Extended, intense Edging

I absolutely love the tease and denial.
The build up of sexual tension is incredible.
I thrive on the unreleased energy, the constantly thinking about sex, the constant state of arousal without release.
I agree with a previous poster of just being so sensitive in the whole body that the slightest touch will make my pussy throb.
I am currently without "orgasm supervision", and its driving me crazy. I thrive on the control of my orgasms.
I'm open to private messages on this subject.
 
I absolutely love the tease and denial.
The build up of sexual tension is incredible.
I thrive on the unreleased energy, the constantly thinking about sex, the constant state of arousal without release.
I agree with a previous poster of just being so sensitive in the whole body that the slightest touch will make my pussy throb.
I am currently without "orgasm supervision", and its driving me crazy. I thrive on the control of my orgasms.

This right here ^^^^^^ gets me hot. Altho you are female (and I am male) this is exactly how I think of edging and control. The build up, tease and then denial (and occasional surprise release) is exhilarating to me. When my wife edges me for long periods of time, I just love being controlled by her. Something mentally the way I am wired gets tripped by long extended intense edging.

And it can be for long periods of time... sometimes lasting for one long session, sometimes over days and occasionally over months. We always celebrate locktober and then no nut November. Imagine going two months without orgasm. Last year we went to Christmas before she let me cum. It was fucking amazing when I finally went off...
 
Extended edging in theory is an amazing, arousing thought. I love that feeling where I feel like I'd do anything in order to cum and I wish that feeling would never go away.

The times I have edged more than a day, however, seem like it's been challenging to keep the delicious aroused feeling sustained. Instead, it just turns inward - physically and mentally - and becomes annoying. Especially if I have to attend to other things like work.

I couldn't find a way to keep it on the aroused end of the spectrum. I didn't want to be at work unfocused on my work. It didn't feel sexy or submissive - it just felt annoying.

I haven't done it in a long time and wonder if it was me? My crappy attitude? Was my partner encouraging enough? I don't recall all the details.

as an aside: seela has a great thread here in Talk about not cumming for a year. Good insight in to super extended edging.

This one hit home hard for me. I really enjoy edging and extended edging. I have done it to myself for years and started giving a lot of control to others at various times when I play.

But there is a limit I can take. I have learned this and I know it. Both physically and mentally (mostly mentally) it effects me in a negative way and when I ask or beg to cum I usually get “stop trying to top from the bottom” when it’s a true dom. But I have found a few switch playmates over the years who get it and can work with me.

It’s not that I need (or frankly even want) that FULL release. I just need to take the edge off. So I usually beg to ruin my orgasm which frank I think is a good compromise. :)

I also like doing this to my playmate for extended periods of time when they are into it and it ends up being great fun!
 
I love applying edging and extended edging. I find it extremely erotic and intense to have it building over and over, day after another, pushing my partner's each time and stopping her right before reaching the point of no return.
It'll be frustrating as fuck for her, yet, her desire to submit and waiting for the command to let go as she reach the peak, not knowing whether she was going to be granted and allowed to cum or kept on the edge or even have a ruined orgasm..
 
Extended edging in theory is an amazing, arousing thought. I love that feeling where I feel like I'd do anything in order to cum and I wish that feeling would never go away.

The times I have edged more than a day, however, seem like it's been challenging to keep the delicious aroused feeling sustained. Instead, it just turns inward - physically and mentally - and becomes annoying. Especially if I have to attend to other things like work.

I couldn't find a way to keep it on the aroused end of the spectrum. I didn't want to be at work unfocused on my work. It didn't feel sexy or submissive - it just felt annoying.

I haven't done it in a long time and wonder if it was me? My crappy attitude? Was my partner encouraging enough? I don't recall all the details.

as an aside: seela has a great thread here in Talk about not cumming for a year. Good insight in to super extended edging.

the thread is actually called 'no nut 19'...and she's beautiful beyond imagining...
 
Seela’s thread is worth the read.

Edging brings such an intense orgasm, when you finally allow yourself (or are allowed) to cum.
Worth the time.
 
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