Guy Curious but Uneasy about bj

All i think about is sucking cock for the first time and meeting guys on here is great way to fantasize about it happening, but when it comes down to it there is just so many complications. the world would be a great place if i could meet a guy on here suck his cock a few times and call it a day
 
its not that complicated

its not that complicated, it is really not. post an ad on craigslist and interview some guys. other guys are looking for this first time experience too.....

It is the start is the most difficult.
 
This might sound like crazy talk to some of you...but why not ask a friend about it. My best friend and I suck each other off monthly now because I had the nerve to just tell him I wanted to and found out he had always wanted to do it as well. Nothing ventured, nothing gained! I knew his sexual history and him mine, so there was no worry about STI's.
 
This might sound like crazy talk to some of you...but why not ask a friend about it. My best friend and I suck each other off monthly now because I had the nerve to just tell him I wanted to and found out he had always wanted to do it as well. Nothing ventured, nothing gained! I knew his sexual history and him mine, so there was no worry about STI's.

Glad that worked out for you. I could not say that to any of my friends for "down low" reasons. I would not want this to be common knowledge bout me.
 
Like most guys who post here I'm not attracted to the male body. I cannot look at a guy walking down the street and think hes hot...just doesn't work that way for me. I am attracted to cocks. I have no desire to kiss, cuddle, or even have anal sex with a man but I do have these strong urges to suck cock.

My cock sucking urges are cyclical. Right now they are running high. When I get in this mood the urge to give a guy head almost becomes obsessional. When these urges strike I usually post a married for married ad on Craigs List. Then I sit back and sort the BS responses from the ones that sound real. This time only three out of the many responses I received seemed to be legit...from married guys only interested in cock play. We swapped numerous emails yesterday...planning to meet, discussing schedules etc... Then today...nothing. It's like they vanished. I think allot of married guys use Craigs List for real time J/O fodder and have no intention of following through. I get plenty of responses from Craigs List regulars...I can't do quickie instant hook-up sex. Maybe if I wasn't married but since I am and my wife would probably cut my balls off if I gave her an STD I refrain from activity with guys whom I assess as promiscuous.

I have had one prior experience, that was about four years ago. I met the guy through a Yahoo group. We exchanged a month's worth of emails before I agreed to meet him. I was nervous as hell but glad I went. I did not suck him to completion...which I regret. I found the "what ifs" creeping into my brain as I was bobbing up and down on his dick. What if he lied and he's got every STD known to man...What if he cums in my mouth and I barf on his lap....What if, What if, What if. So many "what if's that I stopped sucking and finished him by hand.

So...here I go again, looking for the "right guy" to become my friend with benefits. A guy I can go to a ball game with, or a concert, or fishing, or whatever and then suck his cock without any "what ifs" or worries.
 
I pretty much feel like this dude who started this post. I was turned on by it for a few years and finally said fuck it one night and met a dude online. I actually liked having the cock in my mouth, and when I got home I wanted more but for many days thereafter I was like oh shit what have I done? I was paranoid I had contracted some disease, then I started reading about things, and realized I had to wait a few months to be tested and then got tested and was clean, but for a few months I felt pretty lousy. I would like to do it with someone I felt absolutely safe with.
 
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