Guy Curious but Uneasy about bj

my gf and i fantasize about this all the time and it gets us off over and over.....just not sure where to find the right guy
 
I think I am slowly becoming of getting addicted to cock. Today with my j/o buddy I laid on top of him and rubbed my cock against his until I blew a big load on his chest. I am going to have to suck him off one of these days. But, my advice for bi curious guys start off slow by just j/o with a guy then progress to sucking but, I have to warn you may become a cock addict like me even if you still like women like I do.
 
starting is so hard

The only good thing about wanting to suck a cock is that there are sooo many willing men out there to let you try it out. A lot them, as I've found, are like you and want to keep everything discrete and clean. I'm married and haven't actually met with anyone. Instead I've done some mutual jerk off's with a guy online over web cams. Although it doesn't get rid of the urge to suck cock it does calm some of my nerves. One day I'd like to live out my fantasy of sucking a cock and having the guy talk nasty to me before blowing his load over my face but I guess I'm just a chicken in the end. Good luck to anyone who wishes to see it through.
 
I think I am slowly becoming of getting addicted to cock. Today with my j/o buddy I laid on top of him and rubbed my cock against his until I blew a big load on his chest. I am going to have to suck him off one of these days. But, my advice for bi curious guys start off slow by just j/o with a guy then progress to sucking but, I have to warn you may become a cock addict like me even if you still like women like I do.

I know the feeling well . . .
 
Man the feeling for cock is intense it would be easier if my intensity for the rest of the guy was as intense as my desire for cock. But, I just don't find the face or body of a guy to be visually attractive. I do love the feeling of another body next to mine and am still getting hard about when I rub my dick against my j/o dick man do I need to suck some dick.

But, one thing that makes me uneasy about giving a bj is I am still attracted to women like when I see a hot women I still get turned on and I love flirting with them but, I have this desire for cock and I do not want to end up in a relationship with a women and desiring cock but, never being able to satisfy this craving becuase, I could never cheat.
 
My wife and I would love to find someone to join us. Either sex woud be great. Wife has had many girl on girl experiences. I have yet to have a M2M experience. We have a problem I think a lot of people deal with in this area. There is still such a stigma about this that it makes finding a discrete person very important. We have played with a strapon and I enjoy that quite a bit.

I have a friend who I have often wondered about. He is a very close friend and the risk of losing him outweighs the chance for us to hookup.

I hope that someday soon we can find the right person/couple for this. I am not getting any younger at 38 YO.
 
if anyone is

around the n.j. area and needs to feel what a blow job is like contact me
and I'll service you. no charge. mature MWM. great for curious str8 guys
 
Wow!

Don't know if the internet is the cure or the cause of half my kinks/problems but it certainly is enlightening!

WOW, how many blokes are in the same boat here?

I've occassionally had the suckcock fantasy creap into my mind, usually bash it away but once or twice have wacked off to the concept and came hard!

Ah well, see wot happens.

Good info on the STD statistics etc, NSW especially! Bad.
I heard of a guy that met someone on the net and contracted Ghonorreah (spelling) of the THROAT! Fark, that is about the grosest thing I've ever heard
 
scared too.

I too want to suck cock. My wife gets turned on when I talk about it. Scared of getting diseases and embarrassed if friends found out. We have had ffm experiences before, that was great. It would be nice to give her two guys for a change. Not sure if that will happen. But it is nice to bring it into the bed for excitement.
 
like wise

I'm otherwise a straight guy in my 30s but have developed a strong fascination about the thought of sucking another guy's cock and having him cum in my mouth and/or my face. The feelings are quite strong and have started to lead me to seek out possible opporturites for doing his. But, on the the other hand, I'm incredibly nervous about this and have chickened out the couple of times I've got close to doing this. I'm worried about how I'll feel about myself afterward if I go through with it. Will the sense of awkwardness and perhaps even guilt outweight the short-lived buzz that I may get from the expierence? I also find myself worrying about what the other guy would think about me as I would be sucking him. Would he think I'm odd for wanting to do this? I tell myself that he wouldn't be there if he weren't into it. But, I still can't help worrying about this.

Does anybody else have mixed emotions like this? Have anybody got past them?

the thought is a very common one, (by the replies) and i also am sitting on the fence, and the urge to suck cock and being sucked by some one you can trust, is a part of my everyday fantasies.
 
I'm otherwise a straight guy in my 30s but have developed a strong fascination about the thought of sucking another guy's cock and having him cum in my mouth and/or my face. The feelings are quite strong and have started to lead me to seek out possible opporturites for doing his. But, on the the other hand, I'm incredibly nervous about this and have chickened out the couple of times I've got close to doing this. I'm worried about how I'll feel about myself afterward if I go through with it. Will the sense of awkwardness and perhaps even guilt outweight the short-lived buzz that I may get from the expierence? I also find myself worrying about what the other guy would think about me as I would be sucking him. Would he think I'm odd for wanting to do this? I tell myself that he wouldn't be there if he weren't into it. But, I still can't help worrying about this.

Does anybody else have mixed emotions like this? Have anybody got past them?

I'd imagine every guy has such feelings, but after a while you manage to relax and enjoy the great sensations of a cock in your mouth, thrusting between your lips and into your throat. Then when he comes, the thick, starchy jets of cum spurting into your mouth as his cock jerks your lips wider. God! Who gives a damn about any thing else at such a time!
 
Same Here

It seems there are a lot of us with the same urges. My fear is being "outed" after meeting up with someone and finally trying it for the first time. Or worse yet answering an ad just to find out it was placed by someone with ill intent.
 
It seems there are a lot of us with the same urges. My fear is being "outed" after meeting up with someone and finally trying it for the first time. Or worse yet answering an ad just to find out it was placed by someone with ill intent.

That sound like me, too. Still trying to work up the courage to explore my curiosity. BTW, is you name a pseudo-latin version of "stalled curiosity"?
 
It seems there are a lot of us with the same urges. My fear is being "outed" after meeting up with someone and finally trying it for the first time. Or worse yet answering an ad just to find out it was placed by someone with ill intent.

Add the whole STD issue and you have just named my top three worries about actually trying this.
 
Im the opposite to a previous post my wife would be disgusted if she knew I wanted to suck cock. Buy I still intend to do it, its just about being cautious about whos cock i suck, and discretion is the important part, apart from the obvious ddf part
 
Wanting to try

I can't believe that so many guys are in the same fix as I find myself. And the same questions. Want to try but who, when, WHERE, etc. I've been talking to a couple of guys on the net but I'll have to become real comfortable before meeting and committing to anything. I want to start with mutual stroking and maybe graduate to oral later. Anal is out of the question. The shots of guys in panties and such does turn me on more than I thought they would. I guess the thing is to just surrender and find out once and for all. Know anyone in the TX Panhandle?
 
It seems there are a lot of us with the same urges. My fear is being "outed" after meeting up with someone and finally trying it for the first time. Or worse yet answering an ad just to find out it was placed by someone with ill intent.

Lol...I feel like I wrote that!
 
I've wanted to do it and have it done to me for years now but the intangibles/potential consequences get the better of me everytime. Many times when I am fucking my Wife I tell her how much I would love for us both to be sucking and licking a nice warm cock.
 
I can't believe that so many guys are in the same fix as I find myself. And the same questions. Want to try but who, when, WHERE, etc. I've been talking to a couple of guys on the net but I'll have to become real comfortable before meeting and committing to anything. I want to start with mutual stroking and maybe graduate to oral later. Anal is out of the question. The shots of guys in panties and such does turn me on more than I thought they would. I guess the thing is to just surrender and find out once and for all. Know anyone in the TX Panhandle?

I suggest you jump in and try it all. Just because you get with a dude doesnt mean you have to go through with everything. Try it if you enjoy it go to step two. Just
let it happen. Relax and if you hate it , split !
 
sucking cock

i think of it all the time now. the taste, the feel of a pulsing organ ojn my lips, teasing me, then the swelling as it grows before exploding. nervbous yes but the day is cumming soon that i enjoy such
 
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