give better head?

[Lori_Lux]

I find men enjoy it the more I enjoy it. You can tell when someone isn't into it.

 

[Hipshot1554]

I need some advice, my current bf says he likes getting head but seems....off put by it when i try it with him.

He's the one with the problem!

 

[hannahbandana]

Talked with him...he said i just kinda talk a lot during sexy times.

 

[sluttylilsecret]

like everyone else is saying ENTHUSIASM gotta act like blowing him his the greatest joy in the world. Drives the right guy wild! Though some guys just really don't like head that much and act like they do. Just talk with him and find out for yourself. Little bit of convo goes miles for sexy fun times.

 

[EmilyMiller]

Talked with him...he said i just kinda talk a lot during sexy times.

Hi hun,

That’s really weird feedback. Sorry he said that. How good is the relationship overall?

 

[Burstplayer]

Talked with him...he said i just kinda talk a lot during sexy times.

How are you finishing?

 

[hannahbandana]

Hi hun,

That’s really weird feedback. Sorry he said that. How good is the relationship overall?

I know right! Like what the heck does he even mean. I thought maybe I had accidentally bit him or scraped him my tooth or something. I do maybe talk a little bit but like just some dirty talk and making sure it feels good and stuff. We've been together for like 7 months and its been really good! I thought...

 

[BlueSands]

Talked with him...he said i just kinda talk a lot during sexy times.

If a woman is willing to blow me, I'm giving her every ounce of encouragement I have, AND am reciprocating very chance I get. And the dirty talk makes it even hotter!!!!

 

[EmilyMiller]

I know right! Like what the heck does he even mean. I thought maybe I had accidentally bit him or scraped him my tooth or something. I do maybe talk a little bit but like just some dirty talk and making sure it feels good and stuff. We've been together for like 7 months and its been really good! I thought...

I’m a chatterbox - during sexy times too. I’d have thought a nice BJ would be a way to keep you quiet (sorry, poor taste, couldn’t resist ).

If everything else is OK, then maybe this is just a temporary speed bump. But I doubt you being chatty is the real issue. Men can be complicated creatures.

I’m not saying this is the issue. Just a way out there for instance. Catholic kid, Father O’Brien likes kneeling in front of altar boys. These things happen. Or a bad experience with an ex… maybe she laughed at him for cummimg too quick. Or maybe he just doesn’t like the feeling, or doesn’t like someone else being in charge of his pleasure. This is all just spitballing.

Drop the subject for a while and focus on other stuff. But one day when it feels OK and safe, you could maybe ask him to explain a bit more. Say you really like him and want to make things good for him.

IDK it sounds very difficult. Something doesn’t add up.

 

[EmilyMiller]

And the dirty talk makes it even hotter!!!!

My dirty talk during a BJ:

Mrgh… nrgh… grmph… errgh…

 

[hannahbandana]

My dirty talk during a BJ:

Mrgh… nrgh… grmph… errgh…

I'll def take your advice and feel things out! Thanks for responses.

 

[LiftsMyBallsForHim]

Do you hold the shaft and suck the head?