lakesailer_mi
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- Love. It always seems to mean something a little different, dependent on who you ask. What about soul mates? Do you believe there is one perfect mate out there for you? One person who you are meant to be with forever?
Bonus: If you do believe it, have you found yours?
I've pontificated on Love in a number of places throughout the PG, so, I'll keep this short. I've had a couple instances in my life when I fell in Romantic Love with a woman in a very short period of time. I married one of them.
But I've also had other instances where I fell in love, but it took a little longer too.
For me, romantic love is that feeling of "home." That feeling of someone who just seems so right. Matches me so well. A feeling like no matter what's happening in my life, I want them to be a part of it. And I want to be a part of theirs. It's sexual too. It's a desire to be with them. To touch them. To hold them. To make love with them. But it's a different feeling that "lust." I can feel lust for a picture of a lovely women, and then forget even what she looks like 15 min later. Love means that I can't forget them. Ever.
I don't believe in one perfect soul mate. That would be sad because it's unlikely that I would meet her at the "right" time. But I do think there are very special matches that I've encountered in my life. And so, sort of yes. And yeah, I've met them. I would think at least two.


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