Daddy Doms and the girls who love them

[Harmony_1985]

See, and I hate saying this, my dad is an asshole. When I was younger he didn't reall care that much, he was more bothered about himself and the same still stands today, so the Daddy dom thing is alot about me having that care there that I don't get from my real dad.

Daddy cares alot more, my dad just doesn't give a shit really.

 

[purrrrrrr]

See, and I hate saying this, my dad is an asshole. When I was younger he didn't reall care that much, he was more bothered about himself and the same still stands today, so the Daddy dom thing is alot about me having that care there that I don't get from my real dad.

Daddy cares alot more, my dad just doesn't give a shit really.

Yes my dad was a crap dad , didn t have a caring or nurturing bone in his body .
Now on the other hand "my Daddy" *sigh*

 

[Harmony_1985]

Yes my dad was a crap dad , didn t have a caring or nurturing bone in his body .
Now on the other hand "my Daddy" *sigh*

Indeed.

Perfect example is the shit going on with my work atm. I just want out of there so desperately and I don't think I can carry on working there much past christmas because of them driving me insane.

My plan is to carry on, and if I've not found a new job by the start of December, hand in my notice and go on job seekers til I find something.

Dad's reaction: I hate where I work and I still keep working their because I have to!

Daddy's reaction: You do what you need to do to make you happy baby.

I miss him, stupid house moving

 

[ataxia.girl]

My question is, how can a Daddy Dom be younger than His girl; and there not be a sense of confusion involved?

Cause right now, even thinking of this situation; i am confused as to how that could work. With him being younger?

i've had a younger Daddy. It worked fine. He was very Dominant and very much a Daddy.

His biological age was still much older than my little age so he was older. my biological age has nothing to do with anything really. It only matters if it matters to Him and it didn't.

 

[Daddyslilpet]

As a teenager i have been abused by my daddy and i did not like it but got used to it

I'm sorry this happened to you, but it isn't true for all of us. My bio-father was always very loving and nuturing to me growing up. I don't get into the Daddy/lil girl relationship with my husband to replace my father. I already have an excellent father.

I enjoy this relationship with my husband because it makes me feel safe, protected and loved. Not to mention we find it to be lots of fun.

 

[txblush]

Hello,

I'm going to put myself on the line here, because I'm interested in posting a novel I've been working on.

From the research into BDSM. IMHO what I've read in articles and fiction on the subject of D/s relationships and training a submissive. A Dom cares and nurtures his sub to make her the best she can be for him and for herself. The sub's responsibility is acceptance that her Dom knows what's best for her. (I'm giving away my age with this one: Father knows best, Dom knows best.) He knows her limits and knows how far he can push her until she gently goes over the edge into that state of bliss each looks for when in a scene. I can only speak for myself and I've never had the pleasure of being a part of a D/s relationship. But when I think of a Dom who would do for me what I want. Give me the ultimate adult playground; two consenting adults. And let the little girl inside wiggle and squirm and did I mention suck and lick while the Dom plays with my body. Well then afterwards I'm like a babe in his arms when playtime's done. Is he my, 'Daddy?' Not biologically. But he is the one that made me feel special, loved and most definitely his. Would he mind if I called him, Daddy? God, I hope not! Because Real Daddy's don't love their little girls like this! But both the woman and the girl inside loved what hers did! Because while he may have played, he also cared and nurtured just like any father would do-minus the sex of course.

I don't know if MHO opinion will change anyone's mind on the DaddyDom but I hope it opened and maybe broadened it.

 

[txblush]

How about a, "Fuck me harder!" Then when it's over, "Thank you, Daddy." said with a kiss and a sigh.

 

[curious_little_girl]

I think that the incest stories are read more often simply because if you want shocking sex - something taboo that will make you blush and leave a wet spot on your seat - those stories will hit their mark almost every time.

If I want the same from a regular couple/group/etc story, I may have to skim through a dozen or more before I find one that hits the nail on the head.

I am attracted to older men, but I've never felt the desire to call a man "Daddy".

He can call me his "little girl" if he wants, though.

i feel the same way.

 

[curious_little_girl]

Hello,

I'm going to put myself on the line here, because I'm interested in posting a novel I've been working on.

From the research into BDSM. IMHO what I've read in articles and fiction on the subject of D/s relationships and training a submissive. A Dom cares and nurtures his sub to make her the best she can be for him and for herself. The sub's responsibility is acceptance that her Dom knows what's best for her. (I'm giving away my age with this one: Father knows best, Dom knows best.) He knows her limits and knows how far he can push her until she gently goes over the edge into that state of bliss each looks for when in a scene. I can only speak for myself and I've never had the pleasure of being a part of a D/s relationship. But when I think of a Dom who would do for me what I want. Give me the ultimate adult playground; two consenting adults. And let the little girl inside wiggle and squirm and did I mention suck and lick while the Dom plays with my body. Well then afterwards I'm like a babe in his arms when playtime's done. Is he my, 'Daddy?' Not biologically. But he is the one that made me feel special, loved and most definitely his. Would he mind if I called him, Daddy? God, I hope not! Because Real Daddy's don't love their little girls like this! But both the woman and the girl inside loved what hers did! Because while he may have played, he also cared and nurtured just like any father would do-minus the sex of course.

I don't know if MHO opinion will change anyone's mind on the DaddyDom but I hope it opened and maybe broadened it.

As someone who is just discovering her little girl within, or more appropriately, finally letting her out, I can totally relate to what you have said here, txblush.

 

[FurryFury]

Incest stories between fathers and daughters on here, at least, rarely involve actual sex.

I find that frustrating.

When I first came to this site I couldn't believe that incest stories were so popular.

When my husband pulls my hair and growls out something like "You can't hid your face this time little girl." during rough sex, well it really gets me going.

 

[Lady_Fiona]

Likewise to the above comment.

My dad died when I was 16. Thats a story for another day. My Daddy *sigh* well, hes my world. I absolutely adore him, even if I am a brat of the highest order sometimes. My world would crumble without him.

 

[curiousirish]

Don't mind me I'm just lurkin with intent.....

 

[val85]

Saying hello in case any of you want to say hello to me..

 

[curiousirish]

Saying hello in case any of you want to say hello to me..

hello

 

[curiousirish]

I dont profess to understand it but I know I like the idea of it.......and there is something very Freudian about my reason for liking it......I admit that......its something I cant quite get my head round.....but something I cant forget about either....??

 

[val85]

It's tough for me to explain too, I'm sure there's something Freudian about it for me, but I have a really good relationship with father and he never touched me or anything like that. I'm sure I must see him as the ideal man or something, but I think I just am physically more attracted to older men and I love the way they treat me in comparison to guys my age who are so immature.

 

[soi7]

Yes I think that's it, that there is a natural tendency to want to be under the wing, as it were, of a strong alpha male. It's comforting, and as long as you trust that man, you are free to be who you are. And free to not worry about being a bad girl, or to have any doubts about yourself, etc. because your alpha Daddy figure is in command. If he says it's okay, it's okay. If he wants something from you you want to give it, because he's wise and in control.

 

[mscherrypoppins]

I will never have a Daddy D, but if I were to have to choose, it would be my preference. I've observed alot of interaction between Daddy's and their little girls. There is something so sweet about the joining. I don't believe that every girl has lusted after or has been molested by her father. I don't believe it's strictly based on the fact alot of women adore older men. I think it's an inner craving. A need for discipline but that special love-n-protection a Daddy offers. It's stict and yet very sensual.

 

[ataxia.girl]

i run away from my Daddy bout once a month. He always asks me if i remembered to pack sammiches in my suitcase. i always say yes and he can't have any cuz usually am real real mad

 

[orlandito69]

Hi people!

I'm here just giving my two cents.

The "daddy" thing has been a theme in my recent relationship. She was an only daughter and never really knew her father, so I think it might have something to do.

I find it very exciting to play daddy for her, but the most important thing is that it's not really about being her BIOLOGICAL father (and she's actually older than me) but rather a strong yet tender figure which gives her security, comfort and nurturing. It's really beautiful. We both love it. And it's not the only role we play, either, it hasn't to be exclusive

 

[subgirl2]

... that's such an innocent, yet clever person. Beautiful, trusting, alone and wanting to seak adventure... A prospective Daddy, weither he is a Dom or as equaly afirming loving Daddy, must know that trust, understanding and patience are a minimum MUST. This relationship is SO precious, dont abuse it. By the same token dont take your Daddy for granted....

Great thread!
J3

Swoon

Well said Jeeper3. xxx

 

[subgirl2]

IMHO

The D/d thing is always hot!! It has very little to do with sex. I have always been attracted to older men but I didn't understand why. I just felt safer and found they treated me better than guys my own age.

I was lucky to have found a thread here on lit about Daddy/daughter and out of a morbid curiousity, read it expecting to be appalled but it was the opposite. It was making sense to me. I was fortunate to meet a sweet Daddy here and it all made sense. The years of looking for that piece of me that was missing. He was a warm and caring Daddy and I realised that it was the unconditional love that a Daddy has for his daughter that was attractive. He would never hurt her and always put her first. He would treat her as if she was the most special thing in the world to him and everything he did would be for her own good.

My Daddy was perfect at this. I was lucky to have him for about 2 years and he made me realise that this is what I wanted. It has very little to do with sex and all to do with the relationship and having total trust in and unconditional love for someone, safe in the knowledge that they would never hurt you. There are not many men who can be a good Daddy, but I was extremely lucky to have found one. He is gone now but I will never forget him.

The only problem now is that I no longer want a 'man' in my life. just a 'Daddy'. lol

 

[Victoria_Swims]

My first post. Yay!

Very interesting thread. I'm in an unusual (my characterization - might be considered normal to others) relationship with a much older man. D/s is very much a part of the dynamic and he often likes to be called Daddy during play. He initiated the relationship and definitely I would say the age difference and a certain comfort I felt around him because of it allowed him to to gradually move the relationship from friendly banter and teasing to the full menu including dessert.

The biggest surprise for me was how easily I fell into it. Some Daddys are just irresistible I guess.

 

[HowMayIPleaseU]

I quite enjoy it all...

 

[Jessi_Baby]

It's worked better for me online then in real life. My real life experience with a daddy got too intense.