Endless Curiosity

I answer most pm's. I won't repeat the criteria. Many wise women who posted before me have already explained it well. When I change my av, it usually generates a flurry of random pm's from strangers for a day or two and then it tapers off. Normally, pms i get are from people I interact with on the threads and I know them already.

Interestingly, I have a few lit "best friends" who NEVER post. We've gotten to know each other over the course of several years. But they sent that first random pm and they were polite, or charming, or funny, or all of the above. So if you don't answer, you never know...
 
I couldn't imagine the pm nightmare that a pic thread would unleash. I'm not interested in PMing with most people. If much rather play on the threads. There are a few that I enjoy chatting with, however it's too much work for most. It'd be like me giving out my cell number and being expected to answer every unsolicited text message. Nope!!

I think it is a fair guess that at least half the ladies on AmPics that have a pic thread have turned off PMs, or at least limited PMs to only those on their Buddies list. They select who they put on their Buddies list by who posts nicely on their thread.

And I have seen the following scenario more than once with a newbie pic thread operator:

Posted by Him: I sent you a PM, but your mailbox is full. Please empty.
Posted by Her: What is a PM? I have a mailbox???

They get so many PMs so quickly that their mailbox fills even before they have their feet on the ground and know all the ins and outs of Lit. Which says something about the flood of unwanted PMs that some ladies receive.

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I will also add that I have discovered that the culture of the different communities in the different forums is somewhat different. The AmPics culture is much more of a close family where most everyone plays friendly and in a supportive way of each other, apart from an occasional troll. The culture in the PG is also friendly, but in my opinion, not so unified as one community, more different groups or even cliques. The culture of SRP is extremely different, very closed to one another, other than a person's writing partner, and even then sometimes there is no communication between people other than what they write in their story thread.

So I expect that the way people view random PMs is also different, based upon their sex, being single or not, and which forums they most often participate in.
 
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I couldn't imagine the pm nightmare that a pic thread would unleash. I'm not interested in PMing with most people. If much rather play on the threads. There are a few that I enjoy chatting with, however it's too much work for most. It'd be like me giving out my cell number and being expected to answer every unsolicited text message. Nope!!

This^. :)

Strangers shouldn't send strangers porn. .

Let's make t-shirts

Can this^ be added to the t-shirt queue? I would wear. :cattail:
 
What's a random PM? In my 13 years as a member here I doubt that I've received a dozen PMs from people with whom I'd never had any prior contact.

What am I doing wrong?
 
What's a random PM? In my 13 years as a member here I doubt that I've received a dozen PMs from people with whom I'd never had any prior contact.

What am I doing wrong?

I do believe, my dear, that you are probably lacking in some essential anatomy parts to qualify for the influx of unsolicited messages...:rose:

Be grateful.

I was just on Fetlife today trying to be polite and give every benefit of the doubt to this young man who'd apparently become enamored with my boobs and needs to "bust a huge nut"..
I kid you not, practically begging me to meet him "just for foreplay" and I could"meet him in his car" for him to titty fuck me..:eek:

Now, *deep breath* , I turned his oh, so, irresistible :rolleyes: offer down and told him he was old enough to take care of that nut busting problem himself, and I was appalled that he was contacting a stranger and pushing to meet for a quickie..

And yes, I talked to him like a third grader because, while he was only 26, he should know better how to behave..

Absolute, fucking morons on the internet.
 
I do believe, my dear, that you are probably lacking in some essential anatomy parts to qualify for the influx of unsolicited messages...:rose:

Be grateful.

I was just on Fetlife today trying to be polite and give every benefit of the doubt to this young man who'd apparently become enamored with my boobs and needs to "bust a huge nut"..
I kid you not, practically begging me to meet him "just for foreplay" and I could"meet him in his car" for him to titty fuck me..:eek:

Now, *deep breath* , I turned his oh, so, irresistible :rolleyes: offer down and told him he was old enough to take care of that nut busting problem himself, and I was appalled that he was contacting a stranger and pushing to meet for a quickie..

And yes, I talked to him like a third grader because, while he was only 26, he should know better how to behave..

Absolute, fucking morons on the internet.

Raging testosterone levels does that to young men. :cool:
 
Raging testosterone levels does that to young men. :cool:

I know you're kind of joking, but that really is no excuse. If I ever find out that one of my boys grows up and tries to pull that shit with anyone, I'll yank them up so fast they'll wish to Hell they'd been born eunuchs.

I have a very healthy sex drive, but I'm not climbing the walls calling strangers.. that's just not normal behavior, and i don't care how open minded someone is..:mad:
 
I know you're kind of joking, but that really is no excuse. If I ever find out that one of my boys grows up and tries to pull that shit with anyone, I'll yank them up so fast they'll wish to Hell they'd been born eunuchs.

I have a very healthy sex drive, but I'm not climbing the walls calling strangers.. that's just not normal behavior, and i don't care how open minded someone is..:mad:

You are correct, kind of joking. However couple those hormones with poor parenting and/or the bad influences of society, then we have these types of morons.

I agree with your choice of that term.
 
I do believe, my dear, that you are probably lacking in some essential anatomy parts to qualify for the influx of unsolicited messages...:rose:

Be grateful.

I was just on Fetlife today trying to be polite and give every benefit of the doubt to this young man who'd apparently become enamored with my boobs and needs to "bust a huge nut"..
I kid you not, practically begging me to meet him "just for foreplay" and I could"meet him in his car" for him to titty fuck me..:eek:

Now, *deep breath* , I turned his oh, so, irresistible :rolleyes: offer down and told him he was old enough to take care of that nut busting problem himself, and I was appalled that he was contacting a stranger and pushing to meet for a quickie..

And yes, I talked to him like a third grader because, while he was only 26, he should know better how to behave..

Absolute, fucking morons on the internet.

I would have at least paid for a room at the Motel 6 and dinner at Arby's :)
 
woohoo, 2 dates! ;)

You better not stand them up this time.
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Naming no names, what behaviors do you most dislike seeing on Lit? Multiple thread starting, continuous complaints, silly posts, self-righteous Litsters, flirting, thread high-jacking?

What is it that really gets your goat?
 
Naming no names, what behaviors do you most dislike seeing on Lit? Multiple thread starting, continuous complaints, silly posts, self-righteous Litsters, flirting, thread high-jacking?

What is it that really gets your goat?

Self induced drama and those who feel it is necessary to bring private disagreements into the public domain.
 
Naming no names, what behaviors do you most dislike seeing on Lit? Multiple thread starting, continuous complaints, silly posts, self-righteous Litsters, flirting, thread high-jacking?

What is it that really gets your goat?

virtual wall-fucking....(get a room or go to SRP where I don't have to look at it if I don't want to)

Personal attacks, unless I'm the one attacking, of course....:p

19 year old "exploring" ...give me a fucking break

Vajajay shots......just say "no"

Keep your questionable fetishes in the appropriate forum. It's hard for those of us with OCD to not just jump on that when you post you post about drinking piss in the Playground.. (I'm working on my reactionary behavior, I swear!)

Oh, and just flat out rude shit... Grow the fuck up and don't let me find out who your mama is, because imma tell on your sorry ass!!!!:D
 
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