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My mom just called to tell me that her boyfriend of two weeks proposed, and she said yes. This is the WORST IDEA EVER. I am trying to be supportive. I love my mom. I know she's been lonely. But... WHAT THE HELL?????????

And.... AND!!!! Instead of getting married at MY WEDDING (which I fucking flipped out over when she suggested it because... aaaaaaaaaaahy!) She's going to get married ON MY BIRTHDAY INSTEAD! Because that's SO MUCH BETTER!!!!!!!!

I am going to drink myself into oblivian at the New Year's Party tonight.
 
My mom just called to tell me that her boyfriend of two weeks proposed, and she said yes. This is the WORST IDEA EVER. I am trying to be supportive. I love my mom. I know she's been lonely. But... WHAT THE HELL?????????

And.... AND!!!! Instead of getting married at MY WEDDING (which I fucking flipped out over when she suggested it because... aaaaaaaaaaahy!) She's going to get married ON MY BIRTHDAY INSTEAD! Because that's SO MUCH BETTER!!!!!!!!

I am going to drink myself into oblivian at the New Year's Party tonight.

Ouch, I don't blame you....maybe she'll realise tis not a good idea when she is less excited..............and we all need to have a tantrum at times and as someone with wedding plans you are entitled to have as many as you need.............weddings should be so fab and yet there's always so much stress. :rose:
 
Ouch, I don't blame you....maybe she'll realise tis not a good idea when she is less excited..............and we all need to have a tantrum at times and as someone with wedding plans you are entitled to have as many as you need.............weddings should be so fab and yet there's always so much stress. :rose:

Here's the thing. She's dated him two weeks. They are both mentally ill. He is much younger than her. She hasn't been in a relationship in a decade, because a decade ago she realized that she isn't healthy enough to maintain a healthy relationship. Once they get married, she will lose about half of her disability and social security benefits.

I know she's been lonely. I know that they like each other. But that's not a good reason to get married, is it? On the one hand, I feel like she is being completely unreasonable and jumping into something that she really shouldn't. On the other hand, I feel like I'm just being a brat.
 
Here's the thing. She's dated him two weeks. They are both mentally ill. He is much younger than her. She hasn't been in a relationship in a decade, because a decade ago she realized that she isn't healthy enough to maintain a healthy relationship. Once they get married, she will lose about half of her disability and social security benefits.

I know she's been lonely. I know that they like each other. But that's not a good reason to get married, is it? On the one hand, I feel like she is being completely unreasonable and jumping into something that she really shouldn't. On the other hand, I feel like I'm just being a brat.

You are so not being a brat.............you are considerate and loving and concerned. She is lucky to have you.............maybe New Year and loneliness have got the better of her...............concentrate on you tonight, she will be there to talk to tomorrow *hugs you* :kiss:

Between you and me I often have a foot stamping session...........helps no end with giving me a sore foot and slightly fewer frustrations ;)
 
You are so not being a brat.............you are considerate and loving and concerned. She is lucky to have you.............maybe New Year and loneliness have got the better of her...............concentrate on you tonight, she will be there to talk to tomorrow *hugs you* :kiss:

Between you and me I often have a foot stamping session...........helps no end with giving me a sore foot and slightly fewer frustrations ;)

**Hugs** Thank you. I feel better after venting a little bit. I need to go get ready for our party. I hope that you have a wonderful New Year's Eve. You're awesome (and your AV is hot).

:kiss::kiss::kiss::kiss::kiss:
 
**Hugs** Thank you. I feel better after venting a little bit. I need to go get ready for our party. I hope that you have a wonderful New Year's Eve. You're awesome (and your AV is hot).

:kiss::kiss::kiss::kiss::kiss:

Have a wonderful time....................I'll sit on NB watch, I just hope he comes back, my bottom is going to sleep ;)
 
Well right now I'm wishing for a bit of Nightbird, so if I wish a bit harder it might come true ;)

You know he was here a couple of hours ago and wanted me to go to my rooftop! Silly bird! Now that I think about it, I wonder if he was going to meet me there! ;)
 
You know he was here a couple of hours ago and wanted me to go to my rooftop! Silly bird! Now that I think about it, I wonder if he was going to meet me there! ;)

Swoop in and carry you off ;)

I think he has the place set up with Morri detectors *sigh* either that or we can never be seen in the same place at the same time :eek:
 
Swoop in and carry you off ;)

I think he has the place set up with Morri detectors *sigh* either that or we can never be seen in the same place at the same time :eek:

Usually, the Patty detectors are going off....

I hear helicopters flying around my building... I wonder if the Canadian Air Force is allowed in NYC restricted airspace! ;)
 
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