Do you mind someone to think you queer?

[yui]

For some reason, that post really turned me on.

Yeah, the boy/lesbian stuff worked for my ex, too.

 

[sweetnpetite]

I could see where being thought of as gay could be a problem. If women think you're gay, they're going to cross you off their list as being unavailable. That would bother me.

Also, judging from the replies I guess I'm alone in this, but yes, it bothers me when people see me as something I'm not, whether it's gay or irresponsible or mean-spirited or whatever. Maybe it's my beard (which I've had forever) but I was always running into people who thought I was a hippy or troublemaker or things like that, and it was really annoying. Things are better now, but I remember what it felt like to be labeled one thing or another, and it's no fun.

---Zoot

You're not a hippy?


I don't like you anymore! :-o

 

[hmmnmm]

I've made many mistakes over the years but the biggest was wasting too many of those years worrying about what other people thought. I was the short kid in school, had a funny name, lost my virginity relatively late, yeah, had people think I was gay, people asked to my face if I'd done a lot of drugs... I could think of more.
Only the last couple years I woke up and realized I'd let too much of life pass by without enjoying, simply because of the weight that you wear that you don't realize you carry because you carried it so long - just because of worrying about what other people think.
Life's too short for that - and I only wish I'd come around to where I am now much earlier.
So - somebody thinks this or that of you - pffft!
Love yourself and have a blast through your journey that is Life.

 

[Lucifer_Carroll]

I've made many mistakes over the years but the biggest was wasting too many of those years worrying about what other people thought. I was the short kid in school, had a funny name, lost my virginity relatively late, yeah, had people think I was gay, people asked to my face if I'd done a lot of drugs... I could think of more.
Only the last couple years I woke up and realized I'd let too much of life pass by without enjoying, simply because of the weight that you wear that you don't realize you carry because you carried it so long - just because of worrying about what other people think.
Life's too short for that - and I only wish I'd come around to where I am now much earlier.
So - somebody thinks this or that of you - pffft!
Love yourself and have a blast through your journey that is Life.

Yup, now the next step, turning insults into compliments and party games.

Yup a good round of "Pin the homoerotic advance on the homophobe" or "Spin the mind of the petty dimwit with an earnest thank you" makes life even more enjoyable.