Game (i dont have it, but want it)

[1Browneyedguy]

Got Game ?

It sometimes just happens. Sometimes it doesn't.

The other night, I attended an Awards ceremony. There were plenty of people I know, business connections, and I was waiting for someone else to join me ( a woman ) So there I was w/ a salad in front of me, waiting and waiting and looking at my cell for messages and this young lady who was standing nearby asked if she could sit down and join me. I stood up, smiled and said "of course"
She was young and very attractive.

The woman i was expecting, never showed up but I was having fun talking to this other woman.

I was polite of course.

Yes, she did have a BF (she said ) but we hit it off with some business promotions( exchanged numbers) we could do.

Her BF did show up later that night. Althou they were chatting, she made no attempt to leave me there like a third wheel.

After some coffee, desserts, etc... I was the one to leave and I invited her to stop by my store for lunch or coffee, when she's in the area.

 

[GorgeousGeekGirl]

What you need to do is get in touch with your inner asshole. Even though most of them will tell you differently... Women love assholes. Stop trying to be so polite. If she has great tits, look at them. If she looks your way, give her a look like you've seen better. If its the type of party that tits are coming out, it's okay to say nice tits. More important than being an asshole is to talk to a woman with confidence. Women can't help themselves. It's in there DNA. They love to fuck confident guys that treat them like shit. Sorry ladies, it's true. Doesn't matter if you are sixteen or sixty, my approach works on all of you.... Oh yeah, and the hotter a chick is, the more likely she is to have low self esteem. So the hottest ones are usually the easiest to nail.

The asshole thing, sigh... It's still around because it works, sort of. Going for the 20-25 girls, it's almost guaranteed. 25-30, it will work some. 30-40 will see a rapid decline in its success. Over 40, I will tell you once to get out of my face; take the warning because after that I'm just snapping your dick off.

But as far as smile/blush/giggle, that's very sweet and a lot of fun. For that, there are several approaches.

The slightly inappropriate compliment "I'm trying really hard not to stare, but the view with that sweater is amazing" or "I really respect your intelligent point if view, so I almost feel guilty about picturing what your wearing under that dress."

The quick inside joke, usually an mildly insulting observation of someone, "he's got to be kidding with that tough guy act. I think he's been watching too many Sopranos reruns." Or "is it just me or do these appetizers taste like a can of spaghetti Os?" You want to use the insult very sparingly, at most, once every hour, and your best bet is to take cues off of her as far as what would be a good insult choice. Make sure the insult has a little humor; otherwise it just sounds like mean gossip.

Sharing a secret "I don't actually know the host too well, we see each other a lot, but I can't ever remember his name." Or "now and then I get a craving for chocolate frosting, so the lady at the all night grocer must wonder about me and my 2 am frosting runs"

What you are looking for is a mix of humor and intimacy, something a little funny and a little inappropriate for just you two. The inappropriate is the reason to lean over and whisper, the funny is the giggle.

Hope this helps!

 

[ShyNerdHere]

what i take from that is "make it happen"

still not getting much if any practice.

did get a little practice, but was a captive audience.