Damn. It happened again.

Sorry to hear of your misfortune, LJ. I hope the pain passes quickly (it's a bitch that it hurts at all, when the guy was such a waste). Unfortunately, it's like grieving (or is it grieving, technically?), it just takes time and patience and good friends. the latter are here if you need us.

Q_C
 
LJ,

So sorry for you, dear. *hugs* You are better off without the bastard but the pain will take longer to go away. All I can offer is my support. We're all here for you.

:rose:
 
Dranoel said:
My condolences, Jeanne.

Some men are just assholes.

But remember, it's just some. There are still good guys out there and one is prob'ly looking for you.

:rose:

Thanks, Dran. If you run into that good guy, can you point him in my general direction? He's obviously lost.
 
perdita said:
LJ, I am not being flippant when I say try to think of him as just another member of his species. It helped me once. P. :heart:

I'll take all the help I can get, dearest. Thank you.
 
BlackShanglan said:
*nuzzle*

He's an ass. And while some of my best friends are donkeys, he's not the good kind.

All I can say is that anyone who's read your work must know what an absolute idiot he must be.

Don't berate yourself. Love takes trust. We're not fools to trust; we're just brave and hopeful. It takes courage to believe the best of people, and it's courage that is needed for the good of everyone. Idiots who abuse that faith and strength are neither clever nor superior - just curs who are willing to destroy all of the beauty and love that we all need in pursuit of egoistic gratification.

You are infinitely his superior.

Shanglan

Ah, that made me cry, sweets. THank you. :kiss:
 
LadyJeanne said:
Thanks, Dran. If you run into that good guy, can you point him in my general direction? He's obviously lost.

I'm afraid we keep all the good guys down in an impenetrable vault with the guys who can dance.
 
Boo, Rob, QC, and elizabeth - thank you for the drinks and the sympathy.

It does add insult to injury that I feel awful about losing him, or what I thought we had together. I need to paraphrase Dran's Anony Mous and tell myself a thousand times:

HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID
 
LadyJeanne said:
Boo, Rob, QC, and elizabeth - thank you for the drinks and the sympathy.

It does add insult to injury that I feel awful about losing him, or what I thought we had together. I need to paraphrase Dran's Anony Mous and tell myself a thousand times:

HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID HE'S SO STUPID

That sounds like a good road to recovery. ;)

BTW: If I should find a good man, which direction should I send him?
 
Dranoel said:
That sounds like a good road to recovery. ;)

BTW: If I should find a good man, which direction should I send him?

The land of pastel sand castles and misfit toys. I'll be sittin' on the Dock of the Bay watching the gulls fly over Alcatraz.
 
LadyJeanne said:
The land of pastel sand castles and misfit toys. I'll be sittin' on the Dock of the Bay watching the gulls fly over Alcatraz.

Hey, Luc!!!

Ever been to San Francisco?

;)
 
Lucifer_Carroll said:
I'm afraid we keep all the good guys down in an impenetrable vault with the guys who can dance.


I hate to tell you guys this, but we're not dancing. :D :devil:
 
LJ,

I'm sorry to hear about this. As I end up telling too many of my patients who's SO leaves them. He was not a man. He was something less than a rabid animal, and we tend to shoot them.

Keep your head up and heal my dear. He's not worth burning yourself over.

Cat

P.S. My wife wants you to send him her way. She has a full body massage with a steel wire brush and Habanero juice waiting for him.
 
SeaCat said:
LJ,

I'm sorry to hear about this. As I end up telling too many of my patients who's SO leaves them. He was not a man. He was something less than a rabid animal, and we tend to shoot them.

Keep your head up and heal my dear. He's not worth burning yourself over.

Cat

P.S. My wife wants you to send him her way. She has a full body massage with a steel wire brush and Habanero juice waiting for him.

Your wife sounds like my kind of lady. ;)

Thanks, Cat. :kiss:
 
LadyJeanne said:
Luc and Yui, thank you for being willing to inflict bodily harm on my behalf. Those kind of friends are good friends to have. I'd take you up on it, but I'm too busy kicking myself for believing.
I'm trying to picture Luc and I driving around , inflicting bodily harm on the deserving...I'm wearing a spiffy, very forgiving catsuit and over the knee black boots. No ears or tail. Luc is in black...no catsuit, no tights...I'm thinking a billowing coat, mebbe... :D

And I'll just be in the vault watching the dancers if you need me…
 
yui said:
I'm trying to picture Luc and I driving around , inflicting bodily harm on the deserving...I'm wearing a spiffy, very forgiving catsuit and over the knee black boots. No ears or tail. Luc is in black...no catsuit, no tights...I'm thinking a billowing coat, mebbe... :D

And I'll just be in the vault watching the dancers if you need me…

I can see it now, and am drooling on my keyboard.

Cat
 
yui said:
I'm trying to picture Luc and I driving around , inflicting bodily harm on the deserving...I'm wearing a spiffy, very forgiving catsuit and over the knee black boots. No ears or tail. Luc is in black...no catsuit, no tights...I'm thinking a billowing coat, mebbe... :D

And I'll just be in the vault watching the dancers if you need me…

Well, in those outfits, it does sound like you might inflict instant death or instant hard-ons. I know I'd get at least a little wet, broken heart and all. ;)
 
LadyJ -

I had something similar happen this fall and it sucks. I wasn't as deeply involved and for that I am grateful.

Pain is pain. Betrayal is one of the worst pains. Try to sit with it until it subsides on its own. Forcing the pain or grief away won't really help. Eventually (hours, days, weeks, whatever) it will fade and you'll be you again, only better.

:rose:
 
logophile said:
LadyJ -

I had something similar happen this fall and it sucks. I wasn't as deeply involved and for that I am grateful.

Pain is pain. Betrayal is one of the worst pains. Try to sit with it until it subsides on its own. Forcing the pain or grief away won't really help. Eventually (hours, days, weeks, whatever) it will fade and you'll be you again, only better.

:rose:

I'm sorry you had to go through anything like this, sweets. This really gets you where it hurts. Time is a good thing; it's just so damn slow and in the meantime...ouch.
 
yui said:
I'm trying to picture Luc and I driving around , inflicting bodily harm on the deserving...I'm wearing a spiffy, very forgiving catsuit and over the knee black boots. No ears or tail. Luc is in black...no catsuit, no tights...I'm thinking a billowing coat, mebbe... :D

And I'll just be in the vault watching the dancers if you need me…

Can I come? I'll bring my feathers and deerskin...

;)
 
SeaCat said:
I can see it now, and am drooling on my keyboard.


Cat

:D We might just swing by down south and pick up a certain Cool Cat I know about, so be picking out your costume…

LadyJeanne said:
Well, in those outfits, it does sound like you might inflict instant death or instant hard-ons. I know I'd get at least a little wet, broken heart and all. ;)

Glad to be of service…give me a little time and Luc in some spandex and you will forget all about the rat bastard. ;)

cloudy said:
Can I come? I'll bring my feathers and deerskin...

;)

Feathers and deerskin? I think I just got a tingle! Oh, yes, please climb in! You can squeeze in the front seat right here with me. :devil:

Dranoel said:
I'm in!

Errr... Uhhhh... Never know when you might need a dragon. ;)

You're just here for the feathers and doeskin, aren't you, Dragon-san? ;) But it's all good and you won't need a costume either what with the fire-breathing and wings…
 
yui said:
You're just here for the feathers and doeskin, aren't you, Dragon-san? ;) But it's all good and you won't need a costume either what with the fire-breathing and wings…

Need a light? :D
 
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