fixing me to enjoy sex after a sexless marriage

[bailadora]

Life just won't be the same without you!!!!

I try to be mindful of other people's sensibilities, but for you - I'll make an exception.

Although I'll have to look up the big words before I comment, cause I'm not smart like you. LOL

At least you're honest about it.

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

I think you're a licentious profligate.

Gollee Miss Dora, I got them big words lookt up and Gollee, thankee for tha complemint. I didnt know you cared so much. And I promise, I wont tell anybody that you and me is havin a affair cause I know you dont want anybody thinkin that you and me is fuckin one another. Maybe some of youre smart will rub off on me.

 

[bailadora]

....I know you dont want anybody thinkin that you and me is fuckin one another.

Good lord! Now why'd you have to go and say a thing like that? I'm gonna have nightmares!

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

Good lord! Now why'd you have to go and say a thing like that? I'm gonna have nightmares!

LOL, Ain't life fun.

 

[f15]

Hi all. Well, I have been at this change of venue since Monday and no doubt my head is all messed up. It may be the stress of some other things going on but this is going to some effort to correct a 20 year problem. I am definitely of the opinion that I am not in the "moment" like I need to be with sex.

When the X and I was intimate her needs were always put first or at least in my mind so until I get past that barrier and start to enjoy parts of sex just for myself I have my work cut out for me. But there is an improvement just not much.

Crazy for me to believe my mind has gotten this skewed but the years wore down on me. I would have to say at this point to anyone that unless you are locked into a relationship for the right reasons to not have an opportunity to be be intimate with your other, figure something else out if you still desire intimacy.

Thanks again

 

[Boundlife]

Hi all. Well, I have been at this change of venue since Monday and no doubt my head is all messed up. It may be the stress of some other things going on but this is going to some effort to correct a 20 year problem. I am definitely of the opinion that I am not in the "moment" like I need to be with sex.

When the X and I was intimate her needs were always put first or at least in my mind so until I get past that barrier and start to enjoy parts of sex just for myself I have my work cut out for me. But there is an improvement just not much.

Crazy for me to believe my mind has gotten this skewed but the years wore down on me. I would have to say at this point to anyone that unless you are locked into a relationship for the right reasons to not have an opportunity to be be intimate with your other, figure something else out if you still desire intimacy.

Thanks again

I'm sorry. Don't be to hard on yourself, twenty years is a long time. Your life has changed drastically. I hope you find someone you can talk to face to face about this.

 

[silverwhisper]

nasty deeds quoth:
oh yeah, and be sure that you wear a raincoat in the shower too, you certainly don't want to take any chances. you want to make your life as dull and boring as possible.

nasty deeds, you're a frighteningly ignorant moron.

now, that's OK because we all know it, it's part of your schtick.

but for fuck's sake, please do not counsel that people should have unprotected sex with people they don't know particularly well. self-destructiveness isn't attractive on anybody. neither is it cool.

it's just fucking pathetic.

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