UnquietDreams
Bad at Lit
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I've thought a lot about this the past ten years, and it's not quite what I miss. I might miss who I thought someone was, who they were with me. What it all could have been. I more than likely miss "us" or the idea of an "us," when it was new - the first few years when I wasn't feeling trapped - but I really don't miss him. We're allowed to not miss them, too.
And you might never truly understand that, but you do have to know it.The hardest part of letting go is understanding that the other person is okay with losing you.
"Baby, I'm dancing in the dark
"Slow dancing
In the moon light
Want to slow dance
With you all night"
--Lindsey Buckingham, "Slow Dancing"
My desk has a whiteboard built into it. I’ve had it since back when I was with ex-fiancé. It has an “I U” and a replying “I U” in Sharpie from each of us that I could never get out. They’re covered by a big magnetView attachment 2403830
This hits. From a blow that landed decades ago, this hits me, still, just a bit. Everyone is going through something.
Braid my hair first.
I'll braid your hair first...