Fall Charlotte Litogether

Shape up

Shoshisexy said:
I -am- hurting!

Violette, I understand the sprucing up over the summer. :) I have lost the weight, but want to get toned and fit as soon as I can.

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Re: Shape up

happy2bhubby said:
Personal trainer available: All hours
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  1. nice add....i'll keep that in mind....LOL:D
 
catching up too

morninggirl5 said:
7 pages isn't really that much for this group. It's been 10 to 15 at times.

Summer days are for being lazy though. :)

Lets see I'm on page 17 , currently 21 pages are full, I take 10 minutes to read and respond per page , new page is being created every 5 minutes; nope its hopeless I am lost in the catchup time warp, Hows the weather up there ?

:confused:
 
Kinds

morninggirl5 said:
Sure there is. There's the "okay, you've begged, pleaded, and cajoled, so i'll give in, but i still think it's disgusting and you have to leave me alone for the next month" kind.

That sure sounds awfull familiar!
 
have a great thursday.....the weekend rolls in closer....yea!!!

goodnite to all.....sweet dreams....and heres hoping ya'll have a great thurs.....hugggggggggggggggs all around....and smoochies to lunar....see ya'll tomorrow.....kisses and extra hugggggggggggs to my sistas....:kiss: :kiss:
 
Re: have a great thursday.....the weekend rolls in closer....yea!!!

valkyrieblonde said:
goodnite to all.....sweet dreams....and heres hoping ya'll have a great thurs.....hugggggggggggggggs all around....and smoochies to lunar....see ya'll tomorrow.....kisses and extra hugggggggggggs to my sistas....:kiss: :kiss:

And right when I catch up, my training partner says good night. :(
 
Ok now....sheeeeeeeeeeesh I can't answer to all these damn posts...lol Soooooooooo with that said...Tonie love ya girlfriend and AOS is ok. Lunar...ha ha miss the kisses..... Val, Pink, Perks, Tulip, Liza, Swetn, and Aos...Miss you lots and wish we were altogether again.

To the guys...sweet kisses and hugs...miss you also. :kiss: :kiss:
 
yourdestonie said:
MG I think you may want to drop in and read the You might have been in Charlotte thread.


Tonie: I read most of it and I now get what you are implying. I'm "banned" because I knocked on a locked door, was admitted, the door was relocked, starting talking to NCGuy and Z, Z relit his burnt out pipe of pot, offered NCGuy a puff, which he refused with a casual wave of his hand while continuing the conversation, then I accepted a puff, the conversation continued for quite some time, I accepted two more puffs while the conversation continued, so now I've committed an unforgiveable sin because I took three tokes off a pipe during that time. Never mind that NCGuy committed felony copyright violation that resulted in a visit from the cops...and didn't stop Z from lighting up his pot pipe. Never mind that Z brought the pot, packed it into the pipe, lit it, and smoked it in the room before I ever got there. Never mind that he smoked it in a locked room in which NCGuy was sleeping in that night...BEFORE I ever got there...purchased under your name...and NCGuy didn't put a stop to it. Never mind that NCGuy danced on the hotel roof the night afterward...from the same room purchased under your name...with FAR more than two other people in the room at the time...and celebrated as a "litogether moment" to be remembered and cherished by all....even though that could've landed ALL of us in jail.

Considering all of that, I'm somehow the bad guy who is jeaprodizing the entire group because I accepted a few tokes of someone else's pot when offered inside of a locked room supervised by NCGuy. As a result, I don't deserve to be a part of the group because of it? Are you outta you fucking mind?!

OK. I get it. Eat shit. Have a nice life! The rest of you: this is the standard you're being judged by if you attend a Carolinia Litogether. Hope you can live w/ it. I can't because I think it's a serious double standard based on who's "in" and who's not.

Want the down and dirty? Here's the conversation I've had w/ Tonie (yourdestiney)....your "master of ceremonies" for the Fall Litogether. I've admittedly rearranged it to be in chronological order (from oldest to most recent). I'll also FREELY admit I've made mistakes and given-in to some temptations (like I think we all have and I admit to in the following this conversation), but I don't for a minute believe that I single-handedly put anyone at risk of arrest or legal action during the Spring Litogether.

Decide for yourselves after reading. I sincerely think it's a misunderstanding, but obviously Tonie does not. So read. Then decide if you want to be a part of the Fall Litogether. I don't anymore!! When passive participants are considered more guilty than active instigators and active ignorers, I've got to bow out.

It's a shame too, 'cause I thought I met a lot of nice, level-headed, spiritually nice/positive people at the Spring Litogether. Guess I was wrong.

MG


Here's the PM thread w/ Tonie (yourdestiney) below.

Yeah, it's a soap-opera, but that's also the reality of the situation....unfortunately.

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MischievousGntlman wrote on 06-02-2004 11:10 PM:
Well, I read 40 pages of that thread you recommended to me publicly in the "Fall" thread and I assume you're referring to the pot incident where you said "those two" aren't welcome anymore. Why don't you get the whole story before you jump to conclusions?!

I knocked to get into the "public" room and this guy (forget his name) and NCGuy were in there talking. They let me in and relocked the door after I entered. In fact, if I remember right, it was NCGuy who let me in and relocked the door---but I could be wrong on this particular point. The guy already was smoking his pipe while talking w/ NCGuy 'cause it had burned out. NCGuy NEVER said a word about it. Also, I had NO idea what had happened earlier w/ the police! As DD could tell ya, if you even bothered to find out facts before jumping to conclusions, I found out the next evening when he pulled me aside and told me. That's when I found out about the police incident for the first time. Back to the point, though, since NCGuy--who MORE than knew about the sensitivity of the situation--NEVER, EVER said anything about the guy smoking pot, I concluded that the locked door and the fact that NCGuy let him do that before I got there, meant it was OK. Consequently, when it was offered, I went ahead and took a puff after the guy relit his pipe. I didn't even touch the pipe w/ anything but my lips! He held it out a couple times while the conversation went on quite congenially, which NCGuy contributed to (the conversation, I mean), so I assumed everything was fine. While NCGuy refused the pipe when offered, it was just a casual wave of the hand as he continued talking quite animatedly. In fact, we had a great time talking! Granted, I was pretty drunk, but I could still follow and remember these basic social interactions and take my cues from them.

If MY actions pissed you off, then I don't get it. Shouldn't NCGuy have said something to the guy like "hey, that's not cool" or something...even LONG before I ever showed up? His silence, along w/ the locked door and his sleeping in that room that night, I took as acceptance of the activity in what amounted to NCGuy's room, not a "public" room like you said in the thread. The door was locked and NCGuy was getting ready for bed to sleep there. He NEVER said a word, yet he was the one who was acutely aware of the police "situation" you mentioned in the thread (as if you assumed I knew) and I never found out until the following night when DD told me.

I can assure you, had I known about the police incident or had NCGuy said ANYTHING to the effect that this other guy smoking pot was unacceptable, I would've refused the 2-3 puffs I was offered from that guy and supported NC in any efforts to coral the other guy's activity. For God's sake, I not stupid....even if I was drunk.

Sorry, but I trusted NCGuy. As far as I'm concerned, it was "his" room after the door was locked and he was getting ready for bed. They let me in, relocked the door, the activity was already occuring, and I simply walked in on it. If I'm guilty for taking a few puffs after that while we all had a friendly conversation, then so be it.

Frankly, though, given the WHOLE story, I think you should be more upset w/ NCGuy than me. He knew the circumstances, was "in charge" of that room, and the activity was occuring before I even got there. I think, under those circumstances, it's totally reasonable and logical to see why I concluded it was OK to accept a couple of puffs off the guy's pipe when it was offered to me.

And for that matter, if you wanna get specific about the legal risk this created for the group, smoking pot (in such a small quantity) is a misdemeanor that results in a ticket and a relatively steep fine in the hundreds of dollars. Copyright violation is a felony that can result in prison time (rarely, but technically) and a fine in the range of thousands of dollars.

Take note: NCGuy was at the center of both incidents and in a position to eliminate both risks to the group as well....and FAILED to do so. In the 40 pages I read I didn't see any reference to that more realistic perspective from you. Nonetheless, NCGuy still had the North Carolina flag as an AV when I first got back to the forum earlier this week.

Geez. I don't know what more I can say.

MG (real name witheld)

****(BTW--As you read the next part, remember that I'm a professor of mass communications and I'm currently writing my dissertation for my Ph.D. in communications. Yet, Tonie tells me I need to read up on communication law. Who would you believe?)****

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Actually your asssuming I was waiting on your reply to see what your side of the story was. And although you might say that its only a misdemeanor Your not up on NC law I see. that room was in my name, I don't feel like having to go before a judge and explain why 2 or even 3 men were in there with an illegal drug. That fact alone should have been reason enough to leave the room. You Knew you were doing wrong even if the others thought it was ok.

As to the Copyright violation You really need to read up on the law even if he was breaking a coppyright Law which he wasn't and flying the NC flag isn't eather for that matter, it would have landed entirly on him and no one else in the group would have suffered. Drugs however are a whole different ball game and as a parent you should know that.

CNCG had no idea of a wrong doing with the AV You however knew that pot was against the law. One was a mistake the other was open and knowingly breaking a law.

I don't intend on arguing with you over this however I'm sure you won't ever see it my way. Thing is if you and Z had been in one or the other of your own rooms I wouldn't have had any problems with it. Even though it still could have brought the law down on our heads. that would have been your room and you would be the one going before the judge alone.

As to the checking into the story I have done so and I'm doing so even as we speak. I called DD and got the low down on that evening and if you actually did know about the police. he has informed me that not only did you know about the police incident you knew about it pretty soon after it happened. you held a conversation with both DD and CNCG in the hallway directly after the police left the hotel. You evne went so far as to tell CNCG that you were the closest thing to a lawyer he had there at the time.

Now if you want to discuss this directly with DD he has said you may PM him with your questions.

As far as I'm concerned the matter is decided and closed.

tonie

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MischievousGntlman wrote on 06-02-2004 11:58 PM:
I apologize. Now that you mention it, I remember that conversation in the hallway w/ CNCG and DD. I did give CNCG some good advice 'cause he even thanked me for it the next evening. On the other hand, didn't CNCG know that smoking pot was wrong? He was bunking down in that room, the pipe was lit before I even got there, he NEVER said anything about it, but I'm guilty 'cause I took a puff when offered?

You don't understand how I might have drawn the conclusion that it was OK to do so....based on CNCG's silence, the locked door, and the fact that it was happening before I even got there?

(MG) real name witheld

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Re: reply to your suggestion to read the thread
What you don't understand is that I've actually pretty much put together the entire evening from the time the cops left till the time the 3 of you seperated. You have no idea what was said before you entered the room and you didn't bother to ask if it was ok. Its your responsability to find out the law and ignorance dosen't count.

And you really think I can take your word on any thing now that I've figured out that you had already gotten at least one point in Questions wrong??

As I've said I'm through with discussing it.

Tonie


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That's the conversation, minus a PM or two, that I've had w/ Tonie (yourdestiney). That's what happened. Those of you who were there at the Spring Carolina Litogether, who got to know me, who now know what I did, do you think I should be banned from attending the Fall Litogether?

Either way, I won't be there in the Fall thanks to Tonie, and I'm grateful to find out now. Have fun...if you can after seeing how people can be crucified here w/out trial for the sake of their own protection.

God, this is more of a soap-opera than my ex-wife. I don't need this shit.

I STILL appreciate, though, the many wonderful people I met during the Spring Carolinia Litogether. You were all very special to me and I'm sorry I won't be able to see/meet you again 'cause I accepted a few tokes off a pipe in a locked room paid for and supervised by the "in" crowd. Guess I shouldn't have been so trusting...and naive.

MG
 
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This is worth repeating....at least for me.

I STILL appreciate, though, the MANY wonderful people I met during the Spring Carolinia Litogether. You were all very special to me and I'm sorry I won't be able to see/meet you again 'cause I accepted a few tokes off a pipe in a locked room paid for and supervised by the "in" crowd. Guess I shouldn't have been so trusting...and naive.

Take care!

MG
 
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yourdestonie said:
He can thump too :D

:eek:

*runs behind the angel couch*
 
No.1Pinklady said:
Smoochies, I am good just tired of working. I need an rich old man with one foot in the grave and the other on a :nana:

ROFLMAO Spew Alert!!!
 
1sexylady said:
Ok now....sheeeeeeeeeeesh I can't answer to all these damn posts...lol Soooooooooo with that said...Tonie love ya girlfriend and AOS is ok. Lunar...ha ha miss the kisses..... Val, Pink, Perks, Tulip, Liza, Swetn, and Aos...Miss you lots and wish we were altogether again.

To the guys...sweet kisses and hugs...miss you also. :kiss: :kiss:

*smoochies and hugs and snuggles and cuddles* Miss ya'll!!!! Give AOS a big hug and kiss from me.
 
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