How Much Do i Love My Master?

[Evil_Geoff]

"screw you"

I should be so lucky, Netzach!

 

[Netzach]

I should be so lucky, Netzach!

LOL and if you thought the prior hijack would piss everyone off, you should see THIS one...

 

[Ebonyfire]

Get used to it Dave. This is the Cafe, no one owns or controls a thread and once it's started it can, and will, go anywhere the posters feel like going. The OP doesn't own it or control it, the mods don't own it (though they can delete or move a thread if it really gets out of line) not you, not me, not anyone.

Such is the nature of free-flowing conversation. This is not a static or strictly moderated bulletin board. To expect that the only people to post will be pyl's singing praises to their PYL's is totally unrealistic. You'll get PYL's replying to their pyl's, you will get ex's venting sour grapes, you will get those who agree with certain opinions and those who disagree with those opinions and those who agreed in the first place. You will get Me too's and me three's and "Shop at www.wtfisthat.com" posts. Gracie may come along and sprinkle cookie dust on your thread...

Don't be surprised if you get some trolls along the way too.

The quicker you accept that you have absolutely zero control over the conversation, none, nada, zilch.. and none over where it goes after a thread is started, the sooner you realize that the only way to keep a thread remotely on track is to keep posting messages based on the original premise, the quicker you will feel less frustrated, the sooner you will find acceptance, the easier it will be to keep the conversation on track.

You guide the conversation by gently nudging it in the direction you wish to go. Protestations and brute force won't work.

We now return you to your regularly scheduled thread posting...

Well put EG.

We are all supposed to be adults and as such resist being told by others what to do. I know I do. When you put a post out there, you never know how others will see it.

Eb

 

[A Desert Rose]

this thread needs some cookies or reeses....where are grace and ADR?

HA!!!

I don't share my Reese's with strangers... you know that, dollface! And now, look what you've done... caused me to hijack another thread!!!


LMAO

So to be on topic... IF I had a Master, I'd probably love Him with all my .

 

[catalina_francisco]

show me where i've been disrespectful, i have stated facts about the way new people are treated on this board, and believe me when Master and i were chastised i had PLENTY of PM's telling me that's the way it is with every new person 'an initiation stage' i believe one person called it. so yea, i pointed it out and said i thought it was wrong, but i was never disrespectful to anyone though i've been disrespected many times, told my love for my Master is puppy love (no it wasn't said straight to me but it was meant for the newbies on the board as stated) just because i am 'new' to this board does not mean i'm new to the lifestyle...no one knows me nor do they know my relationship with my Master and if i feel the need to tell the world how i feel about Him in a thread that was MADE for that reason, why is that wrong and why should i be put down for it? i'm really wasting my time because like i said earlier, i don't have over 1,000 posts so my opinions and feelings don't matter.

lsr, don't go getting paranoid on us. No one here, including yourself and your Master gets any special treatment either way because you are new or for any other reason. Sheesh, as you have seen in this thread alone, I still get flamed and questioned and jumped on at goodness knows how many on my thread count, 4 years here, and being Moderator....am I still a newbie? If not, why do I still keep getting so picked on?!! (stamps foot and jumps around clutching the arthritic bones which complained!!) Despite your reference to a particular situation yet again in yet another thread, you have felt comfortable enough to continue the behaviour which brought about complaints of hijacking a few weeks ago, both posting in identical style as recently as yesterday. How many posts you make, how long you have been here has nothing to do with how you or anybody is treated by others...how you treat others, respect their rights on the forum, and choose to behave in light of that knowledge can though. You want your feelings and opinions respected while here? So do others....for the most part that happens.



Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

and that probably stems from the fact that you have a 24/hr power control going on. Her free will is still intact, she just knows im her master and if any guidelines or rules are broken she's punished accordingly. She has tasks, orders, etc etc, but i dont dictate everything she must do in day to day life. She serves me well and thats all i ask of her. She is alloud to have friends, acquantences, if they happen to be doms or other subs with advice, then thats circumstace, not that she's seeking out other domes to take my place, she knows better ^_~

Actually no, being 24/7 has nothing to do with it. When I was looking for the one for me I had contact with a lot of Dominants, experienced and new, and all of them were not interested in having a sub who was interested in seeking contact with others Dominants, especially on their own initiative, and more especially to ask how their own Dominant should conduct the relationship. They not only saw it as a red flag that the sub may like to keep a casual foot in the singles market just incase, but also saw it as overstepping the boundaries of being a submissive and possibly even entertaining topping from the bottom, and disrespectful. Did that mean the submissive was not allowed to have friends of both genders, sub and Dom/me, and make their own choices in particular places in their lives? No, it just meant they were not about to have a sub who was seeking contact with other Dominants on the excuse they were wanting to help their own Dominant improve themselves.

Being in a 24/7 relationship does not mean you give yup who you are, or you no longer have the right to friends and responsibilities. LOL, any slave who thought that was what it was about as far as a Master like F is concerned would be in for a very rude shock. My role is based on a no limits level, and is also based on my talents and strengths in that he can utilise them to the best for his own purposes...many of those areas include making decisions and conducting business on his behalf and based on what I know he would want and need more so than running to him for instruction. As to having friends, I am free to have as many friends as I wish, as long as when he requires my presence and service I am there for him, and at all other times I am operating according to his rules and needs. It is very simple really, but is not easy for one who might think such freedom to think and make judgements might leave the way open for moving beyond and into areas which could be misinterpreted by some as seeking help or connection with those who could see themselves as the Dominant's rival, real or imagined. If I started seeking PM's or calls from Dominants he would be just as concerned as if I were going dining and dancing with single males without his presence or request.

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

TO catalina and JMohegan for ruining something so beautiful that my little one started.It was meant as a place where subs could each post their tributes about their Masters,Not a place where 2 EXPERIANCED members could turn on another member because they did not like what was written.

Sheesh, one thing you need to learn and which was explained to the thread starter privately when help was sought is that starting a thread does not give ownership or rights to steer the thread in a particular direction, nor guarantee it will turn out the way the thread starter might have intended. I gather you did not like that I was not able to guarantee the thread would remain a tribute thread for you from your sub and other such subs, nor that it was forum practice to rigidly enforce that it remain on a line your sub wanted.

I have not turned on anyone, nor have I done anything to harm her thread except respectfully and politely discuss a particular situation someone was posting about and which other members who have experience also mentioned they found unusual. It may well be innocent, but it resembles many situations I and others have seen which were said to be innocent but which turned out to not be so in the end...around here you will find we often voice our concerns when something doesn't smell or sound right and we know it may see someone inexperienced getting hurt....especially when that same inexperienced person admits to welcoming guidance and help in their journey. That is the beauty of this forum, it has a history of sharing lots of information based on real experience, and supporting people in good times and bad regardless of whether we know them well or not. This is a tribute thread, fine, but like with most threads, it does lead to other conversations related to or on a tangent with the original topic, this one being Dominants and submissives and their relationships. We all learn throughout the various parts of our journeys, this is a place where a lot of that learning can be share and/or sparked. How a thread affects you or your sub can only be controlled by you and her, not by trying to control others.

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

Press it i have no problem with that.But you were not the only i sent a pm too.if you ask those concerned will tell you i'm sure.
As for making your PM public i apologise for not asking first yes that did show direspect.
But it was only done to show that everything i said in reply to you was justified and not underhanded as you tried yo insinuate.
Dave

As I am still wading through all this as I am sure by my posts is obvious, I will post the rules incase there is still any doubt or inability to locate them. In particular, #4 refers to not posting private messages or emails as well as other persoinal information. I am puzzled tenedave as to why you never PMed me if you were so upset with me, and bothered to PM other people about your complaints as you have mentioned.

Catalina

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[catalina_francisco]

Because lately there is a wave of new people in the forum, who are overthemoonOMGMasteristheBESTBESTBESTMasterontheplanet people

Hey, I'm offended...I want one of these 'MasteristheBESTBESTBESTMasterontheplanet' types NOW!!! Where do you get them?!! Mine does a lot of things I vary in finding very disagreeable to marvellous depending on the mood, moment, and timing...and sometimes when I am particularly grumpy or brave (aka stoopid ) I might even grumble under my breath what I think or feel....damn him for having selective hearing which is ultra good when I say something bad. Overall though I wouldn't trade him for the variety who never : fart, sniffle, make mistakes, look less than godly, have b.o., complain about nothing, ask the impossible of me, expect me to keep going even when I feel like shit, point out my weaknesses and expect me to improve on them, get cranky for no reason, forget things, miss blatent things like I have PMS before it's too late, whinge, nag, demand, act spoiled, demand perfection when they don't believe in it, ask anything of me they know I won't like or want to do, ask for a coffee for the 20th time in a day just after I have sat down or started on something else, swear they didn't or did say something they either didn't or did, change the rules and expect me to remember, piss me off just because they feel like it. My Master does all those things and I still worship him, though I can be honest enough to admit sometimes I think (nah, know) he is a bastard and he not only knows it, but he loves it.

Catalina

 

[incubus'_sub]

LOL, Ditto Cat. Fortunately for us both Francisco & Incubus possess enough dignity & self confidence not to require us to write devotional drivel on a public forum to prove our lurve & submission.

CutieMouse. Bravo. I really, really wanted to write a post like yours, but lacked the guts. Hell, I'm often seen as grumpy too.. Again, bravo.

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Lets all just bury the hatchet.

I came here to make friends and have some fun

 

[lil_slave_rose]

lsr, don't go getting paranoid on us. No one here, including yourself and your Master gets any special treatment either way because you are new or for any other reason. Sheesh, as you have seen in this thread alone, I still get flamed and questioned and jumped on at goodness knows how many on my thread count, 4 years here, and being Moderator....am I still a newbie? If not, why do I still keep getting so picked on?!! (stamps foot and jumps around clutching the arthritic bones which complained!!) Despite your reference to a particular situation yet again in yet another thread, you have felt comfortable enough to continue the behaviour which brought about complaints of hijacking a few weeks ago, both posting in identical style as recently as yesterday. How many posts you make, how long you have been here has nothing to do with how you or anybody is treated by others...how you treat others, respect their rights on the forum, and choose to behave in light of that knowledge can though. You want your feelings and opinions respected while here? So do others....for the most part that happens. Catalina

i am not paranoid. and my post was on things i have SEEN with my own eyes on the way people get treated here. yes i do still feel comfortable to post on this forum because i've made many friends also. i'm not quite sure what it is you are referring to that Master and i continue to do that is so wrong, if it's the bantering, we have stopped that pretty much and i also see everyone doing this also. i guess i'm just confused on what exactly we are doing 'wrong' that you keep saying we are doing *shrugs* it wasn't about the conversation brought on by the posting of asking for other Dom's to PM the submissive with suggestions, as i agreed that it didn't make sense, nor did the submissive having a "Mistress" user name. what i was referring to was the mean spirited hurtful down right disrespectful things that were said about those who chose to say something 'sweet' about their Dominants. it got ugly really quick, and that was what my comments were about. in the beginning i was chatting with you respectfully about your concerns for the submissive that posted the comment. and then all hell broke loose and insults and mean things started being said when they all came to defend you and JM.....anyway, as i said the other day i'm done with this...and hope we can all be adults and move on....

 

[submissiveknight]

Hey, I'm offended...I want one of these 'MasteristheBESTBESTBESTMasterontheplanet' types NOW!!! Where do you get them?!! Mine does a lot of things I vary in finding very disagreeable to marvellous depending on the mood, moment, and timing...and sometimes when I am particularly grumpy or brave (aka stoopid ) I might even grumble under my breath what I think or feel....damn him for having selective hearing which is ultra good when I say something bad. Overall though I wouldn't trade him for the variety who never : fart, sniffle, make mistakes, look less than godly, have b.o., complain about nothing, ask the impossible of me, expect me to keep going even when I feel like shit, point out my weaknesses and expect me to improve on them, get cranky for no reason, forget things, miss blatent things like I have PMS before it's too late, whinge, nag, demand, act spoiled, demand perfection when they don't believe in it, ask anything of me they know I won't like or want to do, ask for a coffee for the 20th time in a day just after I have sat down or started on something else, swear they didn't or did say something they either didn't or did, change the rules and expect me to remember, piss me off just because they feel like it. My Master does all those things and I still worship him, though I can be honest enough to admit sometimes I think (nah, know) he is a bastard and he not only knows it, but he loves it.

Catalina

Here Here!!! My Mistress loves asking for something as soon as I sit down or start doing something I have to get done, just to aggravate my already cranky mood. I worship my Princess and yes I grumble, but She will never let me see that smile cross Her face as She is pushing all my nerves!

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Hey, I'm offended...I want one of these 'MasteristheBESTBESTBESTMasterontheplanet' types NOW!!! Where do you get them?!! Mine does a lot of things I vary in finding very disagreeable to marvellous depending on the mood, moment, and timing...and sometimes when I am particularly grumpy or brave (aka stoopid ) I might even grumble under my breath what I think or feel....damn him for having selective hearing which is ultra good when I say something bad. Overall though I wouldn't trade him for the variety who never : fart, sniffle, make mistakes, look less than godly, have b.o., complain about nothing, ask the impossible of me, expect me to keep going even when I feel like shit, point out my weaknesses and expect me to improve on them, get cranky for no reason, forget things, miss blatent things like I have PMS before it's too late, whinge, nag, demand, act spoiled, demand perfection when they don't believe in it, ask anything of me they know I won't like or want to do, ask for a coffee for the 20th time in a day just after I have sat down or started on something else, swear they didn't or did say something they either didn't or did, change the rules and expect me to remember, piss me off just because they feel like it. My Master does all those things and I still worship him, though I can be honest enough to admit sometimes I think (nah, know) he is a bastard and he not only knows it, but he loves it.

Catalina

*grins* this post made me smile. i feel the same, and though i do think my Master is the best, i also know He is far from Perfect, and i do get annoyed, bitchy, down right pissed off at times with some of the things He says, does, or whatever, but that does not make Him any less than great, in my eyes. i don't want the 'perfect, never does anything wrong, almighty Sir, so great that i dare not even speak His name for fear of being punished' types.

 

[tenedaveslilslut]

Let's put this thread back up front again

i love my Master very much, with all my heart...with all my soul...with all my mind and i thank him so very much for loving me in return.

Now...won't you please share with us how much you love your Master/Mistress?

 

[the captians wench]

Let's put this thread back up front again

i love my Master very much, with all my heart...with all my soul...with all my mind and i thank him so very much for loving me in return.

Now...won't you please share with us how much you love your Master/Mistress?

*giggles*

So much to request for a year to switch my shift back to 4 ams so that I would be more adapt to his time and on line more when he is.

Not that I really minded the change all the much, I'm such a morning person anyway.

 

[Bandit58]

Let's put this thread back up front again

i love my Master very much, with all my heart...with all my soul...with all my mind and i thank him so very much for loving me in return.

Now...won't you please share with us how much you love your Master/Mistress?

I love mine so much that I married Him

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Now...won't you please share with us how much you love your Master/Mistress?

Bah! Humbug! *grump*

I have no Master or Mistress, I am one! I find that the exclusionary attitude by the elitist submissives and slaves to be totally incompatible with the free flowing exchange of ideas and information in an egalitarian collective. I am excluded from the marketplace!

Bah I say! Humbug! *harrumphharrumphharrumph*

For the humoursly challenged, this message was completely, totally, written with tongue in cheek. Who's tongue and which cheek I am too much of a gentleman to disclose.

 

[callinectes]

Bah! Humbug! *grump*

I have no Master or Mistress, I am one! I find that the exclusionary attitude by the elitist submissives and slaves to be totally incompatible with the free flowing exchange of ideas and information in an egalitarian collective. I am excluded from the marketplace!

Bah I say! Humbug! *harrumphharrumphharrumph*

For the humoursly challenged, this message was completely, totally, written with tongue in cheek. Who's tongue and which cheek I am too much of a gentleman to disclose.

I you Geoff!

 

[lil_slave_rose]

I you Geoff!

*smiles* i second that!

 

[the captians wench]

Bah! Humbug! *grump*

I have no Master or Mistress, I am one! I find that the exclusionary attitude by the elitist submissives and slaves to be totally incompatible with the free flowing exchange of ideas and information in an egalitarian collective. I am excluded from the marketplace!

Bah I say! Humbug! *harrumphharrumphharrumph*

For the humoursly challenged, this message was completely, totally, written with tongue in cheek. Who's tongue and which cheek I am too much of a gentleman to disclose.

Aweee...poor left out grumpy Geoff.... *puppy dog eyes*

If it makes you feel anybetter you can blush my cheeks a little more and I'll tell you what a good evil geoff you are.

That's right I'm shameless.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Aweee...poor left out grumpy Geoff.... *puppy dog eyes*

If it makes you feel anybetter you can blush my cheeks a little more and I'll tell you what a good evil geoff you are.

That's right I'm shameless.

Saaaaayyyyy... that sounds like fun! Something like...

(SWAT)*(SWAT)

This perhaps?

 

[myMastersCockSlut]

This is a great question

I was with my boyfriend for a few months before he asked me if I wanted to be his slave. I said OK. I love him so much as my boyfriend/lover/Master. He is incredible. I do wish he would be more dominate over me, not abusive, but more dominate. I want him to get more into bondage & punishment.

 

[tenedaveslilslut]