Daddy's Little Girl - Fourth Edition

[Strixaluco]

How is kitty doing, and how are you?

The kitty is better for now, agreeing to eat and social, but mostly resting unlike his normal self. It's not like I'd forget...

I'm okayish. I'm no stranger to sorrow. I've also managed to be more active, but it might partly be due to me being a slightly stressed, executing mode...

My little side isn't quite sexual, but it seems to hide from my executive mode just as well.

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

The kitty is better for now, agreeing to eat and social, but mostly resting unlike his normal self. It's not like I'd forget...

I'm okayish. I'm no stranger to sorrow. I've also managed to be more active, but it might partly be due to me being a slightly stressed, executing mode...

My little side isn't quite sexual, but it seems to hide from my executive mode just as well.

Sometimes we just need to be the boss lady and deal with life. I’ll keep you and kitty in my

 

[Strixaluco]

Sometimes we just need to be the boss lady and deal with life. I’ll keep you and kitty in my

I'm just fussing around, but at least I've gotten some stuff off my procrastination list.

I'd just want to be able to get to little mode to relax...

 

[barefootgirl69]

I slipped up this morning and had a protein drink instead of eating food (protein), and ended up physically sick. I finally was able to hold some real food down and get my blood sugar under control, but I feel like I've run into a wall. I will never drink that on an empty stomach again!

Early bedtime for me. I hope everyone has a wonderful Tuesday!

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

Our little group of Daddies and Littles went to a cooking class today. Very enjoyable, and obvious that the hosts had no idea about their students. Made it seem naughty when us Littles all fed our Daddies at the end.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Found online:

"Long day, baby girl?? Come sit on my lap as I play with your hair and hold you. Work was rough. I know. Don’t be hard on yourself. That will not help. Let my touch soothe your day. Look into my eyes and know I am not going anywhere and you are not alone. I have you. Your thoughts, feelings, mental and physical needs, as well as, emotional. You are mine."


Sometimes we just need a quiet place to land on a very hard day. I hope each of you are finding that spot.

 

[~Elizabeth~]

Seeing this reminded me of this video I ran across a week or so ago.

 

[morelikeasong]

Found online:

"Long day, baby girl?? Come sit on my lap as I play with your hair and hold you. Work was rough. I know. Don’t be hard on yourself. That will not help. Let my touch soothe your day. Look into my eyes and know I am not going anywhere and you are not alone. I have you. Your thoughts, feelings, mental and physical needs, as well as, emotional. You are mine."


Sometimes we just need a quiet place to land on a very hard day. I hope each of you are finding that spot.

I love this

 

[dreamyjane]

Found online:

"Long day, baby girl?? Come sit on my lap as I play with your hair and hold you. Work was rough. I know. Don’t be hard on yourself. That will not help. Let my touch soothe your day. Look into my eyes and know I am not going anywhere and you are not alone. I have you. Your thoughts, feelings, mental and physical needs, as well as, emotional. You are mine."


Sometimes we just need a quiet place to land on a very hard day. I hope each of you are finding that spot.

I needed to read this. Thanks for sharing!

 

[Strixaluco]

A glorious lazy morning in bed, birds singing, after having a good night's sleep makes a babygirl happy!

 

[johnwyne007]

Yes, I’m responsible for so much in my rl. Need a DD to care for me and help me feel free

I understand your needs very much. That’s the most important is for you to know you’re safe and secure. That you can be free to be the best version of yourself. A good DD listens to your heart and deeply desires to honor your heart in your needs and desires.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Not to mention DD/lg is about so much more than sex and "fuck me daddy". One is a lifestyle and the other is a fetish.

 

[johnwyne007]

Not to mention DD/lg is about so much more than sex and "fuck me daddy". One is a lifestyle and the other is a fetish.

That’s such an important distinction! It is definitely my lifestyle.

 

[Strixaluco]

Surreal feeling noticing it - but I like that there has been some cleanup happening here!

 

[Strixaluco]

I'm having a drop. I think I have some mental scar tissue running deep in me, and last night something disturbed it. It's tugging, itching, pulling.

It's about having to be useful (in general) and an equal partner. And feeling not like one at all, being this needy emotionally, needing "to be handled" and even needing practical support. Not feeling worthy of my wonderful Dom.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

I'm having a drop. I think I have some mental scar tissue running deep in me, and last night something disturbed it. It's tugging, itching, pulling.

It's about having to be useful (in general) and an equal partner. And feeling not like one at all, being this needy emotionally, needing "to be handled" and even needing practical support. Not feeling worthy of my wonderful Dom.

Your Dom is wonderful because he loves you even when you're low.
You are worthy of good things.
Don't deny yourself his support and love and trust that he gives them because he wants to do so.

What does equal mean to you in your relationship with him? Have you asked him what he thinks? If he wants more or is unhappy?

When I get low I always feel like I'm not worthy of the time and energy of those that care about me but those feelings are lies that only succeed in making me feel worse.

I hope your drop passes quickly

 

[Strixaluco]

Your Dom is wonderful because he loves you even when you're low.
You are worthy of good things.
Don't deny yourself his support and love and trust that he gives them because he wants to do so.

What does equal mean to you in your relationship with him? Have you asked him what he thinks? If he wants more or is unhappy?

When I get low I always feel like I'm not worthy of the time and energy of those that care about me but those feelings are lies that only succeed in making me feel worse.

I hope your drop passes quickly

Thank you Rose

I know this is mostly in my own head. I didn't try to brush the drop away but let it wash over me, because initially I just recognised there's some vague deeper issue, and I had to get to analyse it. And boy isn't this an old issue. Just now that I'm actually having the kind of partner I need, it gets me deeper. The roots of it aren't even in relationships, I think...

I haven't discussed this with him yet. But I have to write "feedback"/session diary each time, and somehow I feel this one will be an overly lengthy essay. And it will be discussed next time we meet. I think I'd benefit from hearing in more detail about how he sees this, and what he wants and needs. I know I'm the most important person in his life - he has explicitly said as much - and he always has a safe place for me in his lap. Just I guess I need a more tangible discussion about what he gets from this, for it to ease my mind. I know it's common for daddies to need to be needed, for example, but that's still too vague knowledge in my mind.

I guess it's also partly about how difficult it can be to truly grasp that someone can actually be your counterpart. Needing what you have to give, and ready to give what you need. Especially when it's not the "norm" in society, which is 2 very independent, self-sufficient and definitely non-needy adults getting together.

 

[13Fantasies]

I was listening to an old song by Joe Diffie, and finally understood something! The lyrics were:

"Cause and effect, chain of events, all of the chaos makes perfect sense.
When you're spinning 'round things come undone.
Welcome to Earth, Third Rock from the Sun."

That's why I end up losing my panties when I twirl around in my dresses!

*nods wisely*

-Asks to swing dance with @barefootgirl69 -

 

[Apisto42]

Thank you Rose

I know this is mostly in my own head. I didn't try to brush the drop away but let it wash over me, because initially I just recognised there's some vague deeper issue, and I had to get to analyse it. And boy isn't this an old issue. Just now that I'm actually having the kind of partner I need, it gets me deeper. The roots of it aren't even in relationships, I think...

I haven't discussed this with him yet. But I have to write "feedback"/session diary each time, and somehow I feel this one will be an overly lengthy essay. And it will be discussed next time we meet. I think I'd benefit from hearing in more detail about how he sees this, and what he wants and needs. I know I'm the most important person in his life - he has explicitly said as much - and he always has a safe place for me in his lap. Just I guess I need a more tangible discussion about what he gets from this, for it to ease my mind. I know it's common for daddies to need to be needed, for example, but that's still too vague knowledge in my mind.

I guess it's also partly about how difficult it can be to truly grasp that someone can actually be your counterpart. Needing what you have to give, and ready to give what you need. Especially when it's not the "norm" in society, which is 2 very independent, self-sufficient and definitely non-needy adults getting together.

Everyone is different, but it not just makes me feel needed when she comes to me with her lg face, it also brings out the protector, nurturer, etc.

I was listening to an old song by Joe Diffie, and finally understood something! The lyrics were:

"Cause and effect, chain of events, all of the chaos makes perfect sense.
When you're spinning 'round things come undone.
Welcome to Earth, Third Rock from the Sun."

That's why I end up losing my panties when I twirl around in my dresses!

*nods wisely*

It would be fun to take you two-stepping and swing dancing then.

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

I haven't discussed this with him yet. But I have to write "feedback"/session diary each time, and somehow I feel this one will be an overly lengthy essay. And it will be discussed next time we meet. I think I'd benefit from hearing in more detail about how he sees this, and what he wants and needs. I know I'm the most important person in his life - he has explicitly said as much - and he always has a safe place for me in his lap.

The key to success is communication. Keep journaling, explore your thoughts and write them down. Next time you see him, have that long conversation. In the meantime, he’s given you the ultimate weighted blanket, the knowledge that you are the most important person in his life.

And if you need bunny snuggles for comfort, just say the word.

 

[Strixaluco]

Just sent him the long essay. It's longer than many essays I wrote in school... have to print it, too, there were even many other issues to talk about as well and we won't remember them all.

And if you need bunny snuggles for comfort, just say the word.

Of course I need snuggles! Curls up expectantly and leaves space for bunny

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

Of course I need snuggles! Curls up expectantly and leaves space for bunny

Bunny approaches the owl and snuggles against her. The owl wraps her in her wings. Thy fall into a contented sleep.

 

[morelikeasong]

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[Strixaluco]

Little girls can get cranky without proper sleep. But not having good enough sleep for 2 weeks... I'm really done adulting by this point.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Little girls can get cranky without proper sleep. But not having good enough sleep for 2 weeks... I'm really done adulting by this point.

Are you feeling any better, Strix? Have you been able to get any rest?