Do you ever feel real emotions for someone you've met on here?

[theeonanist]

I think I understand now what you’re trying to say, but I still disagree. It is no solution to simply jump into more relationships after ending one that left your heart broken, which still seems to be what you’re suggesting.

I was trying to point out that it’s okay to grieve the loss of a relationship without “seeing what’s out there” to help fill the void. It’s healthy to need time and put energy into yourself without another person before you “sample some other guys.”

This is where the context would have helped because I’ve understood from conversations with her that she is looking for that next relationship and it was in the context of her not being able to find a suitable partner that I wrote as I wrote.

Anyway I feel I’ve done enough talking in behalf of PiccoloGattina. If I’ve misrepresented or misunderstood PG, please forgive me.

 

[PiccoloGattino]

This is where the context would have helped because I’ve understood from conversations with her that she is looking for that next relationship and it was in the context of her not being able to find a suitable partner that I wrote as I wrote.

Anyway I feel I’ve done enough talking in behalf of PiccoloGattina. If I’ve misrepresented or misunderstood PG, please forgive me.

I think everyone is trying to help. I just feel alone sometime.

 

[PiccoloGattino]

I wish there was some way I could crawl through the screen and give you a long, comforting hug. I care about you very much!

Thanks Bri! You are a doll. I started writing again, I hope it helps.

 

[theeonanist]

I think everyone is trying to help. I just feel alone sometime.

You know you never have to be alone. I know that friendly vibes in your PMs and on the boards will never fill the emptiness you feel but never underestimate the good will you’ve gained from all of us

 

[tigger_lover]

Being a real person bring with it real emotions and finding a connection here naturally stirs further and deeper emotions, unfortunately (and I hate myself for this) sometimes I hide away anxiously from the feelings.

maybe next time instead of hiding away you need to speak to that person and explain you need time out

 

[craig7091]

Yes,,

 

[Dom70]

I think everyone is trying to help. I just feel alone sometime.

I feel that way sometimes too.

 

[13Fantasies]

Of course. I think it's only natural

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Ah ha ha, YES, I have in the past. It was exciting in the beginning, until I realized that it could never go any further than here.

 

[nightop79]

Mmmmhmmmm

 

[Deleted member 1300976]

Absolutely. Once it gets past a certain point, it’s hard not too care.

 

[jason28053]

Definitely

 

[alexia34]

It’s happened.

 

[birdman01]

It’s happened.

Yes indeed...she has been on vacation for a couple of months and I miss her more than I thought I would.

 

[NC_Coastal]

Thanks Bri! You are a doll. I started writing again, I hope it helps.

Writing helped me, Kitten. It helped me a lot.

 

[AnalCreampieGiver]

Of course. Especially with the people I met the last time I was active here

 

[oneblueye]

NO...

no touch/no connection

 

[AmbrosiaCaress]

I have been lucky enough to make 2 really good friends here on Lit. So good that we are also Facebook friends. One male and one female and ironically, because of their separate friendships with me, they met here thru me, and are now together!!! And I am in the process of making another really good friend...

 

[NC_Coastal]

Mostly empathy with a tinge of sadness.

 

[DarkWarrioress]

I have been lucky enough to make 2 really good friends here on Lit. So good that we are also Facebook friends. One male and one female and ironically, because of their separate friendships with me, they met here thru me, and are now together!!! And I am in the process of making another really good friend...

~runs in and huggles her friend~ And I'm ever thankful for you, Lady.

 

[AmbrosiaCaress]

Luv YOU Bunches DW

 

[LadyElsbeth]

I don’t post often…

But this keeps resonating with me…

Yes, I have felt real emotions for people I have met on Lit. Sometimes it takes a while to develop them, sometimes it burns like a two ended match. Given the mutual circumstances, I don’t have the illusion that things will last forever, but sometimes it feels that way.

Heartache hurts. That’s why it’s called ache. The heart wants what it wants and some times there’s no rhyme nor reason. Not like we have some magic 8 ball that can show us the way - although it WOULD be nice.

Sometimes there is disappointment. I’ve felt it, too. Eventually, I had to consider that maybe it wasn’t me, it was them. Maybe they were incapable of giving more than what they did and didn’t know how to deal with it or speak it out into the universe. Nobody’s perfect. Myself included. Regardless of the outcome, there will be another day, another opportunity to see the sun and be someone else’s sunshine. Who’s to say that the next person won’t be even better, even if we don’t expect it.

Sorry, just felt like letting all that out….

I could not agree more and this is so beautifully written. Love this response.

 

[DarkWarrioress]

Luv YOU Bunches DW

Ditto, AC!!!

 

[saintcero]

Yes, I felt emotions for someone. I know because I was hurt and mad when she ghosted me. I had no illusions about things but I thought we were beyond a simple ghosting

 

[PersonalFavors]

I met a lady I was talking to here once. I'm not sure if either of us was emotional. After we had a little lunch the afternoon we met, the sex was very sensual and passionate. We were so lucky to be in tune with each others pleasure. Now the only emotion I feel is I would like more. But we live more than 100 miles away.