Discreet Bi Women...

I think there is a biological/pheromone component to what I was trying to describe in my last post.

With my husband in particular - and with some other men to a much lesser extent - I feel like there is a scent that creates a craving in me. In fact, I know there is. I can pick up a shirt that my husband has worn, breathe it in and feel a need to get my hands on him.

The same thing happens when I roll over to his side of the bed in the morning after he has left for work. If I bury my face in his pillow, it's like taking a drug.

I can certainly smell what I assume is the equivalent scent from a woman - especially if she and I are making out - but it doesn't have the same kind of drug-like effect.

Does anyone reading this have that feeling from both men and women?

Do you sometimes get a craving for a woman if you get close to her *and* sometimes also get the same kind of craving for men?
 
angela146 said:
I think there is a biological/pheromone component to what I was trying to describe in my last post.

With my husband in particular - and with some other men to a much lesser extent - I feel like there is a scent that creates a craving in me. In fact, I know there is. I can pick up a shirt that my husband has worn, breathe it in and feel a need to get my hands on him.

The same thing happens when I roll over to his side of the bed in the morning after he has left for work. If I bury my face in his pillow, it's like taking a drug.

I can certainly smell what I assume is the equivalent scent from a woman - especially if she and I are making out - but it doesn't have the same kind of drug-like effect.

Does anyone reading this have that feeling from both men and women?

Do you sometimes get a craving for a woman if you get close to her *and* sometimes also get the same kind of craving for men?

I wish I could answer this for you but because I've never been with a woman, it would be hard for me to answer... sigh....
 
angela146 said:
I think there is a biological/pheromone component to what I was trying to describe in my last post.

With my husband in particular - and with some other men to a much lesser extent - I feel like there is a scent that creates a craving in me. In fact, I know there is. I can pick up a shirt that my husband has worn, breathe it in and feel a need to get my hands on him.

The same thing happens when I roll over to his side of the bed in the morning after he has left for work. If I bury my face in his pillow, it's like taking a drug.

I can certainly smell what I assume is the equivalent scent from a woman - especially if she and I are making out - but it doesn't have the same kind of drug-like effect.

Does anyone reading this have that feeling from both men and women?

Do you sometimes get a craving for a woman if you get close to her *and* sometimes also get the same kind of craving for men?

As a "mostly" straight guy (although I think, actually I know... I would wolf down a chick with a dick in 2 seconds flat though- maybe that makes me "bi"?, although she would have to be visually "completely" a woman until she dropped her jeans), I can assure you that pheromones are literally "drug-like" to the "lover" (sexual orientation I'm sure doesn't change the effect?!). All my gf's and lovers would throw their panties in my face so I could sniff them, and left me their undies for my masturbation purposes when they left, and omg! does it work!!! Also, the smell of the body scent, perfume, or any scent reminding of a special time or event, is intoxicating!! I still have the panties of all my previous gf's and lovers, and while most of them have long lost the scent of their pussy, I still can "remember" their scent and get hard in seconds from the remembrance of the "events".... woah..... Anthropology 101 must be in here somewhere.. lol
 
It’s hard to describe. A man’s smell is not subtle – it’s a man. But a woman is different. Her sent melts into your own – sort of blending and mixing until you go down on her. I don’t know if this make since or not. I guess I’m trying to say that the feel and sent of a woman is so much like touching yourself that it’s hard to know she stops and you begin.
Ples…




Minouners said:
I wish I could answer this for you but because I've never been with a woman, it would be hard for me to answer... sigh....
 
Hey, don't knock the scent, it workd - it's how I knew I wasn't gay..,
The smell of another man just makes me want to fight...or run away....
 
plesmone said:
It’s hard to describe. A man’s smell is not subtle – it’s a man. But a woman is different. Her sent melts into your own – sort of blending and mixing until you go down on her. I don’t know if this make since or not. I guess I’m trying to say that the feel and sent of a woman is so much like touching yourself that it’s hard to know she stops and you begin.
Ples…

That's a very good description. Thank you for sharing that. I just hope that I can tell you all about it when it happens for me. Share the smells! :)
 
It will happen – hopefully with the right person(s). My first roommate was a real bitch. It was the first time I had lived with a girl and I not excited about doing it again. But I ended up with a different roommate the next year – a girl who made it possible to explore all the feeling I had kept inside. When the right one comes along you will know.
Ples…

and judging by your pic - that shouldn't be too long :)

Minouners said:
That's a very good description. Thank you for sharing that. I just hope that I can tell you all about it when it happens for me. Share the smells! :)
 
plesmone said:
It will happen – hopefully with the right person(s). My first roommate was a real bitch. It was the first time I had lived with a girl and I not excited about doing it again. But I ended up with a different roommate the next year – a girl who made it possible to explore all the feeling I had kept inside. When the right one comes along you will know.
Ples…

and judging by your pic - that shouldn't be too long :)

Aaawww, thanks. That means a lot. I don't have a great self esteem so it never hurts to hear things like that!

But you are right, when the right person comes along, it will happen. Just have to be patient in the meantime!

And with that said, I'm off to lala land. Have a great night and sweet dreams! :rose:
 
Minouners said:
Aaawww, thanks. That means a lot. I don't have a great self esteem so it never hurts to hear things like that!

But you are right, when the right person comes along, it will happen. Just have to be patient in the meantime!

And with that said, I'm off to lala land. Have a great night and sweet dreams! :rose:

sleep well....
ples...
 
Can someone tell me how they feel about this one...

Our thread says, Discreet Bi Women... does it bother anyone that a man posts here???
 
Minouners said:
How are you?
I haven't finished my coffee, so it's hard to say.

And as for you last query (guy posting in bi women's thread), so long as he doesn't knock us for our tastes, I'm ok with anything!
 
Minouners said:
Can someone tell me how they feel about this one...

Our thread says, Discreet Bi Women... does it bother anyone that a man posts here???
Well there is at least 3 guys including myself who post here at times. I cant speak for the others, but I always hoped that my opinions would be welcomed. Sorry If I have upset anyone.
 
Terra_Cide said:
I haven't finished my coffee, so it's hard to say.

And as for you last query (guy posting in bi women's thread), so long as he doesn't knock us for our tastes, I'm ok with anything!

LOL I guess I'll ask again when you're coffee is done! ;)

Thanks for the input!
 
naughtyinsilk said:
Well there is at least 3 guys including myself who post here at times. I cant speak for the others, but I always hoped that my opinions would be welcomed. Sorry If I have upset anyone.

Ohhhh naughty... I was soooo not talking about you here. Sorry if I hurt your feelings... if truth be told, I was talking about someone who has recently posted here that hasn't before. It probably was very immature of me to have said anything... Your opinions are always welcomed... if anything, I respect yours profoundly! :kiss: Forgive me?
 
Minouners said:
Ohhhh naughty... I was soooo not talking about you here. Sorry if I hurt your feelings... if truth be told, I was talking about someone who has recently posted here that hasn't before. It probably was very immature of me to have said anything... Your opinions are always welcomed... if anything, I respect yours profoundly! :kiss: Forgive me?
Theres nothing to forgive sweetie :kiss:
 
Minouners said:
You're the best! :rose: :kiss:

Any special plans for the weekend?

Muck out the horses in the morning, clothes shopping in the afternoon, then out with the girls tomorrow evening.
Sunday probably sleep off hangover :)

The girl/guy thing can be a little confusing for me at times also, having lived in lesbian/bi households since I was 18, even most of the girls forget I am a guy, they normally say I dont count. They always feel safe with me and will happily undress in front of me without thinking or climb into bed and cuddle up.

The way they regard me I am proud of, its guys that I have no idea on how to relate to.
 
Minouners said:
LOL I guess I'll ask again when you're coffee is done! ;)

Thanks for the input!
Now that my brain is functioning better, I can now say I'm having a great day! Then again, I always have a great day, no matter what. :D
 
naughtyinsilk said:
Muck out the horses in the morning, clothes shopping in the afternoon, then out with the girls tomorrow evening.
Sunday probably sleep off hangover :)

The girl/guy thing can be a little confusing for me at times also, having lived in lesbian/bi households since I was 18, even most of the girls forget I am a guy, they normally say I dont count. They always feel safe with me and will happily undress in front of me without thinking or climb into bed and cuddle up.

The way they regard me I am proud of, its guys that I have no idea on how to relate to.
Speaking of mucking out, did you ever get those leopard print wellies?
 
naughtyinsilk said:
Muck out the horses in the morning, clothes shopping in the afternoon, then out with the girls tomorrow evening.
Sunday probably sleep off hangover :)

The girl/guy thing can be a little confusing for me at times also, having lived in lesbian/bi households since I was 18, even most of the girls forget I am a guy, they normally say I dont count. They always feel safe with me and will happily undress in front of me without thinking or climb into bed and cuddle up.

The way they regard me I am proud of, its guys that I have no idea on how to relate to.

Sounds like a funfilled weekend! Have a drink for me! :)

It's nice to hear that your friends trust you like that! YAY!
 
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