For all women who wished to be lusted after...

[meop79]

That's true freya....

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[Wintermute]

I don't really think anyone can define lust for another person. It's so individual to the person involved. What I like, you may not. What person you like, may not return the feelings. Whether it be physical attraction, or a sense about that person - it might not be returned, it might not be understood by others.

The problem is we take it so personally when it is not returned by the one we wish for. But if you look at it logically, there should be no expectation that because you like them ,they need to like you back. There are others out there that may like us, for which we don't feel the same...but yet, we don't change our minds because we feel badly for them...but we get hurt when someone doesn't return our feelings.

I guess the best we can hope for is that the connection we feel when looking at someone, might possibly be felt back by them. If not, we move on in life and hope they find someone for who the feelings are truly there.

That was almost poetic.

 

[Batch]

I don't really think anyone can define lust for another person. It's so individual to the person involved. What I like, you may not. What person you like, may not return the feelings. Whether it be physical attraction, or a sense about that person - it might not be returned, it might not be understood by others.

The problem is we take it so personally when it is not returned by the one we wish for. But if you look at it logically, there should be no expectation that because you like them ,they need to like you back. There are others out there that may like us, for which we don't feel the same...but yet, we don't change our minds because we feel badly for them...but we get hurt when someone doesn't return our feelings.

I guess the best we can hope for is that the connection we feel when looking at someone, might possibly be felt back by them. If not, we move on in life and hope they find someone for who the feelings are truly there.

yes..that is an important thing to try to remember.what is felt may not be returned....

 

[meop79]

I lust after a lot of women and would happilly lick my way across several of you

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[Batch]

lust desire and wanting...unrequited

so the gist of all this is that it is not one thing or another...either you have it..have someting that someone else is attracted to or you don't...sureness of yourself and strength, a sense of humor...and ready smile.....a twinkle in the eye and he may or may not be the bait ,the attractant that draws them to you....


I have a crush on you
I like you
You, I find attractive....
i love your smile
i love that sad look in your eye
or a million other assorted things... each up to the individual....

wandering around the idea is what you attract what you want?
and is what you are attracted to going to be good for you....
the on-line aspects have added an interesting twist...perhaps more verbal wrangling but .....i was wondering about truth.... ah well and good I wander....
back into the mists.....

 

[meop79]

*looking after Batchoohus with lust in my eyes*

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[Batch]

*looking after Batchoohus with lust in my eyes*

Meop79@yahoo.com

and why?
just for the study mind you, just for the study?

 

[meop79]

why you of course....

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[Freya]

Re: lust desire and wanting...unrequited

so the gist of all this is that it is not one thing or another...either you have it..have someting that someone else is attracted to or you don't...sureness of yourself and strength, a sense of humor...and ready smile.....a twinkle in the eye and he may or may not be the bait ,the attractant that draws them to you....


I have a crush on you
I like you
You, I find attractive....
i love your smile
i love that sad look in your eye
or a million other assorted things... each up to the individual....

wandering around the idea is what you attract what you want?
and is what you are attracted to going to be good for you....
the on-line aspects have added an interesting twist...perhaps more verbal wrangling but .....i was wondering about truth.... ah well and good I wander....
back into the mists.....

No Batch I think you're being too hard on yourself. You're saying it as if some people have what it takes and some don't. That's not what the point is. The point is...everyone is lustable, just not TO everyone. I might be lusted after by one, and you might be lusted after by another. You seem a sad, but beautiful person...many people will be attracted to that. I am a mouthy opinionated person......hopefully someone will be attracted to that.

 

[Batch]

Freya,
sad I am
and sad I will be
sadness is who I am...
I am not sad about the not being lusted after...no am curious about the power of this...the hold it takes of one and of others....
I know why lust rarely visits me...and it is okay....
just curious about it....
having fun at the Boyz ?
I hope you are....smile

 

[Freya]

Freya,
sad I am
and sad I will be
sadness is who I am...
I am not sad about the not being lusted after...no am curious about the power of this...the hold it takes of one and of others....
I know why lust rarely visits me...and it is okay....
just curious about it....
having fun at the Boyz ?
I hope you are....smile

Batch, lust rarely visits me either. Maybe now it does, I've posted pictures and I suppose they garner a momentary burst of lust from some men (or women, who knows). But basically, that being lusted after feeling has eluded me - I think mostly because I've never had the nerve (confidence, instinct?) to reach out and grab for it when it may have shown its face to me. I have lusted.....many, many times...in fact, I feel it now for someone. Will it be returned...who knows? It is now...at this precise moment, but whether I can keep that feeling alive in them is another story. That's the part where the physical lust fades out and the lust felt for the person underneath takes over. You say you aren't lusted over, I find that hard to believe. I think everyone has the capability of being lusted for....they just have to show that they want it and expect it. Maybe you feel you won't be lusted after because of some physical imperfection you think you have....but I'd much rather be lusted after because of who I am than what I look like.

Am I having fun there? You know it! I do so hope you'll come back and visit us again.

 

[meop79]

Batch, lust rarely visits me either. Maybe now it does, I've posted pictures and I suppose they garner a momentary burst of lust from some men (or women, who knows). But basically, that being lusted after feeling has eluded me - I think mostly because I've never had the nerve (confidence, instinct?) to reach out and grab for it when it may have shown its face to me. I have lusted.....many, many times...in fact, I feel it now for someone. Will it be returned...who knows? It is now...at this precise moment, but whether I can keep that feeling alive in them is another story. That's the part where the physical lust fades out and the lust felt for the person underneath takes over. You say you aren't lusted over, I find that hard to believe. I think everyone has the capability of being lusted for....they just have to show that they want it and expect it. Maybe you feel you won't be lusted after because of some physical imperfection you think you have....but I'd much rather be lusted after because of who I am than what I look like.
Am I having fun there? You know it! I do so hope you'll come back and visit us again.

Now Now Freya.... of course you've been lusted after



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[Freya]

Now Now Freya.... of course you've been lusted after



Meop79@yahoo.com

hmmm, maybe so. But why? Because I have nice breasts? Or because I posted naked shots of myself? Only 3 people on here so far have seen what I really look like. Less than 5 have had real conversations with me. So, once again it's that superficial lust thing.

 

[meop79]

Chuckle perhaps and perhaps you give away more than you know...

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[Freya]

Chuckle perhaps and perhaps you give away more than you know...

Meop79@yahoo.com

Or maybe you're just more perceptive than some.

 

[meop79]

but of course...

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[SweetSexyLady]

Lust is a very odd emotion....anything can trigger it....a touch, a smile, a wink. I lust after my boyfriend, still, after a year and a half, and for me it's his smile and wink, it's sooo damn sexy! He makes me feel like a girl with her first crush...butterflies and all.

 

[SweetSexyLady]

Freya2, I know someone who lusts after you.

 

[sortacurious]

hmmm....good conversations. *taking notes*

I remember getting my picture taken with the stunt double for Conan at Universal Studios. I know I was lusting then. lmao

 

[naded]

wondered when sweetsexylady would show up here

 

[SweetSexyLady]

Love your AV sorta, very creative! I hope Naded hurries with my pics. I went to his house the other day and took some pics and now he's sprucing them up. I am sooo nervous!

 

[SweetSexyLady]

lol....the roomies heard me bitching about them always saying no about their puter so this time she said yes...you know how good I am at bitching....lol

 

[Freya]

Freya2, I know someone who lusts after you.

Oh?

 

[sortacurious]

Love your AV sorta, very creative! I hope Naded hurries with my pics. I went to his house the other day and took some pics and now he's sprucing them up. I am sooo nervous!

Thank you. I look forward to seeing yours! He's very good with the pics.

 

[SweetSexyLady]

Thank you sorta....I look forward to seeing it too...nervousness aside

Yes freya, I do know someone....pm me, please.