Fuck It: Refux

[Saltfountain]

I'm surprised because a few things don't make sense to me (but I'm more than prepared for others with more experience to explain to me)

The thing I'm most confused by is high scores for both vanilla and experimentalist. They would seem to be contradictory (but as I say, I'm no expert)

The other thing that surprised me was that your sub wasn't higher, and dom wasn't lower. I'm well prepared to believe you're more dominant in pms, but I guess I've not seen your dominant side on threads ever. So it surprised me

 

[Saltfountain]

I got a 0% brat score on my last test

 

[Saltfountain]

The top four on my list were absolutely no surprise what so ever !
I feel more exposed showing this list than I do showing nudes, showing how my brain is wired, exposing the real me ? Not just the bits I choose to show.
I'll leave it up for a bit so others can look and comment.

I feel like I'm an experiment now
But I'm intrigued

I wasn't surprised by your top 6 tbh. Rope bunnies are commonly submissive (though the reverse isn't necessarily true...)

In what forms do you see your dominant side showing itself?

 

[Saltfountain]

https://imgur.com/a/OCxViih

So I put my brat score down to the questions linking being bratty with wanting and enjoying being punished as a result
I'm undoubtedly bratty. But I hate being punished with a fucking passion

 

[RosewoodTulip]

See I got a much higher than expected brat score and I'm not at all. Maybe I get playful when I'm "little" but I never push back.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

So, what things do people wish they understood, but are completely alien to them?

For me, the big one is trying to wrap my head around being submissive. I understand about the desire to make your partner/s happy, but I can't get my stupid brain to process the loss of control bit

I struggle with both sides on the dom/sub sphere. Like, um, so I am supposed to do what someone says just because they said? hahahaha, yeah, that is cute. Hell, an order is like the best way to ensure I will do the opposite. That is entertainment. But flip side how much control do I really want over someone else? Especially when they know it is happening and are just so willing. Like where is the fun in that? You aren't supposed to just let me. Damn it, when I am in control, it is because I earned it, and they probably didn't even notice. Much more entertaining. I do get how giving up control can be freeing though.

The biggest struggle I have in understanding all these dom/sub style relationships is like even if you are playing up a side, only playing up that side would be boring. Next week, I'd want to be on the other side. like damn it, sometimes I want to be a Daddy. Don't typecast me. That is the biggest struggle for me to wrap my head around in those relationships as most everyone is always playing in the same space they are always in.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

I'm surprised because a few things don't make sense to me (but I'm more than prepared for others with more experience to explain to me)

The thing I'm most confused by is high scores for both vanilla and experimentalist. They would seem to be contradictory (but as I say, I'm no expert)

The other thing that surprised me was that your sub wasn't higher, and dom wasn't lower. I'm well prepared to believe you're more dominant in pms, but I guess I've not seen your dominant side on threads ever. So it surprised me

I have no clue what questions trigger than vanilla score. I think there are specific questions tied to vanilla itself, and completely separate from all the others. It is for sure not related to experimentalist. honestly, I think only the 90% and above have any real value. especially as a more experimentalist type, because every category you are bound to find some willingness to dabble in from time to time.

100% Non-monogamist
100% Exhibitionist
100% Voyeur
100% Switch
96% Rope bunny
96% Primal (Hunter)
96% Primal (Prey)
96% Experimentalist
94% Brat
89% Rigger
87% Brat tamer
85% Submissive
76% Dominant
71% Boy/Girl
66% Ageplayer
57% Sadist
44% Daddy/Mommy
42% Vanilla
25% Master/Mistress
21% Masochist
20% Pet
13% Owner
10% Degrader
4% Slave
0% Degradee

 

[Saltfountain]

I have no clue what questions trigger than vanilla score. I think there are specific questions tied to vanilla itself, and completely separate from all the others. It is for sure not related to experimentalist. honestly, I think only the 90% and above have any real value. especially as a more experimentalist type, because every category you are bound to find some willingness to dabble in from time to time.

100% Non-monogamist
100% Exhibitionist
100% Voyeur
100% Switch
96% Rope bunny
96% Primal (Hunter)
96% Primal (Prey)
96% Experimentalist
94% Brat
89% Rigger
87% Brat tamer
85% Submissive
76% Dominant
71% Boy/Girl
66% Ageplayer
57% Sadist
44% Daddy/Mommy
42% Vanilla
25% Master/Mistress
21% Masochist
20% Pet
13% Owner
10% Degrader
4% Slave
0% Degradee

Which was the question you said 'No' to?

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Which was the question you said 'No' to?

hahaha hard no, like absolute, all the way on the left no? not too many lol. That is the point, very little is an absolute no for an experimentalist. You ask us right, we are willing to try...even if just for fucking science. We also are usually able to find something we appreciate in almost anything, or at least moods when we appreciate it.

 

[Saltfountain]

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Exhibitionist
100% Dominant
100% Sadist
100% Degrader
95% Voyeur
94% Master/Mistress
93% Brat tamer
91% Primal (Hunter)
88% Rigger
81% Owner
51% Non-monogamist
32% Experimentalist
29% Vanilla
13% Daddy/Mommy
0% Brat
0% Pet
0% Primal (Prey)
0% Masochist
0% Rope bunny
0% Boy/Girl
0% Slave
0% Submissive
0% Switch
0% Degradee
0% Ageplayer

There's the new test. There's been changed over the last year. I totally blame you fuckers

And as you can see, still totally not a brat...

 

[Saltfountain]

This makes sense to me now, willing to try most things, even only once, just to find out what something is all about.

So you're happy for all those guys to keep messaging you about what they'd like to do because of your avatar?

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

This makes sense to me now, willing to try most things, even only once, just to find out what something is all about.

My rule is to try at least twice, unless it was just that horrible. A lot of things just don't work the first time, but you can see why, and try again the second time with a plan around the issue the first time.

 

[Saltfountain]

My rule is to try at least twice, unless it was just that horrible. A lot of things just don't work the first time, but you can see why, and try again the second time with a plan around the issue the first time.

My rule is 'You ain't putting that in my bum'

 

[SiFi]

So you're happy for all those guys to keep messaging you about what they'd like to do because of your avatar?

👁👁 nothing to see here.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

I am probably going to shock a few people now.
A long time ago I had a man perform anal on me , nothing else ,he asked me, there were other factors involved, it was just a random asking. I decided it wasn't really for me afterwards, but I needed to know. I don't class myself as gay or even bi but probably not quite 100% straight. But I would not go there again.
Been there done that , not ever again, and I don't have any sexual feeling towards men.
We're all friends here aren't we.. fuck I have only ever told 2 or 3 other about this, and now I publish this to the world

I get it. I'd be curious too.

 

[Saltfountain]

Explains why my experimentalist is so low

 

[SiFi]

Explains why my experimentalist is so low

Justa will back me up on this , we just have to know

 

[Saltfountain]

Justa will back me up on this , we just have to know

Ever swallowed a guy's cum?

 

[Saltfountain]

No.
Hard pass.
Not even my own

Didn't take long to find...

What happened to try anything once?

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

I am probably going to shock a few people now.
A long time ago I had a man perform anal on me , nothing else ,he asked me, there were other factors involved, it was just a random asking. I decided it wasn't really for me afterwards, but I needed to know. I don't class myself as gay or even bi but probably not quite 100% straight. But I would not go there again.
Been there done that , not ever again, and I don't have any sexual feeling towards men.
We're all friends here aren't we.. fuck I have only ever told 2 or 3 other about this, and now I publish this to the world

Nah, don't feel nervous or weird about mentioning this. In fact it's brave and cool to own it and say "this is a thing that happened."

I think I'm kind of the opposite. The thing with me is that even though I pretty clearly identify as bi, I've never physically been with a dude before. The opportunity just never presented itself, and I've pretty much just always been with women. Plus realizing I was full on bi happened only the last few years or so. I have however had plenty of fun online interactions with men and gay/bi porn is my jam. I'm very comfortably into vagina owners and penis owners. I dig it all.

No.
Hard pass.
Not even my own

Totally tasted my own jizz. Not even gonna lie, I taste really good.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

Nah, don't feel nervous or weird about mentioning this. In fact it's brave and cool to own it and say "this is a thing that happened."

I think I'm kind of the opposite. The thing with me is that even though I pretty clearly identify as bi, I've never physically been with a dude before. The opportunity just never presented itself, and I've pretty much just always been with women. Plus realizing I was full on bi happened only the last few years or so. I have however had plenty of fun online interactions with men and gay/bi porn is my jam. I'm very comfortably into vagina owners and penis owners. I dig it all.

Totally tasted my own jizz. Not even gonna lie, I taste really good.

That's so interesting that you've realised this about yourself only recently. I always thought we were meant to have that part of ourselves figured out early on.

I don't know currently how I'd identify myself though demisexual seems like the best fit. I've definitely become more interested in the idea of exploring with a woman but don't know if I'd ever get the chance. Maybe as a third or something?
I don't know.
I'm a work in progress.

 

[Saltfountain]

I'm a work in progress

Aren't we all?

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Justa will back me up on this , we just have to know

yup, only way to really know is to try. Otherwise it is just theoretical.

Hell, I will still walk into to things that I fully believe will be seriously not good, just to make sure I am right.

 

[Saltfountain]

yup, only way to really know is to try. Otherwise it is just theoretical.

Hell, I will still walk into to things that I fully believe will be seriously not good, just to make sure I am right.

Ever been fisted?

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Ever been fisted?

no, still on the fuck it list.