give better head?

[LiftsMyBallsForHim]

Hot thread...I found some good instructional videos in here recently...
https://xhamster.com/videos/blowjob-tutorial-seminar-2433930

 

[midnightpanther]

Talked with him...he said i just kinda talk a lot during sexy times.

But I love that, makes it hotter

 

[LiftsMyBallsForHim]

I would never want to watch an instructional video on giving head ...well ...maybe if he likes it....really likes it....lick...

 

[queen_keira69]

I need some advice, my current bf says he likes getting head but seems....off put by it when i try it with him.

I wrote a story about it - maybe you can get some tips and inspiration out if it!

 

[apantyhoselovr]

I need some advice, my current bf says he likes getting head but seems....off put by it when i try it with him.

do it the way it turns you on, the way it makes you want to fuck.

 

[OlderMan64]

I need some advice, my current bf says he likes getting head but seems....off put by it when i try it with him.

Does he go down on you?
What would you give him out of ten?
If he is rubbish at that get a new BF

 

[sweetmature52]

I need some advice, my current bf says he likes getting head but seems....off put by it when i try it with him.

Question do you enjoy giving Bj? I would say keep trying, listen to his instructions. Depending on his size and your mouth size, maybe start when his is smaller or semi size and lick and stuck him. When fully hard work top part, also use your hand and stroke gently. Let's say bj is something you don't do well, we all have other qualities we do very well. No two people are the same. IF for example, you broke up with him, another man for example might think you're amazing at giving bj. Remember there is more to a relationship then worrying about how could is bj.

 

[Britva415]

listen to his instructions

It didn't sound like he gave any. Just attitude.

 

[EmilyMiller]

I still think advice from straight men on giving BJs is deeply ironic

 

[Kat_Galore]

Enact a yawning action as you do it - it opens your mouth ( and throat later when/if you are more confident) and allows your partner full access to enjoy the sensations. Best to discuss this with him first, just so you can both agree the go/no go things. This is not an exhaustive set of advice btw lol

 

[Britva415]

I still think advice from straight men on giving BJs is deeply ironic

 

[Britva415]

 

[Emma_O]

My experience is most guys are so delighted at the thought that a woman wants to blow them that they are not awarding points for artistic impression and technical difficulty.

LOL. Indeed.

 

[Emma_O]

I still think advice from straight men on giving BJs is deeply ironic

I'm wondering why? I'm wondering, if the genders were reversed, would you also find it ironic for a straight woman to offer some thoughts or advice on performing cunnilingus?

 

[EmilyMiller]

I'm wondering why? I'm wondering, if the genders were reversed, would you also find it ironic for a straight woman to offer some thoughts or advice on performing cunnilingus?

The cishet manly men of Literotica are among the most alpha on the internet. Of course they aren’t basing their practical advice on personal experience of giving, rather than receiving. Heaven forfend .

 

[Emma_O]

The cishet manly men of Literotica are among the most alpha on the internet. Of course they aren’t basing their practical advice on personal experience of giving, rather than receiving. Heaven forfend .

So, you think an "alpha" male wouldn't have any good advice, or tips & tricks, on what men like (or don't like) in a blow job? Just cishet males that aren't "alpha" might have some valuable input?

You didn't answer my second question. Again: "If the genders were reversed, would you also find it ironic for a straight woman to offer some thoughts or advice on performing cunnilingus?"

 

[EmilyMiller]

So, you think an "alpha" male wouldn't have any good advice, or tips & tricks, on what men like (or don't like) in a blow job? Just cishet males that aren't "alpha" might have some valuable input?

You didn't answer my second question. Again: "If the genders were reversed, would you also find it ironic for a straight woman to offer some thoughts or advice on performing cunnilingus?"

No real interest in internet drama today. Not my fault if people don’t have a sense of humor.

 

[Emma_O]

"...Not my fault if people don’t have a sense of humor..."

Your saying I don't have a sense of humor? Quite the contrary. And I find irony in particular quite entertaining.

My question was out of genuine curiousity. I didn't see the irony. It was as if you thought only women were qualified to comment on giving a good blow job. I see it as more the opposite. Asking men what they like (or don't like) in a blow job would be like going "direct to the source". I mean really, who would be more qualified to respond?

Oh well. (shrug) Que sera.

 

[Wonderer67]

I think a good old conversation about it. And being candid and vulnerable for both of you.

Asking him what feels good. What he likes.

And then a nice session… trial and error.

My wife was not very good at giving head. But over time is excellent at it.

Same with handjobs. She is amazing now.

And the reverse is true, not only with oral but with anything else. She will tell me what she wants and needs. She has a super sensitive clit, so i have to be very careful when going down on her.

I’m sure I was pretty clumsy going down on her in the beginning but now I know what she wants or needs or she will tell me “more there” “I’m close” “fuck yeah” or if I am too close or too rough on her sensitive clit I will feel her recoil a bit.

We have a good communication dynamic in all things sexual and otherwise so I never feel afraid to be vocal abt what feels good and she doesn’t either.

 

[aurally]

I go back to the enthusiasm comments. IF he said you just talk a lot, you should think about talking about something different, something that expresses your enthusiasm for sucking his cock. It's possible he'd get turned on by you asking if you could suck it, and when he responds lukewarmly, you can start asking pretty please, and basically begging him for it in your sexiest voice. I'm betting that will work. It's working on me rn

 

[T_2K_59]

Hot thread...I found some good instructional videos in here recently...
https://xhamster.com/videos/blowjob-tutorial-seminar-2433930

Great tutorial! I was going to ask here because I might be getting the opportunity to scukoff an older guy soon, and it's been a minute since I've sucked another guys cock (ok, years) and I want to plese him, but don't want to be like a porn movie. I want to hear him moan and squirm with pleasure until he releases. Thanks again for this link!

 

[tristantrotsky]

Suck... and swallow!

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Reading some of these posts - I can’t imagine suggesting that men who like receiving blow jobs would be a poor choice of person to give advice to someone wanting to improve at giving blow jobs.

 

[Primalex]

No real interest in internet drama today. Not my fault if people don’t have a sense of humor.

"It was just a joke!"

I think I have heard that one before - often when people don't laugh.

 

[Primalex]

As my dick is connected to my brain, I can feel the difference whether a tongue is running over my frenulum or not and whether hands are massaging my balls or not. Strange, hu?

So my short personal advice is that the biggest fault that is done when giving head, is to limit the thinking on "lips on dick", while an amazing experience requires a holistic approach.