Fetlife Anyone?

[Elmyra]

I'm new over there 3myra

 

[Pete69USE]

I'm new over there 3myra

I search for 3myra and the username came up is

Tast3MyRainb0w is this you?​

 

[Elmyra]

I search for 3myra and the username came up is

Tast3MyRainb0w is this you?​

no sorry it was a typo 3lmyra

 

[hooterbif]

I have found FL to be very hostile to those who want to meet others. Some of the profiles are extremely aggressive.

 

[Pete69USE]

I have found FL to be very hostile to those who want to meet others. Some of the profiles are extremely aggressive.

Agree i am on there and most profiles are either only fans or paid links or just straight up i choose who i want i do not need to talk to you so just don't message me like what? or another one if your message is not interesting i will not respond without having anything much in the bio. not a fan of the site so far.

 

[fl_openminded]

Ive been on Fet for a few years. Have not met anyone but I have talked a lot of good people. Most of the people I connect with are from out of town. Its a great site. I think its more of a BDSM site which I am very new to but there are groups for EVERYONE

 

[frappingwilly]

Been on Fet to 8+yrs. Met 2 married women on separate occasions and had one threesome.

But that's all over that time, just need to put the effort in.

 

[brightsmile]

I've met a few men individually and made several friends via munches first online then in person. Nothing romantic yet but very nice people.

 

[Bighammerfucker]

Worst site. Would never in my life recommend it to anyone.

Before Covid it was decent. But it seemed like during the pandemic it shifted to a glorified porn site. Which is not redeemable considering it was always a haven for abusive twits and keyboard sex warriors. The local events were the only reason I browsed mainly, and over the years I did meet some play partners there. But a lot went and stayed virtual in 2020 and my city has a huge problem with socialization irl which basically translated to a lot of fetlife ghosting and profiles claiming to be looking that aren’t.

Now though, it seems the shift in porn consumption being the main use of the site seems permanent. Not dissing onlyfans specifically but most of the popular accounts are strictly used as advertising space and it’s basically just a huge fashion and appearances contest anyway.

So if u don’t fall into the categories of people who A. Are young model material interested in selling sexual services or otherwise showing off your body for strictly male consumption, or B. A male who wants to join the Void of Ten Thousand Clamouring Horny Men uselessly commenting on puppet-like accounts, don’t bother.

And that leads me to something I forgot - it’s not a very LBGTQ+ space. For as much as the theme would imply it’s a kinky sexually queer space, it’s mostly straight. Painfully so, imho.

 

[sweettalk4u]

Might i add you on fetlife as well? i want to explore fetlife but i had never pulled the trigger till now i do want to learn about the lifestyle it interests me greatly.

Certainly you may _Kassie_

 

[sweettalk4u]

I love fetlife. I actually met my partner there. I’ve mostly had decent experiences.
Feel free to add me.

Mrs_heaux

Are you still on there?

 

[sweettalk4u]

Worst site. Would never in my life recommend it to anyone.

Before Covid it was decent. But it seemed like during the pandemic it shifted to a glorified porn site. Which is not redeemable considering it was always a haven for abusive twits and keyboard sex warriors. The local events were the only reason I browsed mainly, and over the years I did meet some play partners there. But a lot went and stayed virtual in 2020 and my city has a huge problem with socialization irl which basically translated to a lot of fetlife ghosting and profiles claiming to be looking that aren’t.

Now though, it seems the shift in porn consumption being the main use of the site seems permanent. Not dissing onlyfans specifically but most of the popular accounts are strictly used as advertising space and it’s basically just a huge fashion and appearances contest anyway.

So if u don’t fall into the categories of people who A. Are young model material interested in selling sexual services or otherwise showing off your body for strictly male consumption, or B. A male who wants to join the Void of Ten Thousand Clamouring Horny Men uselessly commenting on puppet-like accounts, don’t bother.

And that leads me to something I forgot - it’s not a very LBGTQ+ space. For as much as the theme would imply it’s a kinky sexually queer space, it’s mostly straight. Painfully so, imho.

_Kassie_

 

[LittleSwitchy]

Best way I can describe FetLife is a kinky Facebook.
It’s a good site to find events. I’d suggest looking for a munch. Basically a meet and greet for kinky people.

 

[Bpar721971]

It can certainly seem that way at first glance. I was trying to hook up. I didn’t want to take the time to set up a profile and get into all these different groups or go and meet a bunch of people. Then I realized one day it was like going to a fine restaurant and just ordering coffee.
I met a woman who took me under her wing and introduced me to the bdsm lifestyle that had been there all along. I just didn’t see it. She helped me get my profile set up too. She flipped the light on and it’s been burning in me ever since. I soon learned that sex was just the tip of one super hot iceberg!

i had a profile on fretlife, but i to never made any traction. mind if pm you about more details on fetlife?

 

[sweettalk4u]

i had a profile on fretlife, but i to never made any traction. mind if pm you about more details on fetlife?

Certainly! Or message me at [email address removed per forum rules]

 

[frappingwilly]

I enjoy literotica but to learn the lifestyle I chose fetlife years ago. D/s relationships are the best I think and fetlife gives you what you need to succeed.
It’s a huge site that encourages local social gatherings and info on every kind of kink. There are things for sale but I’ve never paid a penny. I’ve also met and trained my most wonderful submissive girl . Anyone else been on fetlife?

Yes I had an open relationship with a lady who was married on FetLife. We saw each other for around 3yrs.

Met some amazing people on there, but a high amount of idiots or time wasters stopped me signing in so much.

 

[seekingAlpha]

I have found FetLife to be a great resource if you want a casual relationship and regardless of what you are into you can find it there. On the other hand, expect all of the drama and drawbacks of any typical social networking site. If you have never been on there you must experience it for at least a little while.

 

[Maidoutofwater]

i enjoy FetLife for finding events and photo sharing from my local kinksters. I guess it results depends on how you use it. If you are looking for me, I’m Arendelle.

 

[quicksylver69]

I enjoy fetlife. I’ve met several guys from there, including the guy who is my current fuck buddy/dom.

I def get a lot of random messages etc, but same as any site including this one. Just weed out the dodgy ones and start conversations with the interesting ones

 

[SubzeroGirl]

I enjoy Fet. There are a few people I have posted with for years. People posting can flirt and have fun without thinking it’s an invitation. I also find it more serious and respectful in general.

 

[ShaneoD]

I enjoy Fet. There are a few people I have posted with for years. People posting can flirt and have fun without thinking it’s an invitation. I also find it more serious and respectful in general.

I'm really really trying to be respectful of boundaries, but I can't be the only guy who really wants to ask. You're a classy lady I won't ask (it eating me inside though)

 

[TageRyche]

I'm on Fetlife and in the early going I met some people at munches. Didn't play with many though. Really only one and that was only a couple of times. I did go to some Fet parties at clubs that were fun. Played with a couple of people there but they actually Fet members since the person hosting the parties had an extended circle of people to invite.

I've found a few people I knew in real life BEFORE I saw they were on Fet, including one person who I actually had sort of a crush on beforehand but sadly they weren't interested. Still think they are incredible though.

Oddly enough, I met someone who has become my best friend in regular life because of going to a munch. We don't play or anything, just strictly "regular" friends but they are definitely my best friend.

I'm not very active on there now beyond logging in and checking my feed but I do still go on the site each day to check in. I ignore the BS stuff so I guess you get out the site what you put into it.

 

[Bigboobbabe]

FetLife has been very good to me.
I have had 2 hookups while traveling for business. One was a single guy and we played 3 nights in a row.

I lost count of local hookups. Some are duds. Some have lasted until the newness is gone.

First inperson meeting with a potential new Dom is Friday. He lives 12 minutes from me.

 

[MidnightRyder007]

On it, it's ok if you don't expect to allot from it.

 

[sweettalk4u]

I have found FL to be very hostile to those who want to meet others. Some of the profiles are extremely aggressive.

I had that problem but it’s been years