daddy all the time. For me it has nothing to do with incest. I call him Daddy because it denotes that he is the boss, the one on charge. We also engage in race play and I like to reserve my Masters for when he brings out the big guns. It's just our preference.
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I've read through everybody's comments and I want to through my 2 cents into the mix.
A few years ago, I was 40 lbs heavier than I am today. I would tease my kids into behaving, bc if they didn't "Big Daddy" was going to come tickle them, or sit on them, or whatever. This eventually filtered into the bedroom where I would tease my first wife, (6 yrs my junior) by saying stuff like, "Big Daddy" is going to make you regret saying that, or Big Daddy is F*** you up tonight. It didn't have anything to do with incest or anything else.
I think there is a certain element and several people have touched on this topic and that is the area of safety, security, discipline, and confidence that dad always had when you were growing up. Not to get all Freudian on you, but I think there is some truth to the concept that often times people marry their respective mom or dad. Some times the little girl inside the woman wants to be cared for and yes even disciplined by the "father-figure" who nurtured them growing up.
Even now, I know that my 7 yr old daughter adores me. I have started a tradition of "dating" my daughter (no not perverted) but taking her out on "dates". We will go where she wants to go and do what she wants to do. It used to be that I would take her, at her request, to a friends family dairy farm where we would ride 4 wheelers for a while and then we would go out for ice cream. She would get dressed up for me, do her hair, do her nails and we would go. I would open car doors for her and treat her right. The theory is some day down the road, if my daughter is out on a date, that boy is going to have a LOT to live up to. I have set the standard for how she should be treated and she shouldn't settle for anything less. She always is asking me, when can we go on our next date? I also know that how I treat her in everyday life is going to have an impact on her marriage. I know that if I do give her a swat on the bottom, either bc she has been naughty or as a tease, it is setting the stage for her marriage. (He can thank me later) Wasn't there a country song about "Daddy's Hands"? I know it's nothing incestuous, it's just her loving the warmth and security of her "Big Daddy". She will always be my "Precious" (my nickname for her) little girl and she knows it.
On the other side of the coin. As I get older, the women my age are also getting older (duh) and unfortunately they typically don't look like they did when they were 20. (Neither do I) Men being the visual creatures we are often enjoy the physic of a younger woman, with all it's sexuality and (Freud) reproductive potential. So wanting to "get busy" with a beautiful younger woman is on just about every man's wish list. Calling her "daughter" while doing it, uhm, not so much. I don't care if someday that hot young woman is the same age as my daughter, I have no desire to touch my daughter that way, but the other young woman, no question.
I know the schoolgirl fantasy is on a lot of guy's dream list (not mine). I think there is again a psychological thought process involved. Just like when many people smell fresh baked apple pie or homemade bread, it takes you back to when mom (or grandma) used to make it. Or when many women smell that certain cologne it will mentally transport them to when they had a crush on the guy who smelled like that. I think the same thing is true with the schoolgirl fantasy. I know when I was in school, and I was in my horny teen years, I druelled (sp) over many of the girls in my class. We didn't have uniforms, but I think that many guys lusted after the girls in their class who wore those uniforms and now when they see those uniforms it congers up positive sexual associations just like it did back when they were in school, horny as ever, getting it on under the bleachers.
After you get through all those psychological ramifications, we could get into the whole birth order thing. I had three younger sisters and as an older brother I enjoyed restraining them. (not in a sexual way) One sister has accused me of holding her down and "feeding" her a daddy long leg spider, a claim which I assure you is completely untrue and I will continue to vehemently deny those allegations. That said, I do remember a time when I was coming of age and I "restrained" one of my sisters friends just for the sake of restraining her and I definitely enjoyed that. (This is one of my first memories of my Dominant tendencies.)
I think I've given my 2 cents regarding this topic and then some! (Probably up to 50 cents! worth! lol) I don't have any formal schooling in psychology but I have read a lot about the topic especially in regards to conditioning a subs body, but that's a topic for another day.
Thanks for reading!
A few years ago, I was 40 lbs heavier than I am today. I would tease my kids into behaving, bc if they didn't "Big Daddy" was going to come tickle them, or sit on them, or whatever. This eventually filtered into the bedroom where I would tease my first wife, (6 yrs my junior) by saying stuff like, "Big Daddy" is going to make you regret saying that, or Big Daddy is F*** you up tonight. It didn't have anything to do with incest or anything else.
I think there is a certain element and several people have touched on this topic and that is the area of safety, security, discipline, and confidence that dad always had when you were growing up. Not to get all Freudian on you, but I think there is some truth to the concept that often times people marry their respective mom or dad. Some times the little girl inside the woman wants to be cared for and yes even disciplined by the "father-figure" who nurtured them growing up.
Even now, I know that my 7 yr old daughter adores me. I have started a tradition of "dating" my daughter (no not perverted) but taking her out on "dates". We will go where she wants to go and do what she wants to do. It used to be that I would take her, at her request, to a friends family dairy farm where we would ride 4 wheelers for a while and then we would go out for ice cream. She would get dressed up for me, do her hair, do her nails and we would go. I would open car doors for her and treat her right. The theory is some day down the road, if my daughter is out on a date, that boy is going to have a LOT to live up to. I have set the standard for how she should be treated and she shouldn't settle for anything less. She always is asking me, when can we go on our next date? I also know that how I treat her in everyday life is going to have an impact on her marriage. I know that if I do give her a swat on the bottom, either bc she has been naughty or as a tease, it is setting the stage for her marriage. (He can thank me later) Wasn't there a country song about "Daddy's Hands"? I know it's nothing incestuous, it's just her loving the warmth and security of her "Big Daddy". She will always be my "Precious" (my nickname for her) little girl and she knows it.
On the other side of the coin. As I get older, the women my age are also getting older (duh) and unfortunately they typically don't look like they did when they were 20. (Neither do I) Men being the visual creatures we are often enjoy the physic of a younger woman, with all it's sexuality and (Freud) reproductive potential. So wanting to "get busy" with a beautiful younger woman is on just about every man's wish list. Calling her "daughter" while doing it, uhm, not so much. I don't care if someday that hot young woman is the same age as my daughter, I have no desire to touch my daughter that way, but the other young woman, no question.
I know the schoolgirl fantasy is on a lot of guy's dream list (not mine). I think there is again a psychological thought process involved. Just like when many people smell fresh baked apple pie or homemade bread, it takes you back to when mom (or grandma) used to make it. Or when many women smell that certain cologne it will mentally transport them to when they had a crush on the guy who smelled like that. I think the same thing is true with the schoolgirl fantasy. I know when I was in school, and I was in my horny teen years, I druelled (sp) over many of the girls in my class. We didn't have uniforms, but I think that many guys lusted after the girls in their class who wore those uniforms and now when they see those uniforms it congers up positive sexual associations just like it did back when they were in school, horny as ever, getting it on under the bleachers.
After you get through all those psychological ramifications, we could get into the whole birth order thing. I had three younger sisters and as an older brother I enjoyed restraining them. (not in a sexual way) One sister has accused me of holding her down and "feeding" her a daddy long leg spider, a claim which I assure you is completely untrue and I will continue to vehemently deny those allegations. That said, I do remember a time when I was coming of age and I "restrained" one of my sisters friends just for the sake of restraining her and I definitely enjoyed that. (This is one of my first memories of my Dominant tendencies.)
I think I've given my 2 cents regarding this topic and then some! (Probably up to 50 cents! worth! lol) I don't have any formal schooling in psychology but I have read a lot about the topic especially in regards to conditioning a subs body, but that's a topic for another day.
Thanks for reading!
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knee_socks_and_thigh_highs
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I really like the above post because it one it explained from a dom/father point of view and two it was funny and sweet.
I do enjoy calling an older man daddy but my Dom right now is 41 the same age as my actual father and he himself has two daughters (thirteen and twelve) and since I am in the same sorta age range as them (I am eighteen well nineteen tomorrow)I can't help but worry what calling him daddy for the first time would play out to. though I want to call him daddy, I don't know how he would react.
I do enjoy calling an older man daddy but my Dom right now is 41 the same age as my actual father and he himself has two daughters (thirteen and twelve) and since I am in the same sorta age range as them (I am eighteen well nineteen tomorrow)I can't help but worry what calling him daddy for the first time would play out to. though I want to call him daddy, I don't know how he would react.
Is this a reflexion?
Hi forced... is this a real thing for you and does it reflect your nickname as well? If so, I am sorry.. I love incest, especially the father/daughter, but I would never even think of using violence to get what I cherish... Never! Incest love should be a sweet and gentle experience for both...
I think that the incest stories are read more often simply because if you want shocking sex - something taboo that will make you blush and leave a wet spot on your seat - those stories will hit their mark almost every time.
If I want the same from a regular couple/group/etc story, I may have to skim through a dozen or more before I find one that hits the nail on the head.
I am attracted to older men, but I've never felt the desire to call a man "Daddy".
He can call me his "little girl" if he wants, though.
Hi forced... is this a real thing for you and does it reflect your nickname as well? If so, I am sorry.. I love incest, especially the father/daughter, but I would never even think of using violence to get what I cherish... Never! Incest love should be a sweet and gentle experience for both...
