How do you recognise a big cock without seeing it?

[nice90sguy]

I always find Feynman’s thoughts on this area illuminating:

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"Surely you're joking" quote

I've lived by that quote, since marrying somone who sees signs in license plates, and swears by horoscopes.
In fact there are few pages Feyman's autobiographies that I don't live by. The title of his second autobiography, "Why do you care what other people think" is my mantra. Note: that's "think", not "feel".

 

[Husky_Embrace]

When I posted this I was about to go to bed. Just taking iff my clothes, refreshing it, and bam, already 4 people had responded. When I got up later to feed the little one there were already 3 pages.

Lit is a strange thing sometimes.

Just to be clear to some: Big dicks aren't especially important to me. It's a guy thing and I never understood the appeal. After a certain size you can do enough positions, and only a select few are charmed if you go bigger. Would you rather have a big cock that not every woman wants to fuck with, or an average cock that can make millions scream in delight?

Besides, even if your cock is a disappointment (in the moment or permanently) you can still be a god of sex. You still have fingers. You still have a tongue. Talk to her. Stimulate her.

I liked the porn references. It is ridiculous if you think about it. "Here is the clit. One of the most sensitive organs of the female body. Let's bear down on it like an elephant and rub it as if you're a Parkinson's patient on speed." The big cock is similar. It takes care, unless you're lucking out with the woman you've got in front of you.

Then we have death and the comments on the laws of probability, sentient pricks, big black cock dinosaurs (love the feathers by the way), and the one person trying to get back on track and talking about ringfinger length.

I like it, yet I'm always overwhelmed by the amount of responses. How can you react to it?

 

[crookedletter]

It occurs to me this question could also be an exercise in making use of sensory details beyond visual descriptors.

What does a big cock sound like?

 

[NuclearFairy]

It occurs to me this question could also be an exercise in making use of sensory details beyond visual descriptors.

What does a big cock sound like?

Depends on the cock, some of them go, "Cock-a-doodle-doo," while the prettier ones sound a bit more like Fran Drescher screaming.

Oh wait, you meant human cocks again. I have no clue, do they even make a sound?

 

[crookedletter]

Oh wait, you meant human cocks again. I have no clue, do they even make a sound?

Well, however you meant it, I'm going with:

the prettier ones sound a bit more like Fran Drescher screaming.

 

[JessiQueVix]

When I posted this I was about to go to bed. Just taking iff my clothes, refreshing it, and bam, already 4 people had responded. When I got up later to feed the little one there were already 3 pages.

You made a wonderful post and brought a very interesting topic to discussion. Specially, its Interesting for us ladies.

Just to be clear to some: Big dicks aren't especially important to me. It's a guy thing and I never understood the appeal. After a certain size you can do enough positions, and only a select few are charmed if you go bigger. Would you rather have a big cock that not every woman wants to fuck with, or an average cock that can make millions scream in delight?

Very true indeed. I would prefer something normal other than those monster we see generally in porn. I always say, its better when its perfect. Very intellectual post from an intellectual person.

 

[Voboy]

It occurs to me this question could also be an exercise in making use of sensory details beyond visual descriptors.

What does a big cock sound like?

I like writing about things other than sight: weight, perhaps. Or a solid-sounding thwack as it emerges from a waistband to land in a delighted partner's hand.

So. It sounds like a solid-sounding thwack.

 

[ADirtyPerv]

I like writing about things other than sight: weight, perhaps. Or a solid-sounding thwack as it emerges from a waistband to land in a delighted partner's hand.

So. It sounds like a solid-sounding thwack.

One of my favorite erotica tropes is the cockhead uppercut, when the pants come down and the other person didn't back up enough. So to me it sounds like the thwack followed by an excited oof / lusty laughter.

 

[JessiQueVix]

It occurs to me this question could also be an exercise in making use of sensory details beyond visual descriptors.

What does a big cock sound like?

To a girthy cock, if its colliding against the face, it might sound "thack" to me

 

[Britva415]

Which kinda makes me wonder: what is that phenomenon, anyway?

Grower vs shower?

My hypothesis is that it's about the nervous system.

So, generally, not in-born except to the extent that nervous system tone itself is in-born, which is to say, not very much at all compared to how the nervous system develops in life.

Based on exercises I have done, I think showing is related to relaxation in general, but especially relaxation of the pelvic floor muscles. And growing is just what happens to everyone - the showers just have less growing to do to get to fully hard.

 

[EmilyMiller]

Based on exercises I have done

Definitive proof of what occupies the male brain…

 

[alohadave]

Definitive proof of what occupies the male brain…

No one cares what equipment a man has like another man.

It's like guys at the gym. You might think guys are trying to impress women. Nope, a lot of it is trying to impress other guys. Hence ego lifts and tight gym gear.

 

[EmilyMiller]

You might think guys are trying to impress women. Nope, a lot of it is trying to impress other guys.

That’s the theory behind a lot of on-line misogyny as well. Not that the posters are necessarily true haters of women (some clearly are of course) but that they are seeking the approval of other men (or at least a bizarro subset of them); supposedly showing their ‘strength,’ or some dumb shit like that.

 

[Kumquatqueen]

I've lived by that quote, since marrying somone who sees signs in license plates, and swears by horoscopes.
In fact there are few pages Feyman's autobiographies that I don't live by. The title of his second autobiography, "Why do you care what other people think" is my mantra. Note: that's "think", not "feel".

Since reading Surely you're Joking, as a teenager, I've tried to abide by his attitude to "You try to find out if it's a window or not", ie don't be afraid to ask the stupid question everyone else is too embarrassed to.

As opposed to my kid, who was inspired to take up lockpicking (and helped save a friend from an embarrassing incident by opening a padlocked toilet in under 30 seconds!)

My character Richie has that name for a reason - it's what Feynman was called.

Back on the subject of cock, it's interesting that women if they care about dimensions at all, want more girth, but men never seem to even mention it.

 

[JessiQueVix]

Back on the subject of cock, it's interesting that women if they care about dimensions at all, want more girth, but men never seem to even mention it.

its because men mostly dont understand women psychology. Like what inner or lingerie a lady is wearing has impact on man but the men's undergarment or its color doesnt create impact on most ladies. But i dont think men understand this in a lot of cases.

 

[Djmac1031]

How do you recognise a big cock without seeing it?

Hmm. Touch? Taste? Smell?

No, scratch that last one, that only works for "washed" or "unwashed."

 

[JessiQueVix]

Hmm. Touch? Taste? Smell?

No, scratch that last one, that only works for "washed" or "unwashed."

True

 

[Britva415]

Definitive proof of what occupies the male brain…

They were prescribed for an actual condition

The side effect was a novel discovery definitely not something I anticipated or even thought about beforehand

 

[Britva415]

Specifically we're talking about "reverse kegels." It's the opposite of a kegel - instead of tightening there, it's getting those same muscles to relax.

Apparently excessive amounts tone in those muscles, and by extension, the nerves innervating them, has an effect rather like cold water. This is where the "grower" finds himself before relaxing and getting hard. The "shower's" baseline just isn't as honey-I-shrunk-the-junk

 

[M_K_Babalon]

I look in the mirror.

 

[SimonDoom]

If you don't SEE a cock, is it really there?

 

[JessiQueVix]

If you don't SEE a cock, is it really there?

lets say you are in a public place. And you look at yourself over your pants. Cant see it. So you dont have it?

 

[MillieDynamite]

If cock gets hard in a forest of hair, never poking out to be seen, are you actually a man?

 

[SimonDoom]

lets say you are in a public place. And you look at yourself over your pants. Cant see it. So you dont have it?

Well if it's mine, I can feel it, and that's different. But we're talking, I think, about cocks from the third person point of view.

 

[JessiQueVix]

Well if it's mine, I can feel it, and that's different. But we're talking, I think, about cocks from the third person point of view.

in that case other than you, who will have cock?