Forceful Sex

[Crankbait88]

Sometimes a man just has to be a man and take a woman for his pleasure. To fuck her silly until she is laying in a puddle of sweat and cum, spent, and not able to remember her name.

 

[Crankbait88]

What's good for the goose I suppose

 

[shinybikiniwife]

Sometimes a man just has to be a man and take a woman for his pleasure. To fuck her silly until she is laying in a puddle of sweat and cum, spent, and not able to remember her name.

omg...

 

[WanderingSarah]

Sometimes a man just has to be a man and take a woman for his pleasure. To fuck her silly until she is laying in a puddle of sweat and cum, spent, and not able to remember her name.

I volunteer as tribute.

 

[Kirksameritze02]

My wife worked as a waitress at a bar where she had had a affairs this guy new about them and it gave him leverage to take her......and he did .PM me

 

[spr1987]

I volunteer as tribute.

You volunteer as tribute? I got the hunger, but no games... Get on the train

 

[wallstreetguy]

When it comes to this kink, I follow her lead and then use a combination of art and science to get the job done. I only do this if it is her kink. I need a sub to come to me and politely ask for this. Then, we figure out how far it will/should go.

 

[Islander55]

Or. A woman just needs to be a woman and take him for her pleasure. Or her.

So true. For this to work well, the woman has to be wanting it. There are times when I want to be in control but also times when I just want him to do me good and proper.

 

[southernf]

Because like men, women enjoy variety. I too have an easy going, thoughtful husband who is the perfect companion for me. However, there is still that urge now and then to be taken. I don't mean I want to be abused in any way but I do want to feel that he simply has to have me. Can't control himself. I want to be pinned down and fucked good and proper.. This is just not my husband. Just not his nature. He will try but I know he is going though the motions. Simple solution. Take a lover who can provide it. Enjoy what your husband has to provide and maybe provide some special treats for his allowing you to experience your desires.

I can so relate to this. I have definitely learned from chatting with men on this site that most men expect us to have a specific list of things we like. It makes it seem so routine like they just want a checklist to follow. We like variety just like men do. I tend to be more submissive in general, but I don't need to feel "dominated" to enjoy sex. Just normal passionate sex is INCREDIBLE because it is all about the connection I feel with him. But that doesn't mean my mind can't wander to dirtier, kinkier places sometimes too. Too much of the same thing is always going to get boring.

 

[Lonelyhubby80]

I can so relate to this. I have definitely learned from chatting with men on this site that most men expect us to have a specific list of things we like. It makes it seem so routine like they just want a checklist to follow. We like variety just like men do. I tend to be more submissive in general, but I don't need to feel "dominated" to enjoy sex. Just normal passionate sex is INCREDIBLE because it is all about the connection I feel with him. But that doesn't mean my mind can't wander to dirtier, kinkier places sometimes too. Too much of the same thing is always going to get boring.

you should allow Pm's

 

[spr1987]

I can so relate to this. I have definitely learned from chatting with men on this site that most men expect us to have a specific list of things we like. It makes it seem so routine like they just want a checklist to follow. We like variety just like men do. I tend to be more submissive in general, but I don't need to feel "dominated" to enjoy sex. Just normal passionate sex is INCREDIBLE because it is all about the connection I feel with him. But that doesn't mean my mind can't wander to dirtier, kinkier places sometimes too. Too much of the same thing is always going to get boring.

I am a Man and I agree with you completely. There has to be a good connection between partners, which allows each to feel or sense what the other needs.

 

[Retrieversandspaniels]

When I am with a partner that I feel I can totally trust, I’d ove the feeling of giving up control and being used however HE chooses… I think knowing that he will be doing the things that give HIM the most pleasure is part of what gives me pleasure. When that’s rough and forceful sex, it’s essential for the trust to be there to know that my hard limits will be respected, but that knowledge that they will be would allow me to enjoy it a lot!

 

[YourgirlfriendLaura]

I like to be on both sides of forceful sex. It means passion, in my mind. "Oh, can I touch under your shirt?" after already making out for half an hour is weak sauce. Similarly, if I feel it, I will pull his cock out of his pants, if it looks uncomfortable! Passion! Act like you WANT her or him. Does not have to mean hard hair pulling or cock gagging.

 

[Titsandclits]

When I am with a partner that I feel I can totally trust, I’d ove the feeling of giving up control and being used however HE chooses… I think knowing that he will be doing the things that give HIM the most pleasure is part of what gives me pleasure. When that’s rough and forceful sex, it’s essential for the trust to be there to know that my hard limits will be respected, but that knowledge that they will be would allow me to enjoy it a lot!

I like to be on both sides of forceful sex. It means passion, in my mind. "Oh, can I touch under your shirt?" after already making out for half an hour is weak sauce. Similarly, if I feel it, I will pull his cock out of his pants, if it looks uncomfortable! Passion! Act like you WANT her or him. Does not have to mean hard hair pulling or cock gagging.

These are two very different aspects and I would respect both of them

 

[Vitriolhack]

I've recently been trying to explain my kinky passions to a woman. She's in a dead end relationship and it's close to its end, so I've been explaining things to her about what I'm like, etc. This is mostly in emails, as she doesn't want any connection until her present one is over.

She's sometimes said she's into it, and sometimes said she's against it. She's even said I'll need to find someone else for that kind of fun. I'm starting to wonder if she is just not able to commit or if she wants to be taken and forced. I don't want to attempt any of that on my own.

What I don't like is the lack of straight out communication. I've always tried to be very open about what I want and don't want and then ask what a woman wants, in return. If it works out that we are compatible, fine. It not, that's fine, too.

I just don't like playing the game of not knowing and maybe wasting time. If I find her physically attractive, I start the communication. I consider that the adult way of doing things. Unfortunately, there are some people who are adults physically, but not mentally.

She recently said she has long been unable to "let her freak flag fly". Those were her exact words. I thought maybe she had no way to express herself and so she stole that phrase from David Crosby.

I said that's interesting to hear and asked her what she meant. She said that was for a future discussion. I considered it a come on, and maybe in some way she was maybe tempting me. And maybe it was also something she didn't want to talk about, while she was still in a relationship. But, just last night, she again said any kind of kinky relationship between us would not happen.

Early on, I told her that I'm very open and I've even told her that I'm far from a newbie and have lived most of my sexual fantasies. I've even explained some of them to her...in detail. I saw it as a good thing when she didn't call me a pervert. LOL. She even said it sounded "interesting".

I've also said that I'm willing to talk over what she has in mind when she talks about her freak flag. But, I need to have input from her. I'm a patient man, but I also need to know what she means by her freak flag.

I'm beginning to get frustrated. She's hot and cold. When a woman gets this way, it turns me off. I don't see it as acting like an adult. Sometimes I think women see me as too open, and they are wanting to keep some mystery there.

Personally, I prefer knowing something...understanding someone's needs or desires. I want to make it all work. What is it with women? Why do they act this way? At this point, I still don't know if she's even willing to get into this kind of kink with me, because she sometimes seems interested and then other times she isn't.

I'm frustrated. I could be wasting my time. She won't even go out with me until her present situation is over. I understand that, but I would like some kind of hint. Is she going to open up, once this present relationship is over? Or is this the way she is? If so, I'm not getting much from her.

As long as we are talking about flags, my red flag went up in almost every paragraph of your text.

What people write and the mask they put on to talk to you in real life is not the same. Just because you say and write what you mean, you cannot expect others to be exactly like what you envisage them to be.

No one sees the world through the same lenses.

Do you really expect her to be different once she is out of her relationship? Do you even know why she wants to get out of it?

Could she be using you as a crutch a safe landing if things go sour with her current partner?

You say you are frustrated with her double meaning and expect answers from her that clearly she is not willing or perhaps incapable of sharing.

You are not even dating her and you say things like “what is it with women….” Women are different than men period, this does not mean anything else than both see the same situation and arrive to 2 very different conclusions. One is not better than the other just different.

Couples that last learn to accept this and rely on each other’s perception of the world to adjust their thinking so that they can both find meaning and perhaps even a deeper appreciation for each other.

maybe you should let her sort out her current situation you may just be adding to the noise she is feeling at the moment.

 

[YourgirlfriendLaura]

These are two very different aspects and I would respect both of them

You are very respectful of all sexual...um positions, going by what I know from our chats!

 

[Jcam1980s]

Imagine my wifes ex being like this with her in front of me eventually she cums and it results in him knocking her up. Ah to see her get pumped hard by him is an ultimate fantasy

 

[eroticspank]

I have had the fantasy of being forced to watch my wife get raped. She eventually likes it and continues the fucking very enthusiastically. I am tied up naked to a chair.

ES

 

[AGENTX23]

I have had the fantasy of being forced to watch my wife get raped. She eventually likes it and continues the fucking very enthusiastically. I am tied up naked to a chair.

ES

What I found very compelling with your post was your absolute honest in wanting to be placed in a position of being helpless while your wife must endure the pleasures of taking another man's cock and seed into her wet and hungry pussy .....

I find it ultimately the highest expression of hypocrisy when I sit back and listen to the so-called 'moral majority' who want to whine and complain about how NO ONE should want to be placed in a situation or setting of non-consensual fucking (aka Rape). As a black dominant male who has dealt with many white women, I have been very very VERY aroused knowing how many of the white women I have been with thoroughly enjoy the thought of being held down by a strong and physical black man and taken over and over and over again ......

To me -- these are powerful shadows not only to enter and occupy but to embrace and cultivate. While many will waste considerable time bickering about the pros and cons of BDSM culture (a culture NOT even fully understood by many of its so-called 'members'} -- true BDSM offers the portals and the understanding of how to cultivate these very important shadows of the psyche.

I thank you very much for your post and for your very powerful thoughts.

 

[Vitriolhack]

I have had the fantasy of being forced to watch my wife get raped. She eventually likes it and continues the fucking very enthusiastically. I am tied up naked to a chair.

ES

If you are both into it, and she would enjoy watching you tied as she is “forced” fucked by a bigger dick, it’s all ok.

Who are we to judge what other consenting adults feel acceptable in their intimacy?

 

[eroticspank]

I thank you very much for your post and for your very powerful thoughts.

You are welcome and I like your comments. Sometimes there are things that touch the very core of us. We do not always know why we like it, we just do.

As a black man myself, I have been put in situations where I am to take control because of the stereotype you mentioned. Sometimes that can be a very positive addition to bedroom play. I find I like both sides of D/s play.

ES

 

[eroticspank]

I have had the fantasy of being forced to watch my wife get raped. She eventually likes it and continues the fucking very enthusiastically. I am tied up naked to a chair.

ES

I mentioned I like both sides of D/s play. I also like this scenario above in reverse. I am being fucked by a woman while my wife watches tied to a chair. I do my best to hold out and not cum, but I am tied up and I eventually lose.

ES

 

[AGENTX23]

I mentioned I like both sides of D/s play. I also like this scenario above in reverse. I am being fucked by a woman while my wife watches tied to a chair. I do my best to hold out and not cum, but I am tied up and I eventually lose.

ES

Absolutely brilliant thinking.

Already I find you to be a true man of his personal sojourn within himself, fearless and driven with purpose.

The inspiration I have received from you as been timely and quite monumental for me. I enjoy where my shadows have led me and I have enjoyed the reminders along the way to continue cultivating the breadth and breath of my shadows .....

Thank you very much, EroticSpank, for sharing what you have shared in this post -- and continue to remain true to your own shadows.

 

[Jcam1980s]

I fantasise about arranging a cock for my wife while i watch. She finds out beforehand and makes arrangements of her own. I find myself tied up bent over and a spreader bar used on me. They act like they're about to screw and me watch, but suddenly im forced to take a thick cock in my virgin ass. She masturbates and cums several times watching me helplessly wiggle as a huge load is pounded into me. She jacks me off and makes me cum, while the 2nd man shes invited fists me. Ultimate humiliation as after my ordeal they both screw her in front of me, and all 3 tell me this is the situation from now on.

 

[Vitriolhack]

I fantasise about arranging a cock for my wife while i watch. She finds out beforehand and makes arrangements of her own. I find myself tied up bent over and a spreader bar used on me. They act like they're about to screw and me watch, but suddenly im forced to take a thick cock in my virgin ass. She masturbates and cums several times watching me helplessly wiggle as a huge load is pounded into me. She jacks me off and makes me cum, while the 2nd man shes invited fists me. Ultimate humiliation as after my ordeal they both screw her in front of me, and all 3 tell me this is the situation from now on.

From virgin ass to fisting. Please bring lube!