How’s your married sex life?

[LizVegas79]

I need a bi gf to have weekday play time with. That is awesome.

I'd love my wife to find one too! Keep the fire burning 24/7

I don't know about keeping the fire burning (I'm half Latina so it's always burning lol) but my special weekday visits definitely light some kind of spark because my husband can almost always tell whenever I've had a special visit from my (other lol) special friend. "So ... I'm guessing Kim came by today while I was at work?"

 

[Mtnmike]

Extinct

 

[stiv837]

What's a sex life ?

 

[bimwiguy1963]

We have hallway sex daily.

 

[Trubbycat]

My what…?

 

[Polranny]

Non existent

 

[Ray Roberts]

Been together 45 years, used to have sex 10 to 15 times a week, now we are 81 & 71 and we don't have sex. Everything was OK until I hit 78 then diagnosed with enlarged prostate and the medication I have to take is known to cause lack of libido, such a shame. I have told the wife to find a stud but she has no interest, yet she is still a sexy woman, so guys use it whilst you can cause you never know when bad health can collapse one of the best rewards we have which cums naturally - until it doesn't! Cheers Ray

 

[curiouschattycouple]

Both late 30s, a bunch of kids, jobs etc and at least 3 times a week, with bonus rounds on weekends. It's not perfect but when one is up early and gone and the other works late, it's hard to make time together. It's hotter now than than nearly 20yrs ago when we met.

 

[Filipinawife]

My husbands job takes him away a lot which is frustrating. When he’s here we make love most days.

 

[Wld1936]

What sex Life. Sexless relationship

 

[MikeLucas]

Ok question for you all. Have you ever gone on a “sex date” with your significant other? Like hire a babysitter and head to a hotel for sex instead of the typical dinner and show date. Does anyone schedule intimacy?

 

[MileHighBlackDiamond]

Ok question for you all. Have you ever gone on a “sex date” with your significant other? Like hire a babysitter and head to a hotel for sex instead of the typical dinner and show date. Does anyone schedule intimacy?

We don't, don't need to, have heard of others that do. Some say it has worked, some say it hasn't.

The concern - Schedule it and neither side want to feel obligated because it is "scheduled", you want that buildup to feel like the foreplay, excited to go, anticipation of what will occur. You want to encourage erotic moments that make you want to be intimate, whether that is sex or not.

We know some that go to our local swingers club due to the heightened erotic atmosphere, live porn if you will, not to be with others. Some play in private rooms, some enjoy the exhibitionism available to them, some get worked up and go home/hotel to enjoy each other. There is no set rules, everyone does it their own way.

Try scheduling, or talk about it, why not try? If it doesn't work, come back it from another angle. Communication is key, wants/needs of each couple, what works for them.

 

[hot hugo]

We’ve been trying to make an effort to do it more. This month has been great so far. I also have a friend that keeps me hot that helps to always have me in the mood.

How is it going with your friend m? Still having a GREAT time together regularly?

 

[SubtleJenna]

Ha. No comment.

 

[FunLi]

Ok question for you all. Have you ever gone on a “sex date” with your significant other? Like hire a babysitter and head to a hotel for sex instead of the typical dinner and show date. Does anyone schedule intimacy?

I’m seriously jealous of anyone that has a partner that’s all-in with this stuff, even if every time has to be ‘scheduled’ so to speak, home or not .

Since I’ve stopped initiating it’s been pretty nonexistent. Even when I did initiate, I wouldn’t hold my breath or anything as it resulted in more no’s than yes’ anyways.

 

[Mtnmike]

I’m seriously jealous of anyone that has a partner that’s all-in with this stuff, even if every time has to be ‘scheduled’ so to speak, home or not .

Since I’ve stopped initiating it’s been pretty nonexistent. Even when I did initiate, I wouldn’t hold my breath or anything as it resulted in more no’s than yes’ anyways.

Wow didn't realize you were married but you're right, i'm envious of couples that have this. Same with us, rarely a yes and since I quit initiating it's been nonexistent.
Sorry, you're much to young to be experiencing this.

 

[Polranny]

Wow didn't realize you were married bout you're right, i'm envious of couples that have this. Same with us, rarely a yes and since I quit initiating it's been nonexistent.
Sorry, you're much to young to be experiencing this.

Mike, our experiences are so similar.

 

[KentLondon]

Ok question for you all. Have you ever gone on a “sex date” with your significant other? Like hire a babysitter and head to a hotel for sex instead of the typical dinner and show date. Does anyone schedule intimacy?

Yes, nearly every week. Sometimes twice a week!
Married 42 years and both still working as we approach our 70s, so it's always a fun thing to plan in advance.
Even when we're both busy we keep the pot boiling through the week with little jokes and remarks about what we are going to do with each other at the weekend.
We don't often bother with hotels because we love our home but when you are both busy it's easy to forget to make time for romance.
This weekend we have cleared Sunday for our "Weekly Sex Marathon". Sometimes it will involve a meal out, or one of us cooking a special meal at home. As the years go by it gets easy to slob around at home in any old clothes so we always dress smartly on our date days or nights whether we go out or stay in. Making the effort for each other is a big part of it.
Often, we take one look at each other, forget about the meal and the smart clothes don't stay on for long! Kissing always has and still is a huge part of our love life, so lots of deep, passionate kissing will always get us in the mood as the clothes are strewn across the floor, whichever room we are in! We will then head for the bedroom and then the fun starts with me giving lots of oral to make sure she has multiple orgasms before it's my turn.
It may only last half an hour or so but the long cuddles afterwards are just as important. Lying in each other's arms is where we want to be.
You can't beat that lovely close feeling, sharing special moments with someone you love.
And it's a great way to forget about arthritis and joint pain from a lifetime playing sports!

 

[GregThickDix]

Me, 57, her 56. Married 28 years. Sex, pretty much when I initiate, and know her optimum enjoyment frequency, so we get after it probably 5x a month. Now, the exception is when we go on vacation, than I can pretty much get it every day, or night, or morning. Even got a bj. Now that is love.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

Both mid 50’s married 30+, had plenty when younger, then work, kids, the usual daily stressors that then produce the ebbs and flows of a typical marriage.

She went through a little sexual renaissance over the last 5-7 yrs that produced a noticeable uptick in frequency and variety. Due to a fight over sex around 10yrs ago, I started keeping a log on our trysts. On average over the last ten yrs it’s run about 35 - 45 times a year…

Until…menopause. Which hit with a vengeance last summer.

This has killed her desire, even though once she gets cranked up, she’s good to go. It’s just getting her head in the game that I’m finding troubling now. So now (last six to eight months) it’s once on Sat night. Since I’m gone half the month it looks like this will be a 12er, maybe a tad more if I’m lucky.

As GregThcDix said above, if on vacation w/o kids and responsibilities, she’ll make the effort every day.

I can’t complain I guess. I’ve spoken with a few of our members who are in the same boat, and it definitely sucks to be sure.

 

[13Fantasies]

Imaginary

 

[Mercury_Maniac]

Haven't had sex in 6 years now.


Needless to say it's dead

 

[Sojourner47]

See above.

 

[Illinoisguy1980]

Non existent

 

[saintcero]

She wants cock twice a week. She initiates each session. All that pussy gets in the way of my Literotica jack off time.