Gay/BI One night stand, or affair?

[rc1989]

My neighbor has made me his sissy bitch, I've been his whore for 8 years. I guess that's an affair. But he sometimes makes me service his friends, would those be one night stands?

Congratulations on a great neighbor. I had similar relationship with a neighbor. Lasted 3 years. Sucked his dick almost everyday and got fucked maybe more than I wanted at the time, but never got to service his friends.

 

[MaturemanAJ]

As for M/M sex, I've only ever had one night stands with strangers, and I've never seen them again. This seems the best way to avoid complications, and having to make explanations or excuses. Also, that means nobody else will ever know what the 2 of us did that night. And I can hide remorse or shame, if I feel any. Plus there's no emotion or attachment to it, it's just sex and satisfaction, nothing more.

I've fantasized about cousins or co-workers who I suspect are gay, or my wife's gay friends, but I never acted on it. Too close, and I'm afraid a gay affair with someone I know would never remain a secret.

What's your experience?

To me blow and goes are just to dangerous. I worry about what I am getting myself into and then afterwards it's back to searching and that is a full-time job it seems.
I get not wanting feelings starting to happen but I don't see myself falling in love with a man.
I would prefer a long-term buddy

 

[Jacktrew]

Totally understand your line of reasoning here, but for many of us, playing with someone who truly knows our names, work, and lives the risk is so much greater.

The only comprise I have found is finding dudes in locations that I frequent for business trips.

 

[Random_NPC]

I had a one night stand and no long term affairs. Not for a lack of desire, but more a lack of time and potential partners. I'd prefer something long term, but that isn't in the cards.

 

[easyoff]

I had a one night stand and no long term affairs. Not for a lack of desire, but more a lack of time and potential partners. I'd prefer something long term, but that isn't in the cards.

A friend with benefits would be a perfect situation

 

[Random_NPC]

A friend with benefits would be a perfect situation

I agree. It would be.

 

[E_C65]

I've had both one-off's and a couple of repeat sessions one of which became quite regular and things were going well.

I guess that as with any sort of dating there are times when thing click better than others. Of course hook-ups are just about getting off, but sometimes there is something extra about the atmosphere that just builds on that.

If I had no other commitments then I think I would like to have a longer term MM relationship again, but in all reality that's not likely for me at the moment.

 

[wankerholic42]

I've been in casual relationships so far (mainly older married men), but I'd love for one to become more permament

Most of mine have been with younger married men. Currently have such a guy as a regular visitor. Loves to watch porn while I pleasure him!

 

[rc1989]

Last 8 years since I went from monogamous straight to bi sex it's been majority one off with a few that lasted a few weekends. Repeats give me hope for fwb and not nervous.. But new is so exciting. Not just to feel there dick but hear and see the response. I'm 58 here so not enough of either for my liking.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

I like a Gay One Night/Experience Stand. Absolutely no worries about another guy thinking that we're a "couple". It's all about sex - 'Blow and Go'

 

[CousinB]

I like a Gay One Night/Experience Stand. Absolutely no worries about another guy thinking that we're a "couple". It's all about sex - 'Blow and Go'

There is “something” about a one night stand, especially if there is a chemistry or a connection which can lead to an electric session.

The best sex I have ever had (with a man or woman) was with a 42 year old dude I met on Scruff while I was on a business trip to Vancouver. We connected on line in the morning, we exchanged some pics. We both liked what we saw.

He was gay and married. And he was horny to fuck. I told him I would get back to him in the afternoon. At 2 I reached out to him, by 3 he was fucking my horny hole.

He had a nice thick six inch cock, he was fit and highly skilled lover. We fucked for over an hour in four positions. His skill level was truly impressive….he easily found my prostate and aimed for an hour!

I remember screaming YES and it feels so good constantly……both of our loads were huge. I often jerk off thinking about my Vancouver lover!