Fuck It: Refux

[Saltfountain]

no, still on the fuck it list.

Which hole for? Or both?

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

That's so interesting that you've realised this about yourself only recently. I always thought we were meant to have that part of ourselves figured out early on.

Haha well, it's been a bit of a question mark since I was a teenager. I always thought I was curious, but I always had a feeling there was something more going on.

I think a big part of not coming out or exploring earlier in life was the environment I grew up in. My surroundings were very homophobic. It was very damaging and I never felt safe fully being myself or exploring. I suppressed my bi side for years and years.

I don't know currently how I'd identify myself though demisexual seems like the best fit. I've definitely become more interested in the idea of exploring with a woman but don't know if I'd ever get the chance. Maybe as a third or something?
I don't know.
I'm a work in progress.

Oh yeah, we're all works in progress on some level. And that's a good thing. The best thing we can do as people is continue to grow and evolve.

And sexuality is a thing you get to define for yourself. No one else gets to decide who and what you are. Overall sexuality is about ATTRACTION, not actual experience.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Which hole for? Or both?

no, a fist is not going up my ass. I know enough about my limits from prior experience to know that is over it, unless they were like a little person or something.

 

[tolyk]

no, a fist is not going up my ass. I know enough about my limits from prior experience to know that is over it, unless they were like a little person or something.

Damn. Rules out my cock then likely too (I kid, I kid)

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

no, a fist is not going up my ass.

Gee, why not?

(Kidding)

I know enough about my limits from prior experience to know that is over it, unless they were like a little person or something.

And even then start with a finger and work your way up. #hoelifeprotip

 

[Saltfountain]

no, a fist is not going up my ass. I know enough about my limits from prior experience to know that is over it, unless they were like a little person or something.

@barefootgirl69 is basically a dwarf. You're saying she can fist your ass?

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Damn. Rules out my cock then likely too (I kid, I kid)

My general run of thumb is can I fit it in my mouth. If the answer is no, not even going to try.

 

[tolyk]

Nah, don't feel nervous or weird about mentioning this. In fact it's brave and cool to own it and say "this is a thing that happened."

I think I'm kind of the opposite. The thing with me is that even though I pretty clearly identify as bi, I've never physically been with a dude before. The opportunity just never presented itself, and I've pretty much just always been with women. Plus realizing I was full on bi happened only the last few years or so. I have however had plenty of fun online interactions with men and gay/bi porn is my jam. I'm very comfortably into vagina owners and penis owners. I dig it all.

Totally tasted my own jizz. Not even gonna lie, I taste really good.

Echoing what NRJ said, nothing to feel weird or nervous about. Own that shit.

I identified as bi since my early 20s, but over the last decade, I've switched to saying pansexual instead. I'm less concerned about what is in someone's pants than I am with what's in their mind. I don't care if they're a woman, man, NB, GF, trans, whatever. Doesn't matter, if I like a person, I like 'em, and I'll want to do dirty things to said things in their pants.

 

[tolyk]

My general run of thumb is can I fit it in my mouth. If the answer is no, not even going to try.

Good rule, let's see if I qualify

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

@barefootgirl69 is basically a dwarf. You're saying she can fist your ass?

oh god You are now trying to pimp out the short people of lit.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

My general run of thumb is can I fit it in my mouth. If the answer is no, not even going to try.

Lessons to live by

 

[RosewoodTulip]

Echoing what NRJ said, nothing to feel weird or nervous about. Own that shit.

I identified as bi since my early 20s, but over the last decade, I've switched to saying pansexual instead. I'm less concerned about what is in someone's pants than I am with what's in their mind. I don't care if they're a woman, man, NB, GF, trans, whatever. Doesn't matter, if I like a person, I like 'em, and I'll want to do dirty things to said things in their pants.

I've always been sort of similar to that I think.
I need to know and like someone before I want anything else but so far it's only really been men I've thought about in that way.
The newness of my feelings is very intriguing but I'm happy to roll with the change.

 

[Bbl87]

no, still on the fuck it list.

I've always been intrigued by the whole fisting thing. I have pretty big hands so I'd probably not be an ideal partner for it. Back in the day before we were married, one time when my wife was really turned on she had me work her up to 4 fingers, so I do wonder if she could. Her fantasy dildo we recently ordered maxes out at 7.5" girth at the base which puts even me to shame, haha, though it's a pretty soft material. Who knows...

 

[Bbl87]

My general run of thumb is can I fit it in my mouth. If the answer is no, not even going to try.

I need to suggest that to my wife as a good rule of thumb. I don't think she'll go for it though.

 

[Saltfountain]

oh god You are now trying to pimp out the short people of lit.

I spotted a business opportunity

 

[Saltfountain]

My general run of thumb is can I fit it in my mouth. If the answer is no, not even going to try.

https://imgur.com/a/wfM8xK3

 

[Bbl87]

@barefootgirl69 is basically a dwarf. You're saying she can fist your ass?

Ya know, not the fisting, but I feel like a tiny girl may be a fuck it list item for me. The two women I've been with are 5'6" and 6'0". Being 6'5" myself, I feel Iike that could be interesting.

 

[barefootgirl69]

@barefootgirl69 is basically a dwarf. You're saying she can fist your ass?

You brat!

 

[Radiantcurves87]

Ya know, not the fisting, but I feel like a tiny girl may be a fuck it list item for me. The two women I've been with are 5'6" and 6'0". Being 6'5" myself, I feel Iike that could be interesting.

6'5"? Okay Jack and the beanstalk?

 

[barefootgirl69]

Ya know, not the fisting, but I feel like a tiny girl may be a fuck it list item for me. The two women I've been with are 5'6" and 6'0". Being 6'5" myself, I feel Iike that could be interesting.

I'm almost 5' and the last guy I dated was 6'5".

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

I've always been intrigued by the whole fisting thing. I have pretty big hands so I'd probably not be an ideal partner for it. Back in the day before we were married, one time when my wife was really turned on she had me work her up to 4 fingers, so I do wonder if she could. Her fantasy dildo we recently ordered maxes out at 7.5" girth at the base which puts even me to shame, haha, though it's a pretty soft material. Who knows...

I am fairly certain it is totally doable, with prep time. the length of time is the issue. When does curiosity cross into boredom because too much work lol.

https://imgur.com/a/wfM8xK3

there is an example of where the line of can be done and can be done comfortably separate.

 

[Bbl87]

I'm almost 5' and the last guy I dated was 6'5".

There's just something about short girls...

I'm not picky about height at all. The shortest girl I ever dated was 5'1" and she was freaking adorable standing next to me. Never did anything sexual though, haha, so don't know how the logistics would have worked out. I'm sure it'd be fun though.

6'5"? Okay Jack and the beanstalk?

You know you want to climb, then slide down my bean stalk.

 

[Bbl87]

I am fairly certain it is totally doable, with prep time. the length of time is the issue. When does curiosity cross into boredom because too much work lol.


there is an example of where the line of can be done and can be done comfortably separate.

What, raccoons aren't on your list?

 

[Saltfountain]

What, raccoons aren't on your list?

Nope. Against forum rules

 

[Saltfountain]

I am fairly certain it is totally doable, with prep time. the length of time is the issue. When does curiosity cross into boredom because too much work lol.


there is an example of where the line of can be done and can be done comfortably separate.

All I'm saying is your rule of thumb is, to use the vernacular, bollocks.

You couldn't even fit one raccoon in your mouth...