Fuck It: Refux

[Radiantcurves87]

I think you'll find a much more body positive community here than most places. Hell, peruse my gifs in the what kind of sex thread, I tend to like women that are more voluptuous. I'll be honest, I'd never sent a dick pic before coming to Lit. It's quite a rush for me as well now that I've done it. But, as I always say, solicited only.

I agree on the body positive community. More just about focusing on the positive and ignoring the negative. Isn't easy, I rather hide myself away, but where is the fun in that.

 

[tolyk]

Gentlemen, I'm a firm believer (pun intended) that this mindset should change. Allowing me to see your cock before you're hard means that I get to see the effect I have on you. Imagine how beautiful and powerful and sexy I feel when I watch your lust for me literally grow.

I get that the social norm is to pretend that you're all walking around rock hard all the time and to never let anyone see you pre-erection or more than a few seconds post-ejaculation, but I think there's a lot of sexy to be found in sharing those things with your online partners. I know I have absolutely LOVED the moments when someone has felt safe enough to share them with me.


This is a sound that often accompanies my voice memos, just because it's a place I can (sometimes) be alone.


I'm submissive. Completely. But if my partner needs me to take charge, I can. It's still an act of submission, for me-- I'm meeting his need-- but I sound bossy during.

I thought I had seen @RosewoodTulip talking about soft cock pics. Sorry, misquoted you there.

Was reading back closer and found the quote.

My reply to this is a few posts up. I agree that the mindset should change.

(This is what happens when I don't put on my glasses and surf Lit half asleep apparently)

 

[Mrtenant]

Sounds like someone(s) just wants us to whip it out no matter what. Though to be fair, the helicopter motion is not quite as impressive.

 

[tolyk]

Sounds like someone(s) just wants us to whip it out no matter what. Though to be fair, the helicopter motion is not quite as impressive.

Whip it out. Whip it out. Whip it out.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

I thought I had seen @RosewoodTulip talking about soft cock pics. Sorry, misquoted you there.

Was reading back closer and found the quote.

My reply to this is a few posts up. I agree that the mindset should change.

(This is what happens when I don't put on my glasses and surf Lit half asleep apparently)

Ah no worries. All part of the same conversation

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Sounds like someone(s) just wants us to whip it out no matter what. Though to be fair, the helicopter motion is not quite as impressive.

hey, helicopters are always fun. #TeamHelicopter.

 

[tolyk]

hey, helicopters are always fun. #TeamHelicopter.

Noted.

 

[Saltfountain]

Sounds like someone(s) just wants us to whip it out no matter what. Though to be fair, the helicopter motion is not quite as impressive.

They do, just not here thanks.

I believe there's a fine bar in the BDSM threads that encourages it though

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

Because you are...


I figure, what's the point in not showing myself, anyone I sleep with sees me naked, and still sleeps with me. I'm not trying to sleep with people by sharing in my am pics thread, that's for me. For the exhibitionist thrill.

I show my face quite often too.

Oh yeah, I definitely get the exhibitionist thing. I have that side. I think for me personally I'm just more...selective, I guess? Haha

hey, helicopters are always fun. #TeamHelicopter.

I'm on Team Diving board. Its more a stiff up and down "boing" kind of thing. #TeamDivingBoard

 

[Mrtenant]

They do, just not here thanks.

I believe there's a fine bar in the BDSM threads that encourages it though

There is! Yes! I know the owner. The place is hedonistic.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

They do, just not here thanks.

I believe there's a fine bar in the BDSM threads that encourages it though

I also hear there is this pushy chick with a thread in Ampics who encourages helicopters and cock pop posts. #ShamelessPlug #WhatAmIChoppedLiver

 

[Saltfountain]

I also hear there is this pushy chick with a thread in Ampics who encourages helicopters and cock pop posts. #ShamelessPlug #WhatAmIChoppedLiver

I've heard about her

She's ok really, but I believe she'd get more takers in a bar than this thread

 

[Mrtenant]

I've heard about her

She's ok really, but I believe she'd get more takers in a bar than this thread

I also hear there is this pushy chick with a thread in Ampics who encourages helicopters and cock pop posts. #ShamelessPlug #WhatAmIChoppedLiver

Sounds like we need to have a Helicopter Night. I'll round up the planning committee.

 

[Saltfountain]

Sounds like we need to have a Helicopter Night. I'll round up the planning committee.

I wish it well, i may even pop in if that's OK?

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Sounds like we need to have a Helicopter Night. I'll round up the planning committee.

Ok, but I am not putting a leash on any participants and leading them to the dungeon. NMK

 

[Saltfountain]

Ok, but I am not putting a leash on any participants and leading them to the dungeon. NMK

Have you ever worn a collar and leash?

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Have you ever worn a collar and leash?

collars yes. Fashion baby. I attached a leash to this guys nipple piercings once, but mostly because I wanted to see if he'd actually let me.

 

[Saltfountain]

So neither being led around on a leash nor doing the leading is your thing?

 

[Bbl87]

So neither being led around on a leash nor doing the leading is your thing?

Speaking for myself, when we do it there generally isn't much leading, it's more for exercising body/position control in practical terms. Have I used it to lead her before? Yes, but not often. But, we also have kids so there are only two places things usually go down so not like I have alot of places to lead her to.

Actually, my favorite use was feeding it between my legs (under my junk, obviously ) and grabbing it with my other hand. Then, using it to control her and her pace while giving be a blowjob. Saw someone do it on reddit and was like, huh, never thought of that. We both found it pretty hot.

 

[tolyk]

Speaking for myself, when we do it there generally isn't much leading, it's more for exercising body/position control. Have I used it to lead her before? Yes, but not often.

Actually, my favorite use was feeding it between my legs (under my junk, obviously ) and grabbing it with my other hand. Then, using it to control her and her pace while giving be a blowjob. Saw someone do it on reddit and was like, huh, never thought of that. We both found it pretty hot.

Isn't that what pigtails/braids are for?

 

[RosewoodTulip]

Speaking for myself, when we do it there generally isn't much leading, it's more for exercising body/position control in practical terms. Have I used it to lead her before? Yes, but not often. But, we also have kids so there are only two places things usually go down so not like I have alot of places to lead her to.

Actually, my favorite use was feeding it between my legs (under my junk, obviously ) and grabbing it with my other hand. Then, using it to control her and her pace while giving be a blowjob. Saw someone do it on reddit and was like, huh, never thought of that. We both found it pretty hot.

That does sound really good!

I'd love a collar because of how symbolic they can be.
I think I'd probably enjoy a leash for the types of things you mentioned. I don't have the knees to be crawling around any more and I wouldn't want to have one in public

 

[Bbl87]

Isn't that what pigtails/braids are for?

I keep trying to tell her that! She actually put her hair in a ponytail yesterday, and I told her she should do that more often and gave it a playful tug. That got me a smile and a punch to the shoulder. She has really nice wavy hair, but I do love it pulled back in a pony tail too.

 

[Bbl87]

That does sound really good!

I'd love a collar because of how symbolic they can be.
I think I'd probably enjoy a leash for the types of things you mentioned. I don't have the knees to be crawling around any more and I wouldn't want to have one in public

For awhile (until she lost it somehow) we had a "day collar" bracelet that she wore. It had a lover's knot on it (bondage is her main kink) and looked very innocent if you didn't know what to look for. In fact, one of her friends asked where she got it because the thought it was cute. She had to talk around that, haha. Anyway, it was a fun kind of symbolism that I think she enjoyed. If she were up for it I'd love to do that again, we (moreso she) have extreme ups and downs when it comes to interest in things like that, so who knows.

I've seen day collars that are actual collars and look pretty innocent and tasteful, but they were just a bit too much for her.

 

[Bbl87]

Fwiw, this is what it looked like. And you can choose the colors in the knot.

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[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

So neither being led around on a leash nor doing the leading is your thing?

I'd probably be more open to being led, but still not my thing. But what the fuck would I do with a dude on a leash?