Fetlife Anyone?

lve been there about 20 yrs but my account was accidentally killed so now i'm doing fetlife ver. 2.0. now i go by Apantyhoselovr. i've met maybe 3 there.
 
i'm on fetlife, but i cannot get any traction.

I've been on Fet a fair while now and you only get out what you put in.

It's not a hookup site but I have hooked up from there indirectly. I've also met a whole bunch of fun people.

If you want to 'get traction', post. Interact. But most importantly go to munches. Find events that interest you and go. Meet people face to face. Talk.

I have a whole bunch of kinky friends I never had before and other people's kinks are so interesting, even if you can't imagine doing xyz yourself, it's great to talk and learn and understand.

Yes, fet has downsides - too many people now just use it to promote their onlyfans etc, some people are arseholes, same as everywhere else. Take it for what it is and have fun.
 
I've been on Fet a fair while now and you only get out what you put in.

It's not a hookup site but I have hooked up from there indirectly. I've also met a whole bunch of fun people.

If you want to 'get traction', post. Interact. But most importantly go to munches. Find events that interest you and go. Meet people face to face. Talk.

I have a whole bunch of kinky friends I never had before and other people's kinks are so interesting, even if you can't imagine doing xyz yourself, it's great to talk and learn and understand.

Yes, fet has downsides - too many people now just use it to promote their onlyfans etc, some people are arseholes, same as everywhere else. Take it for what it is and have fun.
I’m on Fet. And you’re exactly right. You get out of it what you put into it. Really not much different than any other social (media) account.
 
I've had great success there. I've met a ton of awesome people and am very happy with the experience.

What a lot of people don't get is;

A) FetLife is a social media site centered around fetishes. Not a hook up site. People chat, share pictures and experiences. Yes people meet up, cause yes, it's a social media site centered around fetishes but it's not Adult Friend Finder or Doublelist.

B) Verify your profile. It's easy and costs nothing. It tells the world that you really are who you are.

C) Interact with people. Follow them, like pics and videos, comment and chat. Go to the mixers.

D) Sometimes there is no local scene.
 
I've been on Fet a fair while now and you only get out what you put in.

It's not a hookup site but I have hooked up from there indirectly. I've also met a whole bunch of fun people.

If you want to 'get traction', post. Interact. But most importantly go to munches. Find events that interest you and go. Meet people face to face. Talk.

I have a whole bunch of kinky friends I never had before and other people's kinks are so interesting, even if you can't imagine doing xyz yourself, it's great to talk and learn and understand.

Yes, fet has downsides - too many people now just use it to promote their onlyfans etc, some people are arseholes, same as everywhere else. Take it for what it is and have fun.

munches sound like a good idea. thanks.
 
I was, but people there aren't too into my kind or I was in the wrong places.

No one was rude though, but that's because I hardly interacted with anyone.
 
I'm a real person, but I'm not verifying my profile because I don't see the need to give them my identity. Someone had tried to dox me a while back, so no.
 
Have been but not for a long time, it seems different now
 
It's mostly a place for women, trans women, and femboys to advertise their OnlyFans accounts now.

I still login once in awhile to have fun discussions in different groups though.

Although if someone replies to one of my comments or I get a direct message from someone I immediately check their profile to see if they're advertising their porn. Cause I don't want to be lead on by someone who's only intention is to sell me porn. It never feels good finding that out mid conversation. Kind of heart breaking to be honest. I've had it happen a couple times where I think the back and forth flirting is a genuine connection but I'm really just talking to a salesmen who see's me as a potential costumer.

By the way, I'm not on the "Fuck all those Onlyfan chicks" Team, I'm just saying how I feel. If you want to find kinky OnlyFans chicks to buy porn from then you should do that. And if you want to make an OnlyFans account and sell porn, it's a smart place to advertise. It's just not for me.
 
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