How Much Do i Love My Master?

[lil_slave_rose]

This is not a hijack.

I have had a pm about this thread telling me that the hijacks in here have been disrespectful to the person who started this thread. Why they chose to pm me, I have no idea. The pm did not state my name so perhaps others received the same pm and the person used copy/paste.

However, I want to clarify my thoughts on this.

I don't see the questions asked or the conversational change as disrespectful, nor do I see suggesting a blog is used as an alternative as being disrespectful.

When people ask questions in order to understand a situation it is not a hijack or be disrespectful of a poster.
It is the opposite, it is about trying to ensure that the original poster understand the potential ramifications of what they have put. It is easy to post without seeing something from every angle, questions raised bring up discussion and thoughts to enhance knowledge and understanding.


It is not about 'how much you love someone' if you want to write that several times a day, no-one will stop you.
It is about ensuring within posts that say such things that people do not open opportunities to make themselves vulnerable to others.
IMO by inviting other Doms to give her Master instruction, the op potentially opened up a door to allow lurkers, wannabes and others to manipulate her, her Master and their relationship.

Now, I am sure the person who pm'd me reads this thread. I would politely ask you to keep any comments made to me in the public forum. That way there is nothing hidden or underhand in anything said. Thank you

the OP'er was not the one being questioned. and i have tried to stay quiet and to Dave and His lil one i am sorry but i had to say this, Master and myself were chastised on another thread for 'banter' (Master praising me for advice i gave and then He went on to give HIs own advice to the OP'er) that supposedly brought the thread we were posting in off topic, yet, if an 'experienced' poster hijacks a thread, it's a whole other story, and that to me, is wrong and disrespectful. no, the original words were not 'ruined' by the hijacking, however will other subs feel that they can give their tribute to their Master in peace without fear of being questioned? probably not, that is how i see that the thread was ruined. and now i will stop with my 'hijack' and once again say that i am terribly sorry to Dave and His lil one, but i couldn't keep my fingers off the keyboard anymore. can we please get back to the topic at hand and see some more subbies pouring their hearts out to their Sir?

 

[tenedave]

Just so there is no confusion i am the person that PM'D shy slave.
I have pasted the original and my replies below to show there is nothing underhanded
Would you paint over the "mona lisa"
Would you write over "romeo and juliet"
Just because it happens all the time does not make it right.It is about RESPECT and none was shown to the thread and its intentions.
Dave

(private conversations are not to be posted without permission)

You talk of my lack of respect yet you can't even read the thread properly.the thread was set up for subs to pay tribute to their Masters.
Also if you look closely you will see it was not my little one that asked other Doms to PM her.So please get your facts right before you attempt to put me down for protcting me and mine.
Dave


As you can see it ok for cat and Jm to have a opinion but if someone disagrees then all hell breaks loose and the reason i did all of this by pm was so that i did not contribute to ruining my little ones thread.
Dave

 

[shy slave]

I need to check the forum rules.

I was not aware that we were able to make pm's public knowledge with the orginal persons consent.

Again, a lack of respect showing up.

Life is unequal.

I am wondering why you chose to pm me and not jump on others.

Ahhh well, I will never know, now

The ignore button is calling

 

[tenedave]

I need to check the forum rules.

I was not aware that we were able to make pm's public knowledge with the orginal persons consent.

Again, a lack of respect showing up.

Life is unequal.

I am wondering why you chose to pm me and not jump on others.

Ahhh well, I will never know, now

The ignore button is calling

Press it i have no problem with that.But you were not the only i sent a pm too.if you ask those concerned will tell you i'm sure.
As for making your PM public i apologise for not asking first yes that did show direspect.
But it was only done to show that everything i said in reply to you was justified and not underhanded as you tried yo insinuate.
Dave

 

[the captians wench]

I think this is getting way out of hand.

there are a lot of hurt emotions and strong opionions here, and maybe we all need to agree to just drop it.

I understand that tenedave and his pet would be upset that the thread ran off topic. I understand how some one may feel that the hijack might detur from the original meaning of the thread.

I also understand that there was a ligitimate concern for a poster's post. There was a potential danger in what she asked for.

I can understand how shy feels violated for having her pm's posted.

I can understand tenedave's reasons for posting them.

Yes hijacks happen, here and in life. Infact when my family has a converstation we go from one topic to another and then back to the first with out a pause.

There is sometimes a higherachy of sorts here, but you find that anywhere. That's life.

It really saddens me that this has carried on so long.

 

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[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[SweetErika]

As you can see it ok for cat and Jm to have a opinion but if someone disagrees then all hell breaks loose and the reason i did all of this by pm was so that i did not contribute to ruining my little ones thread.
Dave

I don't see that as the issue at all. From my viewpoint, Cat and JM raised concerns about the content of one of the posts IN this thread, and people conversed about it. That's not hijacking, IMO. Hijacking would be people making off-topic posts/conversation, like talking about the weather, personal matters, their favorite toys, etc., in this thread, instead of creating an off-shoot (related) discussion based on the content of an on-topic post in the thread.

This is a free speech site, meaning EVERYONE is allowed to post whatever they want within the rules of the site. Cat, JM, you, me, and everyone else here can all have whatever opinions we want, and post them wherever we want, providing we're not violating the rules.

Other boards have rules on hijacking/side conversations and restrictions on what can be posted (i.e. they're not free speech sites), so if you are that upset by what's happened in this thread, perhaps you'd be wise to find another site that suits your needs on this issue better. The blog is a great idea, too - you can not only restrict who views and posts, but you can delete any comments you deem unfit/detrimental to the tribute!

Otherwise, become proficient in the fine art of skimming, like the rest of us; when I read threads, I only read about the first sentence or two of posts, and if it eludes to being something I won't like, I continue on to skim subsequent posts until I find ones I want to read. How easy is that?

 

[Kajira Callista]

this thread needs some cookies or reeses....where are grace and ADR?

 

[Kajira Callista]

btw it is against the rules to post a pm...maybe someone should let a mod or two know?

 

[lil_slave_rose]

wow, this all just amazes me. total disrespect for someone else's thoughts and feelings about their Master. maybe not everyone feels like putting it out there for everyone to see, that's fine, but why on earth should anyone be put down for doing it? i just don't know what else to say, except my love for my Master is far from 'puppy love' as one person put it, and if you don't like the type of thread, no one says you have to read it, but why the heck do we have to put others down?

 

[the captians wench]

wow, this all just amazes me. total disrespect for someone else's thoughts and feelings about their Master. maybe not everyone feels like putting it out there for everyone to see, that's fine, but why on earth should anyone be put down for doing it? i just don't know what else to say, except my love for my Master is far from 'puppy love' as one person put it, and if you don't like the type of thread, no one says you have to read it, but why the heck do we have to put others down?

That no one forces you to read a thread subject has been touched upon before, sweetie....let's just say it was an ugly subject too.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

That no one forces you to read a thread subject has been touched upon before, sweetie....let's just say it was an ugly subject too.

*nods* i just don't understand i guess, why a forum of adults, have to act like this and why, now that everyone has said what they have to say, can it not be dropped, why does the hijacking have to continue? ok so they raised some valid questions about one person's posts, got it, can we move on now?

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[Kajira Callista]

*nods* i just don't understand i guess, why a forum of adults, have to act like this and why, now that everyone has said what they have to say, can it not be dropped, why does the hijacking have to continue? ok so they raised some valid questions about one person's posts, got it, can we move on now?

it seems to me that the only reason this thread hasn't moved on is because of posts like yours. i can't even figure out how you got the hijack idea in all of your heads. threads evolve...this one evolved. To me that is growth and a chance to learn a bit more...to you it is annoying because you (or your friend there) are no longer in the spotlight.

 

[Kajira Callista]

Because I'm grumpy.

Because IMO Cat and JM both raised valid points, relating to things said int he thread and people got pissy about it.

Because I'm grumpy.

Because lately there is a wave of new people in the forum, who are overthemoonOMGMasteristheBESTBESTBESTMasterontheplanet people, most of them are LDR/online relationships, and half the time what I read makes me want to thwap someone upside the head and tell them to 'effing center themselves before they get hurt (emotionally, mentally, or physically).

And in case I forgot to mention it... because I'm grumpy.

Apologies to those who are as offended by my words, as I (occasionally) am by their's.

I like you grumpy....it is kinda Domme-ish and hot.

 

[tenedave]

btw it is against the rules to post a pm...maybe someone should let a mod or two know?

And i did apologise for that error.

 

[Kajira Callista]

4. You may not post personal information of other members or, for that matter, anyone else. We do not allow phone numbers, email addresses, private messages or quotes from private emails to be posted on the forum. This rule also covers real names, employment info, and any other personal information that we deem inappropriate.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

it seems to me that the only reason this thread hasn't moved on is because of posts like yours. i can't even figure out how you got the hijack idea in all of your heads. threads evolve...this one evolved. To me that is growth and a chance to learn a bit more...to you it is annoying because you (or your friend there) are no longer in the spotlight.

first of all, it has NOTHING to do with me being in the spotlight, and i'm not the one who continues this..we are all guilty, and i was defending a friend, yes i was, and i agree the points that were raised were valid on that person's post, but that was over with and now it's gotten downright ugly with the 'put downs' about how people feel about their Master. i realize i'm a 'newbie' to this site and id on't have over 1,000 posts and many in PM's told me this is the way it is when you are new, but i think it's unfair and disrespectful, just because you have more posts on this site than me does not make you better than me, nor does it make your relationship better than mine and that is how everyone on this site acts. and it saddens me. anyway, i'm done with this, i've wasted too much of my time on it anyway....

 

[Kajira Callista]

first of all, it has NOTHING to do with me being in the spotlight, and i'm not the one who continues this..we are all guilty, and i was defending a friend, yes i was, and i agree the points that were raised were valid on that person's post, but that was over with and now it's gotten downright ugly with the 'put downs' about how people feel about their Master. i realize i'm a 'newbie' to this site and id on't have over 1,000 posts and many in PM's told me this is the way it is when you are new, but i think it's unfair and disrespectful, just because you have more posts on this site than me does not make you better than me, nor does it make your relationship better than mine and that is how everyone on this site acts. and it saddens me. anyway, i'm done with this, i've wasted too much of my time on it anyway....

hmmm where exactly did i say i though i was better then anyone here?
Maybe you ought to get ta know people before you make assumptions.

 

[tenedave]

Tenedaves pet:

In an effort to make amends for my role in this hijack (and presence on a thread on which I really don't belong!), I offer a link to the thread, Submissives/Slaves how do you like to serve?. Perhaps you will enjoy reading some of the tributes written there as well.[/QUOTE]


This is the first point that the word hijacking was used on this thread by JM.
It was not me.
But it seems that us people that are new to the board cannot question the motives of the people that have been here longer.If this a closed board please let everyone know first.
Dave

 

[lil_slave_rose]

i was speaking in general not to anyone in specific, sorry if you felt i was talking to you. i quoted what you said to answer your comments about me being in the spotlight and that was it, the rest was in general.

 

[Kajira Callista]

Tenedaves pet:

In an effort to make amends for my role in this hijack (and presence on a thread on which I really don't belong!), I offer a link to the thread, Submissives/Slaves how do you like to serve?. Perhaps you will enjoy reading some of the tributes written there as well.

This is the first point that the word hijacking was used on this thread by JM.
It was not me.
But it seems that us people that are new to the board cannot question the motives of the people that have been here longer.If this a closed board please let everyone know first.
Dave[/QUOTE]
because JM was polite you feel this board is a closed one?
That doesnt make much sense to me...once again im gonna say;
Ring around the rosey
A pocketful of posies
Ashes, ashes
We all fall down

 

[tenedave]

Maybe you ought to get ta know people before you make assumptions.

But is ok for you to make assumtions about Lil Rose being in the spotlight or my little one for that matter?
Dave

 

[Kajira Callista]

But is ok for you to make assumtions about Lil Rose being in the spotlight or my little one for that matter?
Dave

There is a difference between assumption and opinion. You are and have been railroading this thread all along and saying everyone else is...maybe it is you who needs the spotlight? hmmmm?