Do you ever feel real emotions for someone you've met on here?

[juspassionthru]

I wouldn't be here if I wasn't seeking and finding actual connections. That doesn't mean they've all turned out greatly, but I don't regret anything. I keep on looking for something that makes my tummy churn - in the sexy way, not the sick way.

Maybe it's my age playing a part, but the world wide web is as real as "reality" to me. There are risks to wearing your heart on your sleeve no matter what platform you use, if you're in a bar or in the personals section on craigslist.

Life without risks is boring, uneventful, and I wouldn't wish it on the most frigid person out there. But maybe that's just me being naive

Touche well said lilly

 

[Seadog777]

A few of the Demtards have pissed me off, with their stupidity.

I even had to block one of them.....does that count???

 

[AnalCreampieGiver]

Do you ever kick yourself for it?

I do. Both. I don't let people in easily. I'm guarded. Very.

I think I need to be more guarded. Lol

Also both, also good emotions and bad emotions but the good definitely outweighs the bad

 

[Wanderingwanderer]

I had my suspicions.. but he did enough to make me drop my guard. I wish I hadn't.

Update..

At some point I stopped listening to the voice in my head and felt hard for him. I guess he picked up on it and played me like an instrument. L word was exchanged (he said it first). I never asked for anything except for him not to play with my feelings, and he promised he would never do that.

And now it's ended. I appear to have been ghosted, not even worthy of a goodbye. How does someone go from "Yes I still love you" to ghosting you in less than two hours?

It has been more than week and it still hurts, but I hope - know - that one day I will look back at the state of me today and cringe hard. I just wish that day was now.

If you ever see this post.. well, f*ck you (not literally)

 

[RachelWalsh]

I did for a while with a guy from another site. I thought about him a lot. We did cyber for years. Sometimes it was quick when he just needed to get off. Sometimes he made love to me. He always called me his fat assed white girl. Lol

He later became manipulative and I left that site, but still miss him.

 

[cubbyfire04]

Yes. Years ago. I was under a different username... And if she's still here, she was too. Met once in person (and I blew an opportunity to follow her into a bathroom at the botanical garden we met up in). We talked on the phone a LOT... Our lives went separate ways but I still think about her quite a bit.

 

[annabel_lee]

Yes I did, a few years ago. It wasn’t love, but it was something real.

 

[Vinnie7745]

Yes, certainly! I've made friends and loves online and it's been a wonderful way to explore relationships.

 

[Anastasia1999]

Absolutely yes. I would go so far as to say that we all do, perhaps on different levels.

 

[cbo1234]

Oh 100% yes.
Many years ago now with 2 different men at different times.

 

[EastMidsMale2]

There was once a girl on here, living in NE USA. We chatted for months and finally shared pics/video calls and such like. She was sultry, stunning, adorable and so alluring. Like seriously, so so gorgeous. And we shared so many fantasies that were aligned. I literally fell for her. We spoke in person and on video calls all the time.

I frequently told her what I would love to show her in England, we shared intimate details of where we would go out on dates, where we would stay, how we would treat each other.

I’ve ALWAYS treated this place for what it is - an escape and an explore for everyone. But man did she literally make me think ‘I’d actually do this for her’.

Hottest girl I ever met.

 

[Lady2020]

Yes, unfortunately. I think it's impossible not to if you talk to someone long enough and your sex play is compatible.

 

[CutieJo]

Yes. I had. I am. For me, something about being behind a screen makes interactions more authentic in some ways, even if it ends up being an act. Those words had to come from somewhere. One needs to put effort behind their words, exchange of messages, and can't simply rely on physicalities. So with time and the right person, yes.

 

[Ingenue844]

Yes.
But I’m learning to extinguish them as soon as I notice.

 

[RachelWalsh]

I have, and also like real life was burned

 

[RachelWalsh]

Yes.
But I’m learning to extinguish them as soon as I notice.

It didn't ruin me, but went on years and he was manipulating, but I let him

We all have ours stories. Lol

 

[ThatGuyInTheCorner]

I have, and also like real life was burned

Yep. Same.

 

[RachelWalsh]

I have, and also like real life was burned

Thanks for your thoughts. It isn't as bad as all of that. I can be dramatic

 

[BBW_T&A_Lover]

Having been here as long as I have, I would say I met and connected with 3 women. All were married, unfortunately. However, all of them were such wonderful people to spend time with. It is such an amazing feeling when you meet someone here who is just normal. They didn't pretend to be something they weren't. I miss all of them terribly still to this day. My heart shattered when all of them left, which they all do, but I guess that's the way things pan out for me.

 

[Hipshot1554]

Sometimes the connection is very strong, so my answer is yes.

 

[SubzeroGirl]

Absolutely. I get annoyed all the time.

 

[Diosax]

Absolutely. I get annoyed all the time.

Best comment

 

[Paligirl]

I have yes. Not on Literotica...but Lush...a creative, fun, and fierce spirit..sigh

 

[Chillygirl]

I have, I still do but I’m getting much better at compartmentalizing.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

I did back on the old AOL chat sites in the ‘90’s when I was deployed. Met three or four good friends but sadly when I redeployed and AOL lost it’s luster we drifted apart.

Too new to this forum to have made any meaningful friends yet.