How’s your married sex life?

[Chillygirl]

You think?? I'm sorry if a woman actually wanted to avoid a " dryspell " I truly believe it can be avoided unlike men who has less say in the matter.

It all depends on how picky said woman is perhaps? From what I've seen of you ummm I'm sure your dryspell wouldn't be more than a few hours but that's up to you!

Not technically divorced yet…should take about a year. I live in a small town where everyone knows everything. I’m waiting somewhat patiently til I’m completely free and clear.

 

[Strixaluco]

Not technically divorced yet…should take about a year. I live in a small town where everyone knows everything. I’m waiting somewhat patiently til I’m completely free and clear.

I can understand that. I lived on the countryside and there dating too soon after my husband's death would have caused quite some talking.

 

[One_ping_only]

Not technically divorced yet…should take about a year. I live in a small town where everyone knows everything. I’m waiting somewhat patiently til I’m completely free and clear.

Understandable and very admirable to patiently wait to be " free and clear ".

I'm certain you'll find ways to help you remain patient. Technology and the internet nowadays and oh LIT here will be of some assistance I'm sure! Best wishes!!

 

[Cat]

Infrequent and rare.
Married for 11 years.
2 kids.
- He lost the desire for sex.

 

[Leglover1234]

3 years x 0 times a year

 

[Strixaluco]

Infrequent and rare.
Married for 11 years.
2 kids.
- He lost the desire for sex.

That's sad. Any hope of rekindling it?

 

[Cat]

That's sad. Any hope of rekindling it?

I do not know... It is an odd thing.
We were rather.. uhm.. active in the beginning (7 hours sex marathon was not uncommon! Or sex in crazy places ).

But... With time, he just.. lost all interest in sex.

We are truly good parents together! We compliment eachother really well, and he got this.. need to take care of me, and pamper me.
Just.. no sex...

Only if I truly, truly beg.. but.. then I feel like a chore on his list.. And, that kinda sucks.

So.. I have my toys!!

 

[Strixaluco]

I do not know... It is an odd thing.
We were rather.. uhm.. active in the beginning (7 hours sex marathon was not uncommon! Or sex in crazy places ).

But... With time, he just.. lost all interest in sex.

We are truly good parents together! We compliment eachother really well, and he got this.. need to take care of me, and pamper me.
Just.. no sex...

Only if I truly, truly beg.. but.. then I feel like a chore on his list.. And, that kinda sucks.

So.. I have my toys!!

I mean... That makes me think could it be health-connected?

Like some hormone imbalance or something. Something subtle enough to only be noticeable in sex.

 

[ffdan]

Married sex life? Is that an oxymoron?

 

[Purple_Fronds]

Married over 20 years we‘re both 50ish, kids in their late teens. Over the years her sex drive sunk very low and she became completely uninterested in the kinky side which sucks because she was the one I had felt I could and was really open with.

Also until recently I hadn’t realized how high my sex drive was and it still shows no signs of diminishing. We both continue to try and we’re back to maybe once every few weeks, but completely vanilla (still good) I try and manage my disappointment and take care of my needs solo, sometimes with her holding me which feels nice and stops me going crazy. We have a really happy life this is just the one thing, just feels lonely sometimes.

 

[13Fantasies]

I do not know... It is an odd thing.
We were rather.. uhm.. active in the beginning (7 hours sex marathon was not uncommon! Or sex in crazy places ).

But... With time, he just.. lost all interest in sex.

We are truly good parents together! We compliment eachother really well, and he got this.. need to take care of me, and pamper me.
Just.. no sex...

Only if I truly, truly beg.. but.. then I feel like a chore on his list.. And, that kinda sucks.

So.. I have my toys!!

Same overall.

Although begging gets me nowhere. Going on five years

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

I do not know... It is an odd thing.
We were rather.. uhm.. active in the beginning (7 hours sex marathon was not uncommon! Or sex in crazy places ).

But... With time, he just.. lost all interest in sex.

We are truly good parents together! We compliment eachother really well, and he got this.. need to take care of me, and pamper me.
Just.. no sex...

Only if I truly, truly beg.. but.. then I feel like a chore on his list.. And, that kinda sucks.

So.. I have my toys!!

I'm currently protesting being a chore by refusing to beg and waiting for him to come to me. This is working out even worse for me, so now I am pissed and digging in further. This does not seem to be a winning strategy,

 

[Cat]

I'm currently protesting being a chore by refusing to beg and waiting for him to come to me. This is working out even worse for me, so now I am pissed and digging in further. This does not seem to be a winning strategy,

This is one of those cases.. Where I do not know; whether to whether to cry or laugh..
- being me, and always seeing things from a.. albeit pitch black.. humourous point of view..I had to laugh a bit.

Yeah.. I have had this talk with him.. he ended up buying even more expensive toys for me...

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

This is one of those cases.. Where I do not know; whether to whether to cry or laugh..
- being me, and always seeing things from a.. albeit pitch black.. humourous point of view..I had to laugh a bit.

Yeah.. I have had this talk with him.. he ended up buying even more expensive toys for me...

hell, I demanded more or an open relationship and eventually he came back and gave me the ok on the open relationship. like damn.

 

[NEOhio1972]

Married over 20 years we‘re both 50ish, kids in their late teens. Over the years her sex drive sunk very low and she became completely uninterested in the kinky side which sucks because she was the one I had felt I could and was really open with.

Also until recently I hadn’t realized how high my sex drive was and it still shows no signs of diminishing. We both continue to try and we’re back to maybe once every few weeks, but completely vanilla (still good) I try and manage my disappointment and take care of my needs solo, sometimes with her holding me which feels nice and stops me going crazy. We have a really happy life this is just the one thing, just feels lonely sometimes.

Seems very reminiscent..... Shouldn't be that complicated, but it is..... You take it however you both, or even just you can enjoy!!

 

[Cat]

hell, I demanded more or an open relationship and eventually he came back and gave me the ok on the open relationship. like damn.

Yup... I did not even demand an open relationship... He offered it to me!!

I mean.. oh.. darn it.. so, he would rather that other guys fucked me.. well.. I mean.. some day.. I am going to enjoy that gift.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Yup... I did not even demand an open relationship... He offered it to me!!

I mean.. oh.. darn it.. so, he would rather that other guys fucked me.. well.. I mean.. some day.. I am going to enjoy that gift.

I do occasionally. I don't know how to meet people anymore though. So I am occasionally recycling old friends. Someday I will find where local horny men hide though.

 

[Cat]

I do occasionally. I don't know how to meet people anymore though. So I am occasionally recycling old friends. Someday I will find where local horny men hide though.

When you do find that cave, the horny man cave... Please tell me where to look.. I mean.. I am just not going to do any dating.
I am waaaaaay too old and out of routine.. I just want sex.. preferably.. soon!

 

[Mr_bogey]

Yup... I did not even demand an open relationship... He offered it to me!!

I mean.. oh.. darn it.. so, he would rather that other guys fucked me.. well.. I mean.. some day.. I am going to enjoy that gift.

I'm so sorry. I had no idea. When you are ready to open that gift, I'd be happy to help.

 

[Mr_bogey]

I do occasionally. I don't know how to meet people anymore though. So I am occasionally recycling old friends. Someday I will find where local horny men hide though.

Look to the north.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

Infrequent and rare.
Married for 11 years.
2 kids.
- He lost the desire for sex.

popcorn finder ‘ omfg ,


A fellow space pirate , her Rocket s , in distress!!


try a anew ️ source to start them engines. Kissing him on the cheek. Three times a day. Randomly, when he asks , why , what , huh ?

smile at him full frontal , and say , cause I love U today.

leave him wondering
a little confused

then say , that’s my rocket launcher

what do U-say , wishing you the best

 

[YoWhatsGood]

I do occasionally. I don't know how to meet people anymore though. So I am occasionally recycling old friends. Someday I will find where local horny men hide though.

When you do find that cave, the horny man cave... Please tell me where to look.. I mean.. I am just not going to do any dating.
I am waaaaaay too old and out of routine.. I just want sex.. preferably.. soon!

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Look to the north.

the gas station that sells pot? maybe but eh, they probably just want someone to make them a Dorito sandwich.

 

[positiveflirt]

When you do find that cave, the horny man cave...

I'm terrible at drawing so I can't draw you a map. Sorry

 

[Mr_bogey]

the gas station that sells pot? maybe but eh, they probably just want someone to make them a Dorito sandwich.

That sounds like the panhandle