Do you share your fetishes with your partner?

[Aeryckb8swmo]

My wife won't share much, but occasionally when we are not having sex, we will have a conversation about things that she and I have thought about during sex. I've asked her if she wants a mmf and she says she doesn't want any other cock than mine...I couldn't bring myself to tell her I would like one there to touch and jack/suck because she has made it clear that is a no go, quite a long time ago. I just wish she would tell me some of her fantasies while we're having sex... I'm guessing there would be a lot more things coming out of her mouth and even more orgasms.

 

[One_ping_only]

My wife won't share much, but occasionally when we are not having sex, we will have a conversation about things that she and I have thought about during sex. I've asked her if she wants a mmf and she says she doesn't want any other cock than mine...I couldn't bring myself to tell her I would like one there to touch and jack/suck because she has made it clear that is a no go, quite a long time ago. I just wish she would tell me some of her fantasies while we're having sex... I'm guessing there would be a lot more things coming out of her mouth and even more orgasms.

I'm not sure if this pertains to your wife since I ofc dont know her but perhaps, just perhaps she doesn't have any fantasies???

Not everyone are perverts like us haaaaa?!?!? When I asked my wife what's her fantasy she just shrugged her shoulder and said she's not sure ??? I proved for more and she just finally said " sex under the stars " haaaaaaa I dropped the topic in a heartbeat and never brought it up again!!!

 

[Aeryckb8swmo]

I'm not sure if this pertains to your wife since I ofc dont know her but perhaps, just perhaps she doesn't have any fantasies???

Not everyone are perverts like us haaaaa?!?!? When I asked my wife what's her fantasy she just shrugged her shoulder and said she's not sure ??? I proved for more and she just finally said " sex under the stars " haaaaaaa I dropped the topic in a heartbeat and never brought it up again!!!

My wife has said she wants to suck my dick, but she doesn't due to a terrible gag reflex where brushing her teeth makes her about throw up, so my cock would probably kill her. Other than that, I feel as though she holds back from telling me things when having sex. It may be an 'under the stars' type of fantasy, but I think she would tell me if that's all it was. Oh well, I'll wait for a time when she's about to cum and ask. It will probably make her cum harder without telling me, but there's always hope.

 

[Secrethusband]

https://www.literotica.com/s/emily-is-online-now

Emily is online now is my favorite incest story I’ve got to read yet. Was very hot.

 

[PMarky2]

We've talked about them, but even in the days when we had sex, that is, before she became ill, she only went for the milder ones. Anal sex is a no-no, but rimming is OK. She is not into bondage apart from being held down, and she sucks cock like it is a stick grenade, which is unfortunate because oral is all we have left because of her various illnesses, but she tends to put the kibosh on that. She did like to try different positions, though, so it wasn't all missionary on a Saturday night, but there were times when it was close.

 

[Rockwell12]

Wife and I have been together for more than 25 years and sex has always been very good but we didn't share fantasies until the last several years. It's been a slow build of revealing a little more, a little at a time, seeing her reaction etc. Part of it's my fault because I was a bit inexperienced, insecure and jealous when we were very young. Part of it is that she can be a little judgemental and I feared rejection or being thought to be a "pervert"

Took a while to get her to do anal sex. She believed that no woman really likes it and that it was necessarily painful. We eventually slowly worked up to it and we don't do it often but when we do, she loves it. She loves having something in her ass and she uses a butt plug most of the time we have sex.

 

[Rockwell12]

Continued....Having her swallow took a little time too, not because she was resistant, but because I didn't want to ask too much of her since I know it's not everyone's cup of tea. It's not a major fantasy but I'd like to cum on her face. I suspect she's be fine with that. I jack off on her tits occasionally. I guess I feel like it seems a little too "porn." I'd like to try making her squirt and tying her up. I thinks she's fine with those. I haven't revealed my interest in fisting. That one will probably have to stay a fantasy.
Our biggest progress has been in me revealing how I'd like to share her and how I'm turned on by her sexual past. She withheld stories of her past because she believed there's no way a man could be turned on by that, but I think she now understands it's a genuine turn on for her. We also didn't dirty talk for a long time because it felt a little embarassing. But we now routinely talk about these things. She tells me who she'd like to fuck and who she has fucked and I tell her how dirty she is. It's been a really hot addition to our sex which is now better than ever.

 

[KenM77Florida]

When I was married, my now ex & I would share fantasies together. I was always willing to help her fulfill hers but she said better a fantasy than reality. As far as we went was to role play a couple of them & pretending I was a secret lover & her husband was hiding in the closet watching and a couple of times we had sex on a table in front of a balcony window in a hotel where anyone in adjacent rooms could see us. Too bad she never wanted to make any of either of our fantasies a reality. I was willing

 

[rthnck]

I shared what I think she would accept. My perversions and fantasies are far beyond my fairly vanilla spouse. And trying to pry fantasies and desires out of her is a multi-decade failure. We're making it work, but just barely.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I was married for 25 years and when he passed away, I found out he had a secret fetish/fantasy.
But in fairness, I never told him my secret fantasies either, not fully.

Now, I have told my fetishes/fantasies/kinks to my close online partners I have.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I was married for 25 years and when he passed away, I found out he had a secret fetish/fantasy.
But in fairness, I never told him my secret fantasies either, not fully.

Now, I have told my fetishes/fantasies/kinks to my close online partners I have.

Inquiring minds want to know…

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

Inquiring minds want to know…

They're sacred for a reason

 

[KenM77Florida]

They're sacred for a reason

Much R E S P E C T !
Thank you for that response. It’s refreshing.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

My comment was said tongue in cheek. Ease up, Ken.
My apologies to Ssbw if I offended her.

 

[Lady2020]

I have that ability.

 

[PhiloDaddy]

I shared what I think she would accept. My perversions and fantasies are far beyond my fairly vanilla spouse. And trying to pry fantasies and desires out of her is a multi-decade failure. We're making it work, but just barely.

This sounds unfortunately similar to my own situation. This is the ONLY reason I look for discreet mutuality beyond my marriage.

 

[SlipperySucker]

Hi my friends , if you wish to do things with other people you have to look at things as there , is a difference in having sex and making love when the wife and I play that's making love when we have friends with us its having sex . Sex is fun -making love is passion.

 

[Kimlikes]

We share everything. Partners snd fantasies.

Us too

 

[drobert44]

Us too

Most dames my age can’t handle my kinks

 

[Kimlikes]

How old are you dear I’ve never been called a dame before

 

[cypressknee]

My wife knows them..cause she gets the pleasure of experiencing them

 

[Goldenfinger]

Through experiment with my partner is how they were found.

 

[cowboyup6977]

I share and live out my fantasy’s with my husband and my Bff My lover my everything

 

[storypost603]

I share and live out my fantasy’s with my husband and my Bff My lover my everything

That is the only way to live. I wish I would have told my wife more sooner.

 

[Hypnobitch01]

As it says on the subject...

I've just written one of the "main" chapters of my story - My Mom is a Slut - featuring the main themes of cuckolding, D/s, and incest. Kinda proud of it, or more so - proud of having written 12 chapters, about 60,000 words to date, of a story that's getting an average 4.4 out of 5 stars with 50k max and 10k min views per chapter.

My partner is fully aware of my cuckold, and Dom/sub fantasies, but not about the incest.

Back in the early days of our relationship I used to write custom sex stories for her to read, generally whilst I would lick her or use a toy on her; a variety of different themes were explored covering a few different fetishes etc. I didn't however venture too far into kinkdom in those stories, because - well - who wants to bare their soul and risk ending it all?

(Though, wouldn't it be great if I did, and she loved it...)

We have of course discussed various sexual fantasies, hence cuckolding and Domination/submission being in the open, but then you get to certain taboos and it's just so hard to take that leap...

I have considered the idea of telling her that I have something I want her to read, and opening the story up for her, but - as in the old days - she must agree to me eating her/etc, to help ensure she is, ah, in the mood... at least give myself a chance...

But if the topic really is too far beyond her interests, no tongue or vibe is going to be strong enough to persuade her.

So, I'm left with this fetish remaining a secret...

My partner is aware of the themes of my stories, but doesn’t read them, not because of secrecy but a lack of interest in reading lol