Guy Curious but Uneasy about bj

[darkknight2007]

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[larrycando]

bump

this thread should be re-read!!

 

[KING61A]

Sorry for adding the quote, but I wanted to be able to see your post as I replied, and this seemed to be the only way.

I'm in a similar situation.... I'm dying to try it. Even have a friend picked out who seems the most likely candidate. I think he's ready to give it a go, but neither of us seems ready to actually say it out loud. We just keep saying things to each other that could be taken more than one way.

Rest assured though.... if he doesn't go soft when you put him in your mouth, he's just as into it as you are.

Damn. Almost makes me wish you and I could get together just to finally make it happen!

Would you cum in my mouth, or on my face?

I am basically a straight guy in my fifties. A couple months ago I was really horny and had recently broke up w/my gf of 2 years. So I went to Craigslist to check out the MM ads. I met a guy my age who was a CD. We talked on the phone a couple times so I invited him to my place. It had been 30+years since I had been with a man. Tho since 2004 I have been enjoying solo anal sex. And towards the end of our relationship my gf had started giving me anal. Banging me while we 69'ed I almost lost it it felt soooo fuckin' good. Twice I got her to fuck me w/my toys and the second session was quite pleasurable for me. Now back to the guy. We talked and I told him I wasn't into kissing a guy. He was in his CD outfit and tho he wasn't passable he still looked pretty hot. As we touched and fondled each other we did kiss and I could not believe how erotic it was for me. He was a great kisser and as we sucked each others tongues I got a raging hardon so we moved to my bed. He went down on me and rimmed me and IT WAS GOOD! I played w/his sweet cock and sucked it into my mouth. The skin of his cock head was incredibly smooth and soft even as his cock got hard from my sucking and tonguing. It was the first time in over 30 years I had a cock in my mouth and I LOVED IT!! I only sucked him for a few minutes cuz he told me to stop cuz he wanted to suck me. And boy howdy did he suck me!! He was really into it and sucked me off to a shattering orgasm and he swallowed my entire load! He had me squirming and moaning and as I came I screamed out I LOVE YOU!!! We fell asleep in each others arms and I took him to breakfast the next morning. I haven't seen him since but think about him often. Despite or because of my religious upbringing (homoness is a sin) I decided to GO FOR IT!! It took me awhile to work it out for myself (the guilt trip and all). Tho I consider myself straight I now know I am at least somewhat bi. I have always found some men attractive now and then and wondered what their cock would be like. I would say go for it. Most of my regrets in my life was the things I wanted to do but didn't cuz I was chicken. I would say trust your gut feelings find someone you think you can trust and go with your feelings. Peace

 

[KING61A]

Just Doooooooooo It!!!

 

[Bill3250]

I originally never thouht about it, until I had a drunk experience with a gay friend of mine. We did some 69 and came on each other chests and I actually loved it. We have done it a few more times over the last few years if we are bored and the opportunity arises, and I've taken his load a few times now. My advice is just to try it and think of it as a way to have fun. I'm almost 23 just to keep up with the age theme. I'm not sure if this is something I'll still be interested in years from now. Relationship wise I am only interested in girls, but I don't mind sucking a cock now and again.

Great cock! I'd love to suck it again and again and again!

 

[Runner_3]

Let me throw my name on the list as a straight guy that has thought about this. I'm curious and have talked to my SO other about it some. She itsnt sure how she would feel about guy-guy stuff. Her best friend loves guy-guy stuff and wants to get together with me and my gf for a 4some and she wants me and her bf to do stuff. I'm for it. Ive thought about sucking a dick for awhile now and having mine sucked and having my ass fucked. I think it would be hot to suck a cock with my gf, take turns sharing it. I've nervous about it and donno where to begin to seek out a guy to try this with. I like thinking about it but not sure if I could actually go through with it.

 

[irishff]

Hey Webber

What part of MD are you from Webber?? MAybe we can arrange some practice!!!

I'm in need of a little practice myself.

 

[webber1998]

What part of MD are you from Webber?? MAybe we can arrange some practice!!!

Would love some extra practice.

North Central is where I live.... but all over MD for work.

 

[deyv]

my two cents

the first time I sucked cock I was sooo nervous, even though he knew that it was my first time, that my hands were shaking when I knocked on the door. (we met online). But I did it and discovered that I enjoyed it a lot.

That was about 7 years ago and I've only sucked a few others since, (I have to be completely comfortable with the situation). The last time being in an MFM situation and OMG!!!! Watching them sharing my cock and me sharing his cock with her was the most erotic encounter that I've ever experienced in my life.

 

[larrycando]

That is so what I have been up to lately.

the first time I sucked cock I was sooo nervous, even though he knew that it was my first time, that my hands were shaking when I knocked on the door. (we met online). But I did it and discovered that I enjoyed it a lot.

That was about 7 years ago and I've only sucked a few others since, (I have to be completely comfortable with the situation). The last time being in an MFM situation and OMG!!!! Watching them sharing my cock and me sharing his cock with her was the most erotic encounter that I've ever experienced in my life.

 

[discreethopeful]

yes, go for it

I agree with most of the others,,go for it. I had my first and only good MM experiance 30 years ago. Now later in my life I want to try and find that same feeling again. I was not that good at giving head and didn't get him off. He was the one who also took my cherry then. I want to find both again and can't find a partner. So don't what to long or you might find you missed out on what you want.

 

[indianabicurous]

I'm 25, and planning on sucking my first cock in about twelve hours. I'm so fucking excited, I met the guy online and we've talked for a while. I'm of the "cock and nothing else" mentality, so I really wasn't too enthusiastic til he sent me some shots of his cock. Unless my mindset changes between now and then (which is ENTIRELY possible given the situation ) it'll just be me sucking him and leaving.
I've swallowed my own cum before and didn't really like the taste. it's almost bleachy-tasting, but I don't eat as well as I could. For some reason though, I'm so ready for his cock to swell in my mouth and spurt his thick load in my mouth. I hope to show him his creamy load and then guzzle it down...wow. I get so hard thinking about it, but I don't want him to return the favor...not sure why that is.

just needed to share my feeling about this with someone

 

[almasy7292]

That's so very hot Indiana. Good luck. Would like to try that myself some time.

 

[CNYCarol]

Go for it and stop worrying. We girls have been sucking you off for years.

 

[tonethebone]

Go for it and stop worrying. We girls have been sucking you off for years.

LOL, and doing a damn fine job too

I also say go for it. I was curious for years. But thanks to a close long time friend who was also curious. We both discovered how much fun it is. Only wish I'd done it a lot sooner.

 

[Bill3250]

I'm otherwise a straight guy in my 30s but have developed a strong fascination about the thought of sucking another guy's cock and having him cum in my mouth and/or my face. The feelings are quite strong and have started to lead me to seek out possible opporturites for doing his. But, on the the other hand, I'm incredibly nervous about this and have chickened out the couple of times I've got close to doing this. I'm worried about how I'll feel about myself afterward if I go through with it. Will the sense of awkwardness and perhaps even guilt outweight the short-lived buzz that I may get from the expierence? I also find myself worrying about what the other guy would think about me as I would be sucking him. Would he think I'm odd for wanting to do this? I tell myself that he wouldn't be there if he weren't into it. But, I still can't help worrying about this.

Does anybody else have mixed emotions like this? Have anybody got past them?

First, I doubt if the guy who his having cock sucked is going to be thinking about much other than the pleasure he is feeling as your lips slide up and down on his cock. I couldn't beging count the number of cocks I have pleased and have enjoyed draining of their delicious cum and not once do I remember wondering what he might think about afterward. Nearly every guy who has had the pleasure of coming ing my mouth has come back for more.

As far as feeling guilt after sucking cock: the only times I have ever felt guilty (really disapointed in myself) were the times I would have had sex of any form and passed on it. And the pleasure, the satisfaction of enjoying a hard cock thrusting down your throat and then filling your mouth with thick hot cum should remain with you a long time. For me I use the memories to excite me when I jerk off. In fact right now I am typing with my left hand while stroking my cock with my right and remembering some of the cocks I have sucked. It's a great way to pass the time when your mate is away.

 

[larrycando]

been too long

we need to bump this thread....

 

[jshawk52]

LOL, and doing a damn fine job too

I also say go for it. I was curious for years. But thanks to a close long time friend who was also curious. We both discovered how much fun it is. Only wish I'd done it a lot sooner.

There are a lot of us like this. Once a guy gets past the 'forbidden' thing, it's very enjoyable and satisfying

 

[lianli2]

Hi, I'm in in college and I guess I'm going throw an experimental stage, I try to tell myself that anyway. Well I've developed a fascination with cock. It started with shamales and since they seem so rare I just want to try a cock on a guy. I've eaten my own load before and I loved it. I'm dying for my first time but I'm nervous where to start.

 

[HardNightDay]

I'm otherwise a straight guy in my 30s but have developed a strong fascination about the thought of sucking another guy's cock and having him cum in my mouth and/or my face. The feelings are quite strong and have started to lead me to seek out possible opporturites for doing his. But, on the the other hand, I'm incredibly nervous about this and have chickened out the couple of times I've got close to doing this. I'm worried about how I'll feel about myself afterward if I go through with it. Will the sense of awkwardness and perhaps even guilt outweight the short-lived buzz that I may get from the expierence? I also find myself worrying about what the other guy would think about me as I would be sucking him. Would he think I'm odd for wanting to do this? I tell myself that he wouldn't be there if he weren't into it. But, I still can't help worrying about this.

Does anybody else have mixed emotions like this? Have anybody got past them?

Lots of guys have developed curiosities at some point. I've been through what your're feeling. SOme thoughts...

1. Don't worry about labeling yourself as straight, bi, whatever. If you're unattached and free to explore, do it.
2. The "shame" some people feel attached to homosexuality is because they allow the judgments of others to effect them. You have to be your own judge as to how much this will impact you. I mean if you think about it, it's no one's business but you and the guy you're with.
3. Some people (like myself) do feel awkward afterward if they hook up with someone only because they are an available cock to suck. If you really want it to be enjoyable, take the time to make sure its someone you're really attracted to and find likeable as a person, i.e. they aren't just a piece of meat.
4. I have never worried about the person I'm with judging me. If they're going to let me suck them and then they're going to get all weird on me...that's just F-ed up! What's more important is why you are thinking about this. Do you feel that society is judging you? Do you actually WANT them to judge you because some part of that turns you on? I'm not suggesting you feel that way, I'm only curious.

 

[Mastersall]

Relax and go with what you want to do. In the long run no one gives a damn!

 

[bi_asian_guy]

*****

 

[kingkhan1]

Lately this all I have been thinking about. When I go to sleep I dream of sucking on a big cut dick and having it spurt all in my mouth. I get so hard thinking about I just don't know how to go about it. The only time I did it is with someone I met online but, he did not cum in my mouth. The day after I got so guilty and I had severe anxiety.But, I cant stop thinking of cock I just want to suck the shit out of one. When I see guys in real life I get kind of repulsed of the idea I am only attracted to dick. Maybe I need a girl to be their with me and suck with me so I know its safe. And I do not know why I am so afraid.

 

[In Anticipation]

Lately this all I have been thinking about. When I go to sleep I dream of sucking on a big cut dick and having it spurt all in my mouth. I get so hard thinking about I just don't know how to go about it. The only time I did it is with someone I met online but, he did not cum in my mouth. The day after I got so guilty and I had severe anxiety.But, I cant stop thinking of cock I just want to suck the shit out of one. When I see guys in real life I get kind of repulsed of the idea I am only attracted to dick. Maybe I need a girl to be their with me and suck with me so I know its safe. And I do not know why I am so afraid.

I think you probably do need the girl there to give it purpose in your mind. I feel the same way.

 

[Curioustallis]

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