How frequently would you want to have sex with someone, if you could?

@ 62 I’d love averaging three sexual interludes (doesn’t have to always include coitus) a week w more for special occasions, traveling etc…
 
I will forever be perplexed by my partner. In the beginning, sex was almost every day but over time, it just ceased being important for her. Horniness and masturbation appear to be total alien concepts to her. After much "discussion", we have arrived at an uneasy truce where sex is offered every other day. Not ideal or healthy for a relationship but it is what it is. She seems to enjoy the sex quite a bit but if it stopped tomorrow, I think she would shrug and go about her day without another thought. **shrug**
 
I will forever be perplexed by my partner. In the beginning, sex was almost every day but over time, it just ceased being important for her. Horniness and masturbation appear to be total alien concepts to her. After much "discussion", we have arrived at an uneasy truce where sex is offered every other day. Not ideal or healthy for a relationship but it is what it is. She seems to enjoy the sex quite a bit but if it stopped tomorrow, I think she would shrug and go about her day without another thought. **shrug**
Pretty sure that's always the case in every marriage though, sorry to hear that. Sex with other people is important to them after a few years.
 
Pretty sure that's always the case in every marriage though, sorry to hear that. Sex with other people is important to them after a few years.
No, it's NOT a given it happens in every marriage. Also it doesn't inevitably lead to cheating or wanting to open the marriage.

However, it may be caused by not really being satisfied (not knowing what they want, or sex not being fulfilling due to partner, or incompatibility). Or being exhausted or depressed or stressed. Heck, I'd be too tired to have sex every other day despite wanting to.... And premenopause can already mix things up, too. Or p-pills.
 
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