give better head?

[Britva415]

The cishet manly men of Literotica are among the most alpha on the internet. Of course they aren’t basing their practical advice on personal experience of giving, rather than receiving. Heaven forfend .

OP wasn't asking about how to do it to improve her ergonomics or something, she was asking how to improve how it felt to the other person. Granted, the only right answer here is "ask him," but beyond that, who else would you ask but people with dicks? Orientation be damned.

If the question had been "how do I do this without getting tired and a sore jaw," and cishet men who've never done it were then advising, maybe you'd have been on to something.

 

[Primalex]

Granted, the only right answer here is "ask him,"

I beg to differ - and to quote Henry Ford:"If I had asked people what they wanted, they would have said faster horses."

 

[ToPleaseHim]

I beg to differ - and to quote Henry Ford:"If I had asked people what they wanted, they would have said faster horses."

So, a multi-faceted approach is best, yes?

Blowjob providers should read responses in threads like this from real people sharing their blowjob tips and best practices, but also definitely talk to the person whose cock they’re planning to take into their mouth. They may or may not have guidance based on their experience, but if they do have suggestions for what they like, it’s invaluable.

 

[Britva415]

I beg to differ - and to quote Henry Ford:"If I had asked people what they wanted, they would have said faster horses."

The only way for this OP to know how to give this guy better head is to ask him.

 

[Primalex]

The only way for this OP to know how to give this guy better head is to ask him.

Still - no, not really. She can try various things and check for reactions, for example.

 

[Britva415]

Still - no, not really. She can try various things and check for reactions, for example.

Yes. "Not talking" to a loved one is always great advice when there's something the matter between you.

 

[Kat_Galore]

Suck, slurp, slither, swallow - success.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Yes. "Not talking" to a loved one is always great advice when there's something the matter between you.

I don’t see where he said NOT to talk about it. He just said it’s not the only way.

 

[OralAllOver]

SIX TIPS TO PLEASE ONE TIP

1, 2 & 3) Enthusiasm, Enthusiasm, Enthusiasm

4) Some guys lay silent and unmoving. That's NOT for me. Your mileage may vary

5) if you're not into it, stop. Watching Oprah is better than accepting sole responsibility for another's pleasure

6) this guide looked ok

https://www.refinery29.com/en-au/how-to-give-a-good-blow-job

 

[Primalex]

Yes. "Not talking" to a loved one is always great advice when there's something the matter between you.

Awwe, shifting goalposts now? So sad. And then even a pretty terrible position - "when there's something the matter between you"? Sorry, I must have missed the part where she fucked his brother, I thought it's about giving more enjoyable head.

 

[BlondeSlutWife_Jen]

i love giving head a lot. So i always say practice makes perfect. Also listen to the guy as you suck his cock, he will let you know how good you are doing. Finally, alwyas make that eye contact, show him your cock loving eyes and he will reward you with a nice big load.

 

[akboom]

i love giving head a lot. So i always say practice makes perfect. Also listen to the guy as you suck his cock, he will let you know how good you are doing. Finally, alwyas make that eye contact, show him your cock loving eyes and he will reward you with a nice big load.

This is the way!!

 

[Britva415]

I thought it's about giving more enjoyable head

Right. To a guy who's saying he likes head but acting like he doesn't like hers.

a pretty terrible position - "when there's something the matter between you"?

That's how I read it, yeah.

I must have missed the part where she fucked his brother

Talk about moving the goalposts!

 

[Primalex]

Talk about moving the goalposts!

This is not moving goalposts, but an example, what you make it sound like what the issue is with your phrasing.

 

[Britva415]

This is not moving goalposts, but an example, what you make it sound like what the issue is with your phrasing.

And every time you push back, you sound like you're saying "whatever you do, don't talk about it."