barefootgirl69
🧡 Wild Lil Cupcake
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- May 14, 2015
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Someone mentioned this on another site this week. So many think it's just a sexual thing. They can't understand it's not just a kink or kinky sex, but - as you said - psychological thing. I need the nurturing and caring side, where I trust and we connect, way more than I need an orgasm.Actually, I think most people don't know or understand much anything of the psychological side of BDSM. The trust. The bond, if in a relationship. The level of care. How it can be a need instead of just a want.
And DDlg is even less understood.
ETA: But, I want the orgasm, too! #greedy

